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Business, Nonfiction, Leadership
Book
Kindle Edition
2022
Wiley
English
B09XTK45J6
111985895X
9781119858959
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We stand at a pivotal moment in professional sales. The digital age has transformed not just what we sell, but how buyers make decisions and what they expect from sales professionals. Many salespeople find themselves in a "one-down" position—reacting to client demands, competing on price, and struggling to differentiate themselves in an increasingly crowded marketplace. This fundamental power imbalance often leaves even seasoned professionals feeling inadequate and customers unsatisfied. What if there was a way to shift this dynamic? To position yourself as the expert guide who creates such remarkable value that clients naturally turn to you first? The pages ahead reveal a transformative approach that places you in the "one-up" position—not through manipulation or dominance, but by genuinely becoming the most valuable resource your clients have ever encountered. This journey requires rethinking everything you know about sales conversations, information sharing, and client relationships, but the rewards of becoming truly consultative will transform both your results and your satisfaction in the profession.
The one-up mindset represents a fundamental shift in how sales professionals approach their role. At its core, being one-up means possessing greater knowledge and experience than your client specifically regarding the decisions they need to make. It's about becoming the expert who can provide insight, guidance, and certainty in an uncertain world—the person clients trust to make decisions they don't trust themselves to make. Consider the story of a salesperson standing at Basecamp 1 on Mount Everest, suffering from altitude sickness. Despite having prescription medicine from a highly educated doctor, the symptoms persisted—tingling arms and difficulty breathing at 17,000 feet. When the Sherpa guide saw the medicine, he immediately diagnosed the problem: "The medicine is making you sick. Throw it away, then walk faster to get more air into your body." Though skeptical about taking advice from someone whose house was covered in yak dung rather than conventional insulation, the salesperson faced a dilemma: trust the educated physician who had never been to the Himalayas, or the experienced Sherpa who guides people up Everest for a living? The salesperson threw away the medicine and followed the Sherpa's advice, walking faster despite burning lungs. Remarkably, the symptoms began to improve. The Sherpa was one-up—not because he had more formal education, but because his specific experience and knowledge about altitude sickness far exceeded both the salesperson's and the doctor's. To develop the one-up mindset, you must first recognize areas where you may currently be one-down: lacking relevant knowledge, failing to understand decision factors, having no depth of understanding, not learning from experiences, using outdated approaches, lacking confidence, showing desperation for deals, fearing clients, being overly compliant, or avoiding responsibility for results. The path to becoming one-up requires continuous learning, thorough preparation before every client interaction, and an ethical commitment to serve. This means studying your industry deeply, organizing insights from every client interaction, and constantly refining your expertise. Most importantly, you must approach every situation with the sincere belief that you have valuable knowledge to share: "I know something you don't know. May I share it with you?" Remember, being one-up isn't about dominance or manipulation—it's about genuine expertise and the ability to see around corners for your clients. Your goal is to help them make better decisions by filling the gaps in their knowledge and experience, positioning yourself as their trusted guide rather than just another vendor.
Information disparity lies at the heart of value creation in modern sales. While buyers can now easily research products and companies online, they still face significant blind spots when making complex business decisions. Your ability to identify and address these gaps with meaningful insights is what makes you one-up and creates extraordinary value for clients. Anthony Iannarino describes an enlightening client experience that transformed his approach. After years in sales using traditional methods—opening meetings with company history, showing logos of impressive clients, and reading from product binders—he noticed these approaches losing effectiveness. The turning point came when a prospect in Cincinnati stopped him as he opened his laptop: "I don't want to see your slides. Put your laptop away or this meeting is over. I just want to ask you some questions." This jarring experience, repeated with other clients, signaled that the old information disparity had shifted dramatically. Determined to adapt, Iannarino developed a new approach when trying to persuade a client to raise their employee wages. Instead of pitching his solution, he compiled evidence addressing the client's false assumptions: that labor was abundant and cheap. His presentation included data, newspaper articles, government reports, and comparisons of the client's wages versus local competitors'. The client was riveted. For the first time ever, his contact asked for the slide deck and later used it to brief their executive team, ultimately approving a $2 million annual wage increase. To create value through insights, start by identifying the six crucial questions that reveal your clients' information deficits: What is going on? Why am I struggling to produce results? What am I missing? What should I do now? How should I change? How can I be certain of success? Your answers must address both the presenting problems and the deeper strategic challenges preventing success. Building your insight arsenal requires organizing knowledge from various sources: trends impacting your client's industry, patterns you've observed across multiple clients, objective data from third parties, and lessons from both successful and failed implementations. Document what's working for some clients but failing for others, and analyze why these differences occur. The most powerful aspect of this approach is that it positions you as the sense-maker who can help clients see their world more clearly. Unlike traditional sales that withheld information until purchase, modern one-up selling freely shares insights that create immediate value for clients. When you teach them what they need to know, you're not giving away your value—you're demonstrating it. As Iannarino puts it: "You taught them everything they know, but you did not teach them everything you know."
