The Way of the Champion

The Way of the Champion Plot Summary

Introduction

In the pursuit of greatness, there exists a unique and unwavering commitment—a relentless journey taken by those who strive not just for victory, but for mastery. This path is marked by commitment, preparation, and sacrifice. Of course, there are challenges and setbacks that test one's resolve. But this path transcends winning and losing, reaching into the very core of what it means to compete. Amid the chaos and uncertainty, a champion emerges. Paul Rabil's journey from a twelve-year-old who completely whiffed on his first lacrosse shot to becoming the sport's first millionaire exemplifies the champion's way. His path illustrates how greatness is not defined by talent alone, but by an extraordinary level of commitment, mental fortitude, and a willingness to risk everything for one's passion. Through Rabil's experience as both an elite athlete and groundbreaking entrepreneur, we discover the mindset required to transform failure into opportunity, competition into growth, and personal success into lasting legacy. His story reveals that true champions aren't just defined by trophies and accolades, but by their ability to evolve, adapt, and ultimately change the landscape of their field forever.

Chapter 1: Early Passion: Finding Purpose Through Lacrosse

Paul Rabil's introduction to lacrosse was entirely accidental. At twelve years old, a neighbor gave him a backup stick and invited him to join the local team. During his first game, Rabil took his inaugural shot—and completely missed. The ball flew backward out of his stick, was scooped up by a defender who ran down the field and scored. This embarrassing moment could have deterred many young athletes, but for Rabil, it was merely the beginning. Just two weeks later, Rabil scored his first goal. His natural competitiveness drove him to practice relentlessly. While other kids finished practice and went home, Rabil would stay behind, working on his shot until dark. His mother would often stand in the doorway of their home, calling him for dinner, but he wouldn't stop until he hit ten corners in a row—regardless of hunger, homework, or even pouring rain. This obsessive practice regimen became his daily ritual. The young athlete's dedication quickly translated to on-field success. By his freshman year of high school, he was leading his county in goals. When he reached his senior year, Rabil had become one of the top three recruits in the country. This meteoric rise wasn't by accident—it was the direct result of his unwavering commitment to improvement. Coach Tony Seaman had once told a group of young players that if they shot a hundred shots every single day, they would earn a full scholarship to the Division 1 college of their choice. Rabil took this advice to heart, never missing a day of practice. Unlike many talented youth athletes who specialize early, Rabil cultivated what sports science writer David Epstein calls "range." He played basketball, soccer, and participated in track and field, incorporating skills from these sports into his lacrosse game. This diversification gave him a higher ceiling than peers who focused exclusively on lacrosse. The range of motion, spatial awareness, and competitive mindset he developed across different sports created a foundation for his later success. Rabil's early passion for lacrosse wasn't just about becoming the best player; it was about finding purpose through dedicated practice. As a student with learning differences who struggled in school, he discovered that when you truly love something, you remember it better. This insight helped him both on and off the field. Lacrosse became not just a game he played, but a vehicle through which he could express his determination, focus, and competitive spirit—qualities that would serve him throughout his life's journey.

Chapter 2: The Amateur's Mindset: Developing Excellence Through Discipline

The amateur phase of Rabil's development was characterized by an insatiable hunger to improve. While the word "amateur" is often associated with inexperience, its Latin root "amator" actually means "lover of" or "enthusiast." This perfectly captured Rabil's approach—he played purely for the love of the game, without the pressures of financial incentives or performance expectations. This freedom allowed him to experiment, learn, and grow organically. Discipline became Rabil's defining characteristic. He established unwavering daily routines that formed the backbone of his development. After hearing Coach Seaman's advice about taking a hundred shots every day, Rabil implemented this practice with religious consistency. Rain or shine, holiday or regular day, whether traveling abroad or at home—he found a wall to throw against or a goal to shoot on. This wasn't just about physical repetition; it was about training his mind to commit fully to improvement. "You can't miss a day," became his mantra. Rabil also understood the importance of fundamentals. Like basketball coach Morgan Wootten's advice to practice shooting from directly under the hoop until perfection is achieved before taking a step back, Rabil would start his shooting workouts at just five yards from the goal. He focused on form, rhythm, and timing before gradually increasing the distance. This methodical approach to skill-building laid the foundation for his later success. While others might have viewed such close-range practice as elementary, Rabil recognized that mastery begins with perfecting the basics. The amateur phase taught Rabil valuable lessons about handling failure. After shooting 0 for 18 in a high school game, he learned to bounce back quickly rather than dwelling on disappointment. This resilience would serve him well throughout his career. He embraced the wisdom that baseball legend Lou Gehrig received early in his career: "The most important thing a young ball player can learn is that he can't be good every day." Understanding that failure is simply part of the process helped Rabil maintain momentum through inevitable setbacks. Perhaps most importantly, Rabil developed what sports psychologist Jim Loehr calls "the voice no one else hears"—his internal dialogue. Loehr's research showed that elite athletes must manage their private thoughts, particularly in moments of adversity. Rabil trained himself to transform negative thought patterns into constructive ones, asking himself, "Is this how I would speak to someone I deeply care about?" This mental discipline became as important as his physical training, allowing him to maintain confidence and focus even when facing obstacles. The amateur mindset is not about skill level but about approach—loving the process, embracing fundamentals, welcoming feedback, and viewing every experience as an opportunity to improve. Rabil's early years exemplified this philosophy, creating a solid foundation upon which his professional career would be built.

Chapter 3: Going Professional: Commitment, Sacrifice and Peak Performance

When Rabil was selected first overall in the 2008 Major League Lacrosse College Draft by the Boston Cannons, reality hit hard. His rookie wage was just $6,000—poverty-level compensation that forced him to move back home with his parents and take a day job to make ends meet. This was far from the glamorous professional athlete lifestyle portrayed in media. Then, several months after completing his rookie season, an economic recession eliminated even his supplementary income. Standing at this crossroads, Rabil made a decision that would define his career—he went all in on lacrosse. This wasn't about getting drafted or signing a contract; it was a profound mindset shift. As Rabil explains, "Turning pro isn't about getting drafted. It's not about 'making it' to the league. It doesn't happen when you sign a rookie contract. Turning pro is about the decisions you make. It's about making your craft your top and sole priority." This commitment required extreme sacrifice. Rabil adopted what entrepreneur and athlete Kip Fulks called "going deep"—eliminating all distractions and focusing exclusively on his craft. "Don't do anything else," Fulks advised. "If you're struggling in life, I ask you if you have consistency." For Rabil, this meant saying no to countless opportunities that didn't directly contribute to his lacrosse development. Every decision was filtered through a single question: Will this make me better at lacrosse? The professional phase demanded a different level of training intensity. Rabil evolved from practicing for the love of the game to practicing with strategic purpose. He refined his approach to be more efficient and game-specific. Instead of dumping a bucket of balls in one spot and shooting repetitively, he simulated actual game scenarios—dodging defenders, running at full speed, shooting while tired and off-balance. As NBA star Steph Curry told Rabil, "I practice smart now. I'm not just in the gym just to be in there. There's a particular approach and mentality when I'm in the gym that I have to have every time. And that's a game speed mentality." Rabil's transition to professional status also required caring for his "whole self." Venus Williams' mother had given her similar advice at the start of her professional career: success required attending to mental health as much as physical training. Rabil worked with sports psychologist John Eliot to develop mindfulness practices and mental resilience. He learned that "the secret is there is no secret"—success comes from consistent work, proper nutrition, adequate sleep, recovery, and attention to details. As his career progressed, Rabil understood that maintaining peak performance required treating his body like a "Ferrari engine." As he explained, "The pro athletes who stick around for a long time—they treat their bodies like Ferrari engines. For a decent amount of time, your high-performance car can run on regular fuel. But for longevity, it requires premium." This meant getting to facilities hours before younger players, doing resistance band exercises instead of heavy lifting, and consistently using ice baths for recovery. These practices allowed him to compete at a high level long after many of his peers had retired.

Chapter 4: The Competitor's Edge: Mental Toughness in High-Stakes Moments

The difference between good athletes and great ones often comes down to mental fortitude in high-pressure situations. Rabil discovered that pressure itself wasn't something to avoid but rather a signal of opportunity. As NHL captain John Tavares told him, "Pressure is a gift that gives you a rare opportunity to do something special. Pressure signals that what you're doing has incredible meaning and purpose." This perspective transformed how Rabil approached crucial moments in competition. Rabil developed specific mental techniques to perform under pressure. He learned to focus on what legendary basketball coach John Wooden called "peace of mind," defining success not by outcomes but by the effort to become the best he was capable of becoming. This mindset shift was transformative—by detaching from results and concentrating solely on process, Rabil found he could perform with freedom and confidence even in championship moments. When facing adversity, Rabil practiced what he calls "get up and down"—the ability to rebound immediately after a mistake. He borrowed this concept from golf, where players are celebrated for making a great shot right after a terrible one. Instead of letting one error compound into a series of mistakes, Rabil trained himself to move forward instantly. This resilience was particularly evident in the 2018 World Lacrosse gold medal game, where the U.S. team scored with one second left in regulation to win 9-8 against Canada—a redemptive victory after a devastating loss to the same team four years earlier. Rabil also mastered what NFL legend Bill Belichick called "Do your job"—focusing exclusively on his specific role rather than trying to do everything. During the 2005 NCAA Championship with Johns Hopkins University, this mentality helped the team win their first title in eighteen years. Each player concentrated solely on their assignment, nothing more and nothing less. This collective focus allowed the team to perform with exceptional clarity under immense pressure. Perhaps most importantly, Rabil learned to handle failure constructively. After a poor performance in the 2014 World Championships, where he registered zero goals and assists in a gold medal loss to Canada, Rabil faced a dark period of depression and self-doubt. Working with sports psychologist John Eliot, he reframed his identity—lacrosse wasn't who he was, but simply something he did. This perspective allowed him to process the loss as a valuable lesson rather than a personal failure. The following year, he registered the most points in his career and brought a championship back to New York for the first time in ten years. Mental toughness isn't about eliminating fear or pressure—it's about harnessing these emotions productively. Rabil discovered that champions don't experience pressure less intensely than others; they simply develop more effective ways to channel it. By focusing on process over outcomes, rebounding quickly from mistakes, concentrating on specific responsibilities, and learning from failure, Rabil cultivated the competitor's edge that defined his career.

Chapter 5: Leading by Example: Creating Team Success Through Personal Growth

Rabil's evolution as a leader began with a profound realization: individual excellence wasn't enough to create lasting success. After failing to be named captain of his team despite being one of the best players, he received candid feedback from his coach: "Justin, you do do everything right... But football is a team sport. You need to set a good example and bring other guys with you." This insight sparked a transformation in Rabil's approach to leadership. True leadership, Rabil discovered, wasn't about demanding from others what you haven't already done yourself. During his time with Team USA, coach John Danowski shared the 10-80-10 rule he had learned from legendary basketball coach Mike Krzyzewski: on every team, there's a bottom 10 percent that causes problems, a top 10 percent that sets the culture, and the middle 80 percent that can be influenced either way. The most effective leaders focus on positively influencing that middle 80 percent—not through speeches or commands, but through consistent actions. Rabil witnessed this principle firsthand during the 2008 Olympics when NBA superstar Kobe Bryant demonstrated leadership through example. While most players on the USA Basketball team went out clubbing until 4:30 AM on their first night in Las Vegas, Bryant was already in the hotel gym, drenched in sweat from an early morning workout. Bryant didn't criticize his teammates or impose his standards on them—he simply let his actions do the talking. Within days, LeBron James and Dwyane Wade joined Bryant for these early workouts, and by the end of the week, the entire team had adopted Bryant's schedule. As Rabil's career progressed, he learned that effective leadership often meant supporting others rather than highlighting himself. After joining the New York Lizards following a trade from Boston, Rabil met Brian Spallina, a six-time Major League Lacrosse champion defender who became his co-captain. Much like how Bill Cartwright's leadership complemented Michael Jordan on the Chicago Bulls, Spallina's presence allowed Rabil to excel in a new environment. Together, they won an MLL Championship in 2015—Spallina's record seventh as a pro. Rabil also discovered the importance of what basketball legend Bill Russell called the "seat belts" on a team—veteran players who provide stability and guidance. These individuals aren't always the most talented or highest-scoring, but they keep teams grounded during turbulent moments. Like Udonis Haslem, who played twenty seasons with the Miami Heat despite limited playing time in his later years, these leaders provide immeasurable value through their steadying presence and institutional knowledge. The most powerful form of leadership Rabil developed was making others better. This meant mentoring younger players, sharing knowledge, and prioritizing team success over individual accolades. As his career advanced, Rabil found that his most meaningful contributions often came through elevating his teammates' performance rather than dominating games himself. By the end of his playing days, Rabil had transformed from a talented individual into a champion who understood that true greatness lies in creating success that extends beyond personal achievement.

