Sensitive

Sensitive Plot Summary

Introduction

It starts with a moment most of us know too well. Perhaps you're at a dinner party when a casual comment about politics turns the air electric with tension. While others jump eagerly into the debate, you find yourself quietly absorbing every flicker of emotion around the table. Your chest tightens as voices rise. Later, long after everyone has moved on to discussing vacation plans, you're still turning over the exchange in your mind, feeling the residual emotions like aftershocks. Or maybe you're at work when your colleague receives harsh feedback, and though it wasn't directed at you, you feel a wave of shame wash over you as if it were. That night, you lie awake replaying the scene, imagining how your colleague must have felt. This heightened awareness—this deeper processing of everything around you—isn't a weakness or flaw. It's sensitivity, a fundamental human trait that approximately 30 percent of people experience more intensely than others. Far from being a liability in our fast-paced, overstimulated world, sensitivity can be your greatest strength when properly understood and channeled. Throughout these pages, we'll explore how sensitivity shapes every aspect of life—from relationships and parenting to career and leadership—and how it offers unique gifts: extraordinary empathy, remarkable creativity, and an intuitive understanding of complex situations. We'll also address the challenges sensitive people face in a culture that often prizes toughness over tenderness, and provide practical strategies for thriving without dimming your natural brilliance.

Chapter 1: The Misunderstood Gift: Redefining Sensitivity Beyond Stigma

The year was 1903. Picasso danced at the Moulin Rouge, electric lights burned at all-night clubs, and Europe's cities thundered into a new era. Streetcars rushed commuters down buggy-packed streets, telegraphs connected faraway places, and breaking news crossed continents in minutes. In the German city of Dresden, during a citywide expo complete with public lectures, sociologist Georg Simmel took the podium and promptly abandoned his assigned topic. He wasn't there to praise progress. Instead, he warned that innovation had created a world that taxed the human brain with a nonstop stream of "external and internal stimuli" in a loud, fast, overscheduled environment. Humanity, Simmel suggested, was too sensitive for such a life. That was over 120 years ago, before smartphones, social media, and our 24/7 information culture. Today, we produce more data daily than someone in the Renaissance encountered in their entire lifetime. Our brains—sensitive instruments by nature—simply weren't designed for unlimited input. Even the toughest person eventually hits overload when pushed beyond their limits. For sensitive people, who process everything more deeply, this modern bombardment can be especially challenging. When we call someone sensitive, we often mean they're easily offended, cry too much, or can't handle feedback. The word commonly appears with modifiers: "too sensitive," "overly sensitive," "don't be so sensitive." This stigma is particularly harsh for men, who are told sensitivity conflicts with masculinity, and for people from marginalized groups who already face harmful stereotypes. As a result, many sensitive people spend their lives trying to hide or "fix" this fundamental aspect of themselves. But sensitivity isn't a character flaw—it's a normal, healthy trait with evolutionary advantages. Sensitive people perceive subtle details, make complex connections, and process information thoroughly. They're often the first to notice problems, read between the lines of a situation, or understand another person's unspoken needs. In prehistoric times, sensitive humans likely served as weather predictors, spiritual advisors, and trackers. Today, they excel as teachers, healthcare providers, artists, scientists, and even as military strategists or business leaders—any role that benefits from deep analysis and careful consideration. Rather than trying to toughen up, sensitive people need to embrace their natural wiring and learn strategies to manage overstimulation. The world doesn't just need sensitive people—it depends on them. Their empathy, creativity, and thoughtfulness are precisely what our divided, rushed, and overwhelmed society needs most. It's time to flip the conversation from shame to celebration, and recognize sensitivity for what it truly is: a strength.