The sales conversation represents your only vehicle for creating value, establishing your one-up position, and differentiating yourself from competitors. Unfortunately, most sales calls have become fully commoditized—following the same predictable pattern of small talk, company history, client logos, product features, and problem identification that prospects have experienced dozens or hundreds of times before. A revealing thought experiment illustrates how a truly one-up approach differs. Imagine meeting your dream client under strict conditions: you cannot mention your company name, reference any clients, discuss your products or solutions, attempt to build personal rapport, or ask about their "pain points." With these traditional crutches removed, how would you create value? The one-down salesperson would be paralyzed, but the one-up professional would thrive by immediately focusing on what truly matters to the client. During a meeting with a large prospect, Iannarino was asked the standard "Tell me about your company" question. Rather than launching into a rehearsed pitch, he responded: "I'm afraid that would be a terrible waste of your time. The best way to describe who we are and what we do is to share the things we care about." He then provided insights about complex developments affecting the client's business. After more than an hour—far longer than the client typically spent with salespeople—a team member asked, "How'd you do that? He has never spent over five minutes with a salesperson." The one-up approach to commanding sales conversations requires completely rethinking their structure. Instead of starting with rapport-building and company information, begin with an executive briefing that explains forces impacting your client's world. Replace traditional discovery questions like "What's keeping you up at night?" with informed perspectives: "These are the things that are or soon will be keeping you up at night." Focus on why clients should change rather than why they should buy from you. To implement this approach, you'll need to abandon certain practices: starting with "Why Us," building personal rapport before adding value, conducting commoditized discovery, differentiating based on company or solution, and following the client's lead. Instead, establish yourself as a potential strategic partner, compel change by providing context, differentiate through conversation quality, and facilitate a needs-based buyer's journey. The most powerful demonstration of commanding the conversation comes when you can walk into a meeting without slides or props and deliver insights that transform how clients see their challenges. When you create this level of value, clients will judge all other salespeople against the standard you've set—a comparison few can survive.
In 1992, Bill Clinton employed a powerful political strategy known as triangulation, positioning himself above both Democrats and Republicans on certain issues. As Dick Morris described it, Clinton took "a position that not only blended the best of each party's views but also transcended them to constitute a third force in the debate." This approach placed Clinton at the top of a triangle, looking down at both parties, allowing him to occupy the moral high ground and win key swing voters. This same strategy can be remarkably effective in sales, allowing you to position yourself above the competitive fray as a trusted advisor who can help clients make better decisions. Instead of directly attacking competitors, you analyze different business models, explaining the advantages and limitations of each approach, including your own. This elevates you from mere vendor to trusted guide. Iannarino discovered this strategy when competing against much larger staffing firms. Rather than criticizing specific companies, he categorized competing approaches on a value continuum, from transactional models on the left to strategic partnerships on the right. He explained that his mid-sized company offered a high-touch, high-value approach with local decision-making, contrasting this with larger firms that required significant overhead (raising costs) and smaller firms that couldn't invest in proper recruitment (lowering quality). To execute this strategy effectively, start by conceptualizing the different delivery models in your industry. For example, you might identify four approaches: pure commodities (lowest price, minimal service), scalable commodities (better experience but systemic limitations), solutions (customized offerings with relationship support), and strategic partners (highest price but greatest value and strategic outcomes). For each model, honestly acknowledge both advantages ("singing their praises") and disadvantages ("confessing their sins"). Explain who benefits most from each approach and what concessions clients must make. The true power comes when you educate clients about hidden trade-offs they'd otherwise discover too late. As one client told Iannarino after a particularly honest presentation: "This is the first honest person to sit in that chair." The triangulation strategy works by creating "narrative warfare" that inoculates clients against competing claims. When Iannarino told a client, "Anyone who says you won't have people miss work is lying," he placed a landmine for competitors who might make unrealistic promises. This approach helps clients recognize there's always a choice between higher prices and lower value—and that lower prices rarely mean lower overall costs. By asking insightful questions like "Have you decided which delivery model will provide the best results for you?" you expose information gaps clients didn't know they had. The person who educates clients about models, advantages, challenges, and hidden concessions becomes not just a participant in the competition but the arbiter who transcends it—the trusted "third force" who naturally wins the business.
Change follows a subtle but consistent pattern that most salespeople get backward. The certainty sequence begins with uncertainty, moves to certainty of negative consequences, returns to uncertainty about change itself, and finally reaches certainty of positive outcomes. Understanding and navigating this sequence is essential to compelling clients to act before they're forced to change under worse circumstances. A powerful example illustrates both success and failure in compelling change. A client continuously rejected Iannarino's warnings about their dangerously low wages and poor treatment of workers. After spending 90 minutes presenting data showing their assumptions were detached from reality, Iannarino made a last-ditch effort: "In September, you are going to need a shovel and plot to bury your business. I want you to know that you will be shutting down your lines." The client ignored this warning, only to call in September when his business was collapsing. Unfortunately, by then it was too late—the client lost all his customers within a year. The challenge is that clients don't avoid change because they're ignorant of their problems. They avoid it because the prospect of changing seems more frightening than maintaining the status quo. As Robert Kegan and Lisa Lahey explain in "Immunity to Change," people develop unconscious commitments that conflict with their stated goals, creating a powerful resistance to transformation. To overcome this resistance, you must first understand what drives it. Some stakeholders resