Buy This, Not That

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Introduction

Financial freedom isn't just about having money in the bank—it's about having the power to make life choices that align with your deepest values rather than being dictated by financial necessity. Imagine waking up each morning with a sense of possibility rather than obligation, knowing your time is truly your own. This journey toward freedom begins with understanding that wealth building isn't about deprivation or extreme frugality, but rather about making strategic choices that expand your options over time. The path to financial independence might seem daunting at first glance, but it becomes manageable when broken down into practical, actionable steps. By mastering key principles like building multiple income streams, optimizing your real estate decisions, and developing your unique strengths, you can create a life where work becomes optional. The strategies in these pages have helped thousands of ordinary people achieve extraordinary financial results—not through get-rich-quick schemes, but through consistent application of proven wealth-building approaches.

Chapter 1: Define Your Personal Freedom Equation

Financial freedom means something different to everyone. At its core, it's about having the ability to make choices based on what you want rather than what you need to survive. It's about waking up excited for the day ahead because you're living life on your terms. Sam Dogen discovered this truth when he left his high-stress banking job at age 34. After years of saving aggressively and building multiple income streams, he negotiated a severance package that bought him six years of living expenses. This financial cushion allowed him to pursue his passion project, Financial Samurai, without the pressure of needing immediate income. The freedom wasn't just about not working—it was about choosing work that energized him rather than depleted him. For Sam, freedom meant spending more time with family, writing, playing tennis, and connecting with people. But your version of freedom might look completely different. Perhaps it involves traveling the world, starting a business you're passionate about, or simply having more time for creative pursuits. The key is defining what truly matters to you. To find your happiness equation, start by envisioning what you would do if money were no object. Who would you spend time with? Where would you live? These questions help clarify what freedom means specifically to you. Remember that happiness equals reality minus expectations—when your life exceeds your expectations, you feel happier. Once you have a clear picture of your ideal life, put a price tag on it. Calculate how much your dream lifestyle would actually cost. For example, if you want to live in San Francisco with two children, you might need around $300,000 annually. If you prefer Austin with one child, perhaps $120,000 would provide a similar lifestyle. For a single person in Raleigh, $50,000 might be sufficient. Everyone's number will be different. The ultimate goal is to generate enough passive income to cover your expenses. Sam suggests aiming for a net worth equal to 20 times your annual income, or generating enough passive income to cover your best life's expenses. When your investments can support your lifestyle without depleting principal, you've achieved true financial freedom.

Chapter 2: Build Multiple Income Streams Strategically

Creating passive income is the cornerstone of financial freedom. While your day job might be your main source of income now, your objective is to leverage as much of that money as possible into passive and semi-passive investment streams that eventually support your lifestyle without requiring your time. Sam began this journey by saving aggressively and investing in various income-producing assets. He recommends first maxing out your tax-advantaged retirement accounts, then saving at least 20% of your after-tax income in taxable investments. This two-pronged approach is crucial because tax-advantaged accounts typically can't be accessed before age 59½ without penalties, while taxable investments can generate accessible passive income at any age. The Financial Freedom Saving Rate Chart illustrates how quickly you can achieve independence at different saving rates. At a 50% saving rate, you'll have accumulated 20 years' worth of living expenses after 20 years of work. At a 75% rate, you could accumulate 30 years' worth of expenses in just 10 years. The math is clear: the greater your saving rate, the sooner you reach financial independence. But where should you put this money? After analyzing various passive income sources based on risk, return, feasibility, liquidity, activity level, and tax implications, Sam ranks dividend investing, online real estate (REITs, crowdfunding), physical real estate, and creating your own products as the top options. Each has different advantages depending on your circumstances, risk tolerance, and interests. For example, dividend investing scores highest overall because it's completely passive, highly liquid, and accessible to anyone. Physical real estate offers excellent tax benefits and appreciation potential but requires more active management. Creating your own products (e-books, courses, etc.) can be highly rewarding with minimal startup capital but needs some ongoing maintenance. The key is diversification across multiple income streams. Sam suggests starting small by generating enough passive income to cover one small joy in your life—perhaps your weekly coffee habit. Calculate how much you need to invest at a realistic return rate to generate that specific amount. This "income tethering" approach makes saving more motivating than saving for saving's sake.

Chapter 3: Master the 30/30/3 Rule for Real Estate

Real estate is one of the most powerful wealth-building tools available to the average person. It's easy to understand, provides shelter, represents a tangible asset, doesn't lose value overnight like stocks, and generates income. However, buying property requires careful consideration to ensure it enhances rather than hinders your financial freedom. Sam created the 30/30/3 home-buying rule in 2009 to help people stay disciplined when purchasing property. This framework helps ensure you don't overspend on real estate, regardless of your circumstances. The rule consists of three parts: spend no more than 30% of your gross income on your monthly mortgage payment, have at least 30% of the home value saved in cash or semi-liquid assets before buying, and limit the value of your home to no more than 3 times your annual household gross income. Jessica and Michael, a couple earning a combined $150,000 annually, were eager to buy their dream home in an upscale neighborhood. Lenders pre-approved them for a $750,000 mortgage, which would have required monthly payments of about $4,000—nearly 40% of their gross monthly income. They were ready to proceed until they learned about the 30/30/3 rule at a financial workshop. After reassessing their situation, Jessica and Michael realized that following this rule would mean looking for a home around $450,000 instead. Initially disappointed, they expanded their search to neighborhoods they hadn't considered. They eventually found a well-maintained home in an up-and-coming area for $420,000. Their monthly mortgage payment came to $2,100, well within the 30% guideline, and they still had savings left for emergencies and investments. Three years later, their neighborhood had appreciated significantly, and their mortgage payment remained comfortable even when Michael took a temporary pay cut to pursue additional education. Meanwhile, several of their friends who had stretched to buy more expensive homes were struggling with financial stress and limited flexibility. To implement the 30/30/3 rule, first calculate your numbers: multiply your annual household income by 3 to determine your maximum home price, and ensure your monthly housing costs won't exceed 30% of your monthly gross income. Remember that housing costs include not just the mortgage but also property taxes, insurance, and maintenance. Before house hunting, build that 30% cash reserve—20% for the down payment and 10% for a financial buffer. This might mean delaying your purchase, but it will provide security and prevent you from becoming "house poor" with little money left for other goals or emergencies.

Chapter 4: Optimize Your Career for Maximum Returns

Your career is your greatest wealth-building tool, especially in the early stages of your financial journey. Making strategic career moves can dramatically accelerate your path to financial freedom by increasing your earning power and expanding your opportunities. Sam experienced this firsthand when he transitioned from his banking career to entrepreneurship. After thirteen years in finance, he negotiated a severance package that provided a financial cushion while he built Financial Samurai into a sustainable business. This strategic exit allowed him to pursue work he found meaningful while maintaining financial security. The first step in optimizing your career is to target high-paying industries. Sam recommends focusing on fields experiencing secular growth trends rather than cyclical ones. Technology, healthcare, and finance have consistently offered strong compensation packages and growth opportunities. Within these industries, certain roles—like software engineering, product management, or specialized healthcare positions—command premium salaries. Once you've identified promising industries, position yourself for success through education and skill development. This might mean pursuing additional certifications, taking online courses, or even going back to school for an advanced degree. Sam invested in his MBA from UC Berkeley, which helped him advance in his banking career and provided valuable knowledge for his entrepreneurial ventures later. Networking is another crucial element of career advancement. Sam built relationships throughout his industry by attending conferences, participating in professional organizations, and maintaining connections with former colleagues. These relationships provided insights into new opportunities and eventually helped him negotiate his severance package. When it comes to job changes, Sam suggests staying at each position for at least two years to demonstrate stability, but not more than five years if you're not seeing significant advancement. Job-hopping too frequently can raise red flags with employers, while staying too long in a stagnant position can limit your earning potential. The sweet spot is making strategic moves that show progression and increasing responsibility. Negotiation is perhaps the most underutilized career tool. Sam shares how he negotiated not just his severance but also numerous salary increases throughout his career. He recommends researching market rates for your position, documenting your achievements, and approaching negotiations with confidence backed by data. Even a 10% increase negotiated early in your career can compound to hundreds of thousands of dollars over your working years.

Chapter 5: Create Your X Factor Through Side Hustles

Your X factor is what sets you apart—a unique combination of skills, knowledge, and passion that can generate additional income streams beyond your primary job. Side hustles represent one of the most accessible ways to develop your X factor, accelerating your journey to financial freedom while providing fulfillment and security. Maria worked as an accountant with a stable but modest income. While she enjoyed the security of her job, she knew her salary alone wouldn't help her achieve her financial goals quickly enough. Reflecting on her skills and interests, Maria realized she had a talent for explaining complex financial concepts in simple terms—something her colleagues often praised her for. She started a financial literacy blog aimed at young professionals, writing articles during evenings and weekends. For the first six months, her site generated no income and attracted few visitors. Rather than giving up, Maria refined her approach, studying successful finance blogs and improving her content. She began creating downloadable budget templates and offering free webinars. By her second year, her blog was generating $1,500 monthly through affiliate partnerships, digital product sales, and sponsored content—all while helping others improve their financial lives. To discover your own X factor, conduct a personal inventory of your skills, experiences, and interests. Look for intersections between what you're good at, what you enjoy, and what others might pay for. The most sustainable side hustles align with your strengths while addressing market needs. Start small and focus on consistent action rather than perfect execution. Commit to specific time blocks for your side hustle—perhaps two hours each morning before work or dedicated weekend sessions. Protect this time as you would any important appointment. As your side hustle grows, reinvest a portion of the earnings to accelerate its development, whether through better equipment, education, or outsourcing tasks. Remember that developing your X factor isn't just about immediate income. The skills you build through side hustles—marketing, negotiation, problem-solving—enhance your value in your primary career as well. Many side hustlers report that their entrepreneurial experiences lead to promotions or better opportunities in their main jobs, creating a virtuous cycle of growth. Your X factor ultimately represents freedom—the ability to generate income on your own terms, independent of an employer's decisions or market conditions. Whether your goal is early retirement, career flexibility, or simply additional security, a well-developed side hustle provides options that traditional employment alone cannot offer.