Chapter 6: Business of Sport: Building the Premier Lacrosse League

By 2018, despite being one of the sport's most accomplished players, Rabil faced a harsh reality: professional lacrosse was failing to provide sustainable careers for its athletes. Most players earned poverty-level wages while working full-time jobs outside of lacrosse. Media coverage was minimal, and the existing league structure seemed incapable of generating the growth needed to elevate the sport. Rather than accepting these limitations, Rabil saw an opportunity to revolutionize the game he loved. Teaming up with his brother Mike, Rabil embarked on his most ambitious challenge yet—creating the Premier Lacrosse League (PLL). Their vision was radical: a tour-based model rather than the traditional city-based approach, higher player salaries, health insurance, equity ownership for athletes, and a major media partnership. Industry veterans were skeptical, but the Rabils were determined to create what would eventually be named Sports Business Journal's 2020 Breakthrough League of the Year. The entrepreneurial leap required Rabil to leverage skills he had been cultivating for years. As early as 2008, he had created his first Facebook page, posting daily content about his training, nutrition, and practice routines. This social media presence grew to over 100,000 followers, attracting sponsors like Under Armour, Red Bull, and Chevrolet. Bloomberg eventually dubbed him "lacrosse's first million-dollar man." These relationships became foundational to the PLL's launch. Building the league demanded the same level of commitment Rabil had shown as a player, but in an entirely different arena. He and Mike studied the business models of established sports leagues, analyzing what worked and what didn't. They pitched investors, negotiated with media partners, and recruited the sport's top talent. The challenge was immense—they weren't just creating a team or tournament; they were building an entire professional sports ecosystem from scratch. A pivotal moment came when they secured a broadcast partnership with NBC Sports, giving lacrosse unprecedented national television exposure. Equally important was convincing 140 of the world's best players to join the league—providing them with higher wages, health insurance, and equity stakes. This player-centric approach differentiated the PLL from existing models and created immediate buy-in from the sport's elite talent. The league launched in June 2019, and despite its innovative approach, Rabil initially tried to continue his playing career while building the business. This dual role proved unsustainable. As filmmaker Peter Berg told him, "You actually can't do two things at once really well. You can build the PLL well for a few hours, then train well for a few hours... but after each day, you're leaving something on the table." This insight eventually led to Rabil's retirement from playing in 2021, allowing him to focus entirely on growing the league. The PLL represented more than just a business venture—it was Rabil's way of creating a legacy beyond his playing days. By establishing a sustainable professional league, he was paving the way for future generations of players to pursue lacrosse as a viable career. The same determination that had driven him to take a hundred shots every day as a young player now fueled his mission to transform the sport's professional landscape.

Chapter 7: Beyond the Game: Leaving a Meaningful Legacy

As Paul Rabil's playing career approached its conclusion, he faced the question that haunts many elite athletes: Who am I beyond my sport? For decades, lacrosse had been his identity—the thing that defined him in the world's eyes and his own. The transition from player to legacy-builder required a profound psychological shift, one that moved from self-focused achievement to community-centered impact. Rabil's retirement announcement in 2021 marked the beginning of his "Second Mountain"—what journalist David Brooks describes as the phase of life focused on service, relationships, community, and causes larger than oneself. While the First Mountain involves pursuing individual goals and personal success, the Second Mountain involves creating impact that outlasts one's active career. Rabil understood that his most meaningful contributions to lacrosse might come after he hung up his cleats. In many ways, the Premier Lacrosse League represented Rabil's first major step toward this larger legacy. Unlike many athlete-founded businesses that revolve around personal brand, the PLL was designed to elevate an entire sport and community. Rabil recognized that lacrosse needed a self-sustaining professional ecosystem that could thrive independently of any individual player—even himself. The true measure of the PLL's success, he realized, would be when he was no longer needed as its public face. Beyond the business aspects, Rabil launched initiatives aimed at grassroots development and accessibility. His "Goals for Greatness" program set out to place lacrosse goals in all fifty states each year, while the PLL Assists charitable effort focused on providing equipment to underserved communities. Rabil understood that lacrosse's status as an expensive sport created barriers to entry, and he committed to breaking down those obstacles through "sticks in hands" initiatives. Perhaps most significantly, Rabil became a leading advocate for lacrosse's return to the Olympic Games. After retiring, he joined a five-member committee that pitched the International Olympic Committee on including lacrosse in the 2028 Los Angeles Olympics. This effort culminated in success on October 16, 2023, when the IOC officially welcomed lacrosse back as an Olympic sport for the first time since 1908. Though Rabil won't compete as a player, he helped create the dream that will inspire future generations of lacrosse athletes around the world. Rabil's approach to legacy-building reflects a philosophy expressed by soccer star Abby Wambach in her retirement: "Forget me. Forget I've ever existed. Forget the medals won, the records broken and the sacrifices made. I want to leave a legacy where the ball keeps rolling forward. Where the next generation accomplishes things so great, that I'm no longer remembered." This sentiment—that true success means creating something that outlasts personal recognition—guides Rabil's post-playing endeavors.

Summary

Paul Rabil's journey from an amateur who missed his first shot to a champion who transformed his sport embodies a profound truth: greatness isn't achieved through talent alone, but through relentless commitment, purposeful adaptation, and a willingness to evolve beyond individual achievement. His path reveals that the true measure of a champion isn't just what they accomplish during their active years, but the legacy they create that extends far beyond their personal performance. The lessons from Rabil's experience transcend lacrosse and speak to universal principles of excellence. First, extraordinary success requires extraordinary commitment—the willingness to take a hundred shots every day without exception. Second, true champions evolve beyond their initial identity, transitioning from self-focused achievement to creating opportunities for others. Finally, lasting impact comes not from being irreplaceable, but from building systems and communities that can thrive independently. As we pursue our own paths to excellence, Rabil's journey reminds us that our greatest contributions may come not from what we achieve for ourselves, but from how we elevate those who follow in our footsteps.

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