Chapter 2: The Sensitive Boost Effect: How Sensitivity Creates Advantage

Bruce Springsteen explodes onto stage with an energy that has earned him the title "The Boss." His performances are what one critic calls "barn-burning, bombs-dropping, ceiling-cracking, ozone-splitting, three-hour mega-extravaganza concerts." His blue-collar fans might describe him as tough, hardworking, and rebellious—but "sensitive" probably wouldn't top their list. Those same fans might be surprised to meet Springsteen offstage. As a boy, he was "a pretty sensitive kid and quite neurotic, filled with a lot of anxiety," he told an interviewer. He howled during thunderstorms and ran to comfort his baby sister whenever she cried. A self-described "mama's boy," Springsteen was sometimes so nervous that he chewed his knuckles and blinked "hundreds of times a minute." His father, Douglas, built like an ox and prizing toughness, showed little approval toward his sensitive son. One of the few times Douglas expressed fatherly pride was when Bruce, frightened for his mother during one of his father's drunken tirades, cracked a baseball bat across his dad's shoulders. Rather than exploding in rage, the elder Springsteen laughed. Maybe his boy was tough after all. Many sensitive people share similar childhood experiences—parents trying to "fix" or "toughen" them. These efforts are misguided not only because sensitivity is a strength but because they simply don't work. All the yelling in the world didn't make Springsteen less sensitive. That's because sensitivity is largely genetic, though life experiences can amplify it. Recent research has revealed a fascinating pattern: sensitive people get more out of both positive and negative experiences. Scientists once believed genes like the short serotonin transporter variant (SERT) increased depression risk. However, subsequent studies showed something surprising—people with this "sensitivity gene" thrived when given social support, even outperforming others without the gene. This pattern appears consistently across multiple studies: sensitive children with supportive parents develop better social skills and earn better grades than their less-sensitive peers with the same parenting. Sensitive adults in struggling marriages benefit more from relationship interventions. Even sensitive teenagers in disadvantaged neighborhoods show greater improvement from anti-depression programs. This phenomenon, which we call the Sensitive Boost Effect, means sensitive people are uniquely positioned to benefit from any positive input in their environment. Like a greenhouse plant that flourishes with proper care, sensitive people can rocket past others when given the right conditions. They're built for supergrowth. The very trait that makes them vulnerable to life's difficulties also gives them an extraordinary capacity to thrive with proper support. Throughout his career spanning six decades, Springsteen has won twenty Grammy Awards, an Academy Award, a Tony Award, and has been inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame. His father lived to see him rise to fame, and Bruce eventually discovered they had more in common than he thought. Douglas, it turned out, "harbored a gentleness, timidity, shyness and a dreamy insecurity" beneath his tough exterior. The father had buried his sensitivity; the son embraced his—and it took him to incredible heights.

Chapter 3: The Five Powers: Empathy, Creativity and Deep Processing

When Jane Goodall began studying chimpanzees in Tanzania, other scientists gave animals numbers; Goodall gave them names. "I was told you have to give them numbers because you've got to be objective as a scientist," she recalled in a PBS interview. "And, you mustn't empathize with your subject. And I feel this is where science has gone wrong." While others remained detached observers, Goodall earned the chimps' trust and walked among them, noticing behaviors invisible to more distant researchers. Her empathetic approach revolutionized science. She discovered that chimps use tools, have distinct personalities, and experience emotions like joy, grief, and even humor. One day, a male chimp charged at her near a cliff edge. Any other biologist might have recorded it as an attack, but Goodall recognized this particular chimp as a trickster. She feigned alarm, and he stopped short, both of them "laughing" in their respective ways. He repeated the prank four times, like a kindergartener telling a favorite joke. This insight—that animals have emotional lives—transformed multiple scientific disciplines and deepened our understanding of our own evolutionary heritage. Goodall's story illustrates one of the five distinct gifts that sensitivity provides: empathy. The other four are creativity, sensory intelligence, depth of processing, and depth of emotion. All are built on the environmental responsiveness sensitive people are born with, though each person may develop some gifts more strongly than others. Empathy, the ability to understand and share others' feelings, is particularly powerful in sensitive people. Brain scans show they have more activity in regions associated with awareness, compassion, and action planning when viewing expressions of emotion. This heightened empathy isn't just about feeling more—it's the foundation of morality and a driving force of human progress. Empathy allows sensitive people to build trust, resolve conflicts, and bring diverse perspectives together, creating solutions that benefit everyone. Creativity flourishes in sensitive people because their minds naturally blend different frames of reference. Author Arthur Koestler believed true creativity arises from combining disparate ideas—exactly what sensitive minds excel at. This explains why so many artists, writers, and innovators throughout history have been sensitive. Their tendency to make unexpected connections leads to original thinking not just in the arts but in science, business, and beyond. Sensory intelligence—being more aware of your environment and its subtle details—gives sensitive people an edge in many situations. In sports, it's called "field vision"—the ability to read a game like chess masters read the board. Hockey legend Wayne Gretzky, despite being small and slow, became "the Great One" because he could sense where everyone would be seconds in the future: "I get a feeling about where a teammate is going to be. A lot of times, I can just turn and pass without looking." In medicine, business, or any field requiring attention to detail, this heightened awareness saves lives, money, and time. Depth of processing means sensitive people don't just take in more information—they do more with it. They analyze thoroughly, check multiple angles, and make connections others miss. This leads to better decision-making, especially about complex issues with many variables. It's why sensitive people often excel at strategy, planning, and solving intricate problems. Finally, depth of emotion gives sensitive people access to a richer emotional palette. They experience life more vividly, feeling both joys and sorrows more intensely. This can be challenging, but it also offers tremendous advantages in emotional intelligence, relationship-building, and finding meaning in everyday experiences. Sensitive people often report being deeply moved by music, art, or natural beauty in ways others may not understand. These five gifts explain why sensitivity, far from being a weakness, has survived evolution as a valuable trait. Sensitive people aren't just processing the world differently—they're experiencing it with greater depth, nuance, and potential for insight.