Chapter 6: Diversify Assets with the Right Allocation Model

Building wealth requires putting your money to work in a risk-appropriate manner. Your goal should be to build a portfolio that's diversified across stocks, bonds, real estate, and potentially alternative investments. This diversification helps you maximize returns while minimizing risk. Sam emphasizes that your taxable investments are what will generate passive income for early financial freedom. Since you can't usually access tax-advantaged retirement accounts before age 59½ without penalties, you need to build substantial taxable investments alongside your 401(k) or IRA. Ideally, aim to accumulate 3 times more in taxable accounts than in tax-advantaged accounts. To guide your asset allocation strategy, Sam offers three models based on risk tolerance and life goals: Conventional, New Life, and Financial Samurai. The Conventional model is for those comfortable working until traditional retirement age, with a balanced approach to stocks, bonds, and real estate. The New Life model introduces alternative investments and entrepreneurship around age 40 for those seeking a midlife change. The Financial Samurai model aggressively bets on yourself, with a significant portion allocated to building your own business or side hustle. For example, under the Financial Samurai model, by age 30 you'd have 40% in stocks and bonds, 50% in real estate, 5% in risk-free assets, and 5% in your "X factor" (side business). By age 50, this shifts to 30% stocks and bonds, 20% real estate, 5% risk-free, 10% alternatives, and 35% in your X factor. This approach reflects the belief that you have better control over your financial future when investing in yourself. Within your stock and bond allocation, Sam recommends adjusting the balance based on your age. The traditional rule suggests subtracting your age from 100 to determine your stock percentage (e.g., 70% stocks at age 30). However, with longer lifespans, Sam suggests more aggressive approaches—either subtracting from 120 (New Life model) or maintaining higher stock allocations even longer (Financial Samurai model). For stock investments specifically, Sam recommends the "Index Plus" strategy: put 80%+ of your equity allocation in low-cost index funds or ETFs, with the remainder in individual stocks or active funds you believe in. This approach acknowledges that most active investors underperform indexes over time, while still giving you some opportunity to outperform the market. When selecting individual stocks, younger investors should favor growth stocks over dividend stocks. Growth companies reinvest profits to expand rather than paying dividends, offering greater potential for capital appreciation. As you age and approach retirement, gradually shift toward dividend stocks for income.

Chapter 7: Embrace the Financial Samurai Mindset

The Financial Samurai Way is a holistic approach to wealth building that balances aggressive saving with intentional living. Unlike extreme frugality or high-risk investing, this philosophy focuses on strategic decisions that maximize both financial growth and life satisfaction, creating sustainable progress toward financial freedom. Ryan, a marketing executive earning $120,000 annually, followed conventional financial advice by saving 15% of his income. While responsible, this approach would require decades to achieve financial independence. After learning about the Financial Samurai Way, Ryan implemented its core principles, starting with the 70/30 decision framework—making optimal choices 70% of the time while allowing flexibility for the remaining 30%. Ryan increased his savings rate to 35% by optimizing major expenses rather than cutting small pleasures. He moved to a slightly smaller apartment closer to work, eliminating his car payment and reducing commuting costs. Instead of dining out four times weekly, he became selective about two quality experiences while learning to cook nutritious meals at home. These changes felt sustainable because Ryan maintained spending on his true priorities—travel and continuing education—while cutting costs in areas that brought less satisfaction. To implement the Financial Samurai Way, start by identifying your "Big Three" expenses—typically housing, transportation, and food—which often consume 70% of most budgets. Optimizing these areas creates significant savings without feeling deprived. Apply the BURL principle (Buy Utility, Rent Luxury) by owning practical assets while renting occasional luxuries, maximizing both financial efficiency and life experiences. Next, develop multiple income streams to accelerate wealth building. Beyond your primary job, aim to create at least one passive and one active side income source. Even modest additional earnings, when consistently invested, dramatically reduce your time to financial independence. Remember that the Financial Samurai Way emphasizes balance, not sacrifice. Practice stealth wealth by focusing on financial security rather than status symbols. Build genuine relationships and prioritize experiences over possessions. Maintain physical and mental health alongside financial health, recognizing that true wealth includes wellbeing in all life dimensions. The ultimate goal isn't merely accumulating money but creating options—the freedom to make life choices based on personal values rather than financial necessity. By following this balanced approach, you'll progress steadily toward financial independence while enjoying the journey along the way.

Summary

Financial freedom isn't about accumulating wealth for its own sake—it's about creating a life where you can make choices based on what you want, not what you need to survive. Throughout this journey, remember that "progress is happiness." Each step forward, whether paying off debt, increasing your savings rate, or building passive income streams, brings you closer to living life on your own terms. The path to financial independence requires discipline, strategic thinking, and consistent action. As Sam writes, "Never fail due to a lack of effort, because effort requires no skill." You don't need special talents or advantages to achieve financial freedom—just the determination to follow a proven framework and the patience to let your wealth compound over time. Start today by defining what freedom means to you, setting clear net worth targets, and taking one concrete step toward building your first passive income stream.

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Sam Dogen

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