Chapter 4: Finding Balance: Navigating Overstimulation and Emotional Overload

Alicia Davies had just finished a master's program while going through a breakup—a stressful combination for anyone, but especially for a sensitive person. What she needed was downtime in her sanctuary: her "lovely little bedroom" with its green velvet armchair, plants, books, and candles on wooden shelves. This private space was crucial for her self-care because it evoked feelings of safety and calm. Unfortunately, her landlord had chosen this summer to begin construction on the house. This meant "drilling, sawing, and banging, every weekday, from early in the morning to late in the afternoon," right outside her bedroom. The construction crew spoke loudly, blasted music, and seemed to appear everywhere. Whenever she needed to move through the house, she had to squeeze past them and their equipment. Soon they started joking that she was in their way. In this state, any privacy or downtime became impossible. Understandably, Alicia's stress skyrocketed. She struggled to form simple sentences: "Any sort of conversation felt painful—like when you've been listening to earbuds too long and you simply need to stop." Seeking refuge, she headed to a local café, but found no peace there either. After ordering coffee, energetic funk music began playing and a baby started crying. "I wanted to wail too, louder than that baby, and drown out all the sounds of the world," she recalled. Still overwhelmed, she left the café and walked down the street, muttering under her breath at anyone making noise around her. Her anger wasn't rational, but neither is sensory overload. This state of overwhelm—when external stimuli become too much for the nervous system to process—is one of the biggest challenges sensitive people face. Imagine an invisible bucket that we all carry. Some people have large buckets; sensitive people have smaller ones. Every sound, emotion, and sensation fills the bucket a little more. When it overflows, we feel stressed, fatigued, and overwhelmed. Clinical psychologist Paul Gilbert explains this using three emotional systems. The Threat system scans for danger and activates fight-or-flight responses. The Drive system pushes us toward goals and achievements. The Soothe system allows us to rest, relax, and feel safe. Sensitive people easily slip into Threat mode when overstimulated, experiencing racing thoughts, muscle tension, intense emotions, and an overwhelming desire to escape. The key to managing overstimulation is activating the Soothe system. Fortunately, there are effective strategies for doing this. First, develop an early warning system by regularly checking in with yourself: How are you feeling? What sensations are in your body? When you notice the first signs of overwhelm—restlessness, irritability, muscle tension—take a break if possible. Communicate clearly: "I need a few minutes to collect my thoughts." Give yourself calming sensory input through physical pressure (like a tight hug or weighted blanket) or by minimizing head movement. Comfort yourself as you would comfort a child, with gentle words and acceptance. Long-term strategies include creating a sensitive sanctuary—a space dedicated to calm and decompression—and setting healthy boundaries around your time and energy. Learn to activate your cognitive brain when emotions threaten to overwhelm you, perhaps by writing down facts that counter emotional spirals. Most importantly, give yourself time. As occupational therapist Larissa Geleris notes, "It will end. It feels like it won't, but it will." Occasional overstimulation is normal and manageable. The real concern is chronic overstimulation—when your body is constantly in Threat mode. This can lead to burnout, physical symptoms, and declining mental health. If you're experiencing this, step back and evaluate what triggers your overwhelm. Can you minimize these triggers? Take more breaks? Ask for help? Sometimes the only solution is removing yourself from the situation entirely, which is a form of self-compassion, not failure. By creating a lifestyle that works with your sensitivity rather than against it, you can harness your gifts while protecting yourself from overwhelm. This doesn't mean you'll never get overstimulated, but you'll have tools to manage it when it happens.

Chapter 5: Compassionate Leadership: How Sensitive People Change the World

Rachel Horne worked in a palliative care home for older adults with dementia. Although this wasn't the career she had originally planned, she thought her sensitivity might make her good at it. Elder care is important work, but for Horne, it became emotionally overwhelming. Her days were filled with caretaking, logistics, and life-and-death decisions, all while maintaining a cheerful demeanor. There were beautiful moments—like playing music for a patient who hadn't spoken but suddenly sang along—but these moments were rare in the rushed schedule. Most difficult were the moments of loss. Staff members would form bonds with residents one day, only to find them gone the next. Horne couldn't understand how her coworkers carried on as if nothing had happened. "It was impossible for me to put professional distance between me and the patients' suffering," she told us. "I couldn't be like, 'Okay, it's five o'clock. Time to close the door and go out with my friends.' I would be like, 'Somebody just died. What?'" Even more challenging were the moments when dying patients confided in her, sharing regrets and family secrets. "I could hold it together in front of the people that needed me to," she says, "but as soon as I got in my car and closed the door, I started crying." After just five months, Horne was physically and emotionally depleted. Then she met Florian, a French man hitchhiking around the world. His carefree demeanor reminded her of herself before burnout. They struck a deal: she would leave her job, and together they would travel with just backpacks and a tent. Though risky, the decision made Horne feel lighter. For the first time in years, the constant bombardment of others' needs and emotions seemed far away. While empathy is one of the greatest gifts of sensitive people, it can also feel like a curse. It requires truly taking in what another person is feeling and experiencing it in your own body. This can lead to compassion fatigue—when the constant effort of caring for others becomes too much—and to absorbing unwanted emotions from those around you. Emotional contagion, the tendency to "catch" feelings from others, affects everyone to some degree but is especially strong in sensitive people. One study found that observers watching someone under stress had measurable increases in cortisol, the stress hormone, even when watching through a one-way mirror. The solution isn't to turn off empathy—a biological impossibility—but to transform it into compassion. Whereas empathy involves mirroring someone else's emotional state, compassion involves a response of care and warmth with a desire to help. Neuroscientist Tania Singer found that different parts of the brain activate when we share someone's pain (empathy) versus when we respond warmly to suffering (compassion). With compassion, our heart rate slows, we release oxytocin, and brain regions linked to caregiving and pleasure light up. Buddhist monk Matthieu Ricard, sometimes called "the happiest man in the world," demonstrated this difference during a brain scan experiment. Asked to focus on empathy while viewing images of suffering, he eventually begged, "Can I please switch to compassion practice? This is getting too painful to bear." Once he added compassion, he could continue witnessing others' pain indefinitely without becoming overwhelmed. Other strategies for managing empathic distress include prioritizing self-compassion (recognizing when you need a break isn't selfish), focusing on catching positive emotions (which activate your brain's reward system), practicing mindfulness (asking "Is this feeling mine or someone else's?"), and getting curious about others' experiences rather than assuming you know how they feel. After three months wandering Scottish islands, Horne and Florian upgraded to an old van and traveled Europe. Eventually, they married and settled in a cottage in France, where Horne now works as a research writer for an educational charity—still making a difference, but in a way that honors her sensitive nature. "Highly sensitive people process everything so deeply," she writes, "and we aren't going to be content just to bury our authentic emotions and live like we are told we should... What matters is having the guts to ask yourself what you really want from life, and then stepping toward your dreams with trust and courage."

Chapter 6: Relationships and Work: Thriving as a Sensitive Person

When Brian met Sarah, it wasn't love at first sight. "I was that annoying kid who was friends with her brother," he laughs. They reconnected years later, when Sarah was a single mother of two young children. Brian was different from others she knew—kind, gentle, willing to listen without judgment and support her through difficult times. Sarah fell in love with him not despite his sensitivity but because of it. After eight months of dating, they married, and Brian became a stepfather to her sons. Soon, however, the stress of family life began taking its toll. The couple found themselves arguing more frequently, and these arguments highlighted their different conflict styles. "She's the kind of person who wants to resolve things right now," Brian explained. "I'm the kind of person who needs to step back and reflect first." These arguments rattled Brian deeply, triggering a strong urge to withdraw from the family for days afterward. He would retreat to the couch or take long walks alone. He also withdrew after busy workdays or when the family finally had downtime—moments when Sarah thought they should be going on dates or making plans with friends. To Sarah, these retreats made no sense. It seemed Brian was being dramatic and self-absorbed; his avoidance only upset her more. Worse yet, he didn't seem to enjoy spending time with her anymore. Their marriage crumbling, Brian felt like a failure as both a husband and a man. "Being sensitive is something men are not supposed to do," he told us. "It's something society frowns on as a man." The couple nearly divorced before realizing they didn't want to live apart—but something needed to change. Relationships are challenging for many sensitive people, who often report needing more downtime than partners, becoming easily overwhelmed by conflict, putting others' needs ahead of their own, reading partners too well, and craving deeper connections than others may be comfortable with. These challenges don't mean something is wrong with sensitive people—they're simply experiencing the world differently. Social psychologist Eli Finkel found that modern relationships come with unprecedented expectations. We want our partners not just to love us but to help us become our best selves and reach our full potential. This puts tremendous pressure on relationships, and most fall short. But Finkel also discovered something encouraging: while the average marriage today is weaker than in the past, the best marriages are stronger than ever before. These exceptional relationships involve ongoing emotional work—challenging ourselves to grow together. Sensitive people are uniquely equipped for this work, with their natural empathy, deep reflection, and emotional awareness. However, they must learn to navigate common relationship pitfalls. First, make conflict safer by banishing shouting, door-slamming, and intimidation. If emotions run high, take a break and return to the conversation when calmer. Second, ask directly for what you want instead of expecting others to read your mind (even though you read them well). Third, be willing to show vulnerability—opening up about your true feelings, needs, and experiences. Finally, establish healthy boundaries, especially with narcissists or controlling people who may be drawn to your empathetic nature. Brian eventually discovered he was a highly sensitive person, which helped him understand his reactions. "Because I fall on the extreme end of the sensitivity scale," he explained, "I need much more downtime than Sarah needs, and I take her words personally when we disagree." He realized his main issue was perfectionism—when Sarah seemed to suggest he was doing something wrong, it hurt because he wanted to be a perfect spouse. Now, they handle conflict differently and meet in the middle on other issues. "I don't need to change who I am, but I do need to meet her partway," Brian says. His sensitivity created challenges but ultimately saved the relationship. It allowed him to reflect deeply on their dynamic and consider how they could grow together. Eight years into their marriage, Brian says their love is even stronger than when they first met. His advice for anyone with a sensitive person in their life: "It's not a character defect; it's not us trying to be difficult. Being sensitive is a real personality trait. I hope that those who are not highly sensitive take the time to really learn and understand that being with a sensitive person can be challenging but ultimately very rewarding."

Chapter 7: Raising Sensitive Children: Nurturing the Next Generation

Sophie was different from birth. When the doctor shined a light in her eyes as a newborn, she cried. Loud noises seemed to cause her physical pain. After being passed from relative to relative at family gatherings, she became too wound up to sleep. As she grew, she showed remarkable creativity and intelligence—repeating big words after hearing them once, making insightful observations beyond her years, and demonstrating a rich imagination. She was also exceptionally observant, spotting distant planes and noticing when her teacher wore new earrings. However, overstimulation was never far off. Sophie's insights vanished when she became overwhelmed, which happened after busy days or even fun activities like birthday parties. She was prone to intense meltdowns, sometimes triggered by small things like a pebble in her shoe or macaroni noodles that were "the wrong shape." Other triggers were almost existential: she came home in tears after witnessing another child being bullied, even though she wasn't involved. She refused to eat hamburger after learning where meat comes from. Sophie had big emotions. She danced when happy and wailed when sad. Although her feelings sometimes overwhelmed her, she was surprisingly aware of her own mental state and others' emotions. This awareness helped her make friends easily, though she was timid in large groups and nervous when performing in front of others. Generally, she was conscientious and kind, easily pleasing her teachers and earning good grades. Even as a teenager, she was bothered by certain textures and smells, and struggled with life changes—even positive ones—because they meant new situations and routines to navigate. Approximately 30 percent of children are highly sensitive, just like Sophie. These children inherit a genetic tendency to process information more deeply, though childhood experiences can amplify this trait. Research consistently shows that environment matters tremendously for sensitive children. In negative environments, they struggle more than their peers do, reporting higher levels of stress, anxiety, and behavioral problems. But in positive, supportive environments, they thrive beyond expectations—showing more creativity, empathy, and academic success than less-sensitive children with the same advantages. One remarkable study in Khayelitsha, South Africa—one of the country's poorest areas—demonstrated this effect. Researchers worked with a nonprofit that helped pregnant women provide an emotionally healthy environment for their babies. They taught mothers to interpret their babies' cues and respond appropriately. Years later, the researchers collected DNA samples from the children to identify those with genes associated with sensitivity. The sensitive children were more than 2.5 times more likely to benefit from the program, developing secure attachment that lasted into their teen years. The less-sensitive children showed virtually no lasting benefit from the same intervention. This pattern has been observed repeatedly across different studies and settings: sensitive children get more out of both positive and negative influences. This means parents, teachers, and caregivers have exceptional power to shape sensitive children's development—more so than with less-sensitive children. The love, patience, and learning opportunities you provide will go further with a sensitive child. They may need you more, but they can also achieve greater heights with your support. Nurturing sensitive children starts with acceptance. Embrace their sensitivity as a strength, not a weakness. Get curious about their world by observing them in different situations and asking open-ended questions about their experiences. Advocate for them at school and in extended family settings, explaining sensitivity to others who might misunderstand. Gentle discipline works best with sensitive children, who feel things more acutely and often punish themselves internally for mistakes. Avoid raised voices, sarcasm, or public correction that might cause shame. Instead, use a calm tone, speak clearly, and correct in private. Create a calm-down spot where they can regulate their emotions, and always reassure them of your love after discipline. Help sensitive children expand their comfort zones gradually, with support. Teach them to set healthy boundaries and recognize when they need rest. Talk through new situations beforehand, conduct "dress rehearsals" of important events, and validate their feelings without dismissing them. Give them some control over frightening situations by asking what would help them feel braver. Finally, teach emotional regulation by serving as an emotion coach. Help children identify their feelings with specific words, monitor the intensity of emotions using tools like a feelings thermometer, and develop strategies to manage strong emotions. Remember that gender roles often influence how we respond to children's emotions—we tend to talk more about feelings with girls than boys—but all children need emotional coaching. By providing this kind of nurturing environment, you help sensitive children build on their natural strengths while developing tools to manage challenges. Your effort and patience will help them grow into thriving sensitive adults who can make unique contributions to the world.

Summary

Sensitivity—the trait of perceiving and processing life more deeply—is not a weakness but a profound evolutionary advantage that has helped our species survive and thrive. In a world that often celebrates toughness and dismisses tenderness, sensitive people have been conditioned to hide or apologize for their nature. Yet the very qualities that make them feel overwhelmed in chaotic environments—deep processing, heightened awareness, and emotional responsiveness—also make them exceptional innovators, caregivers, artists, and leaders. The sensitive brain doesn't just take in more information; it makes more meaningful connections, sees patterns others miss, and cares deeply about outcomes that affect everyone. This natural wiring gives sensitive people access to five remarkable gifts: empathy that builds bridges across differences, creativity that solves complex problems, sensory intelligence that notices crucial details, depth of processing that leads to better decisions, and emotional depth that enriches relationships and experiences. Rather than trying to "toughen up" or conform to a world not designed for them, sensitive people can learn to manage overstimulation while embracing their strengths. By creating environments that support their needs—in relationships, workplaces, and families—they unleash the Sensitive Boost Effect, allowing them to flourish beyond what others might achieve with the same resources. As sensitive people step into leadership roles and embrace their authentic nature, they offer exactly what our divided, rushed, and overwhelmed society needs: thoughtful consideration, compassionate connection, and a reminder that sometimes, the strongest response is also the most tender.

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Jenn Granneman

Jenn Granneman is on a mission: to let introverts everywhere know it’s okay to be who they are. She has advocated for introverts since 2013, when she created IntrovertDear.com, the popular online community and publication for introverts. For most of her life, she felt weird, different, and out of place because of her quiet ways; now, she writes about introversion because she doesn’t want other introverts to feel the way she did. Jenn lives in Minnesota, and no, she doesn't want to go out this weekend.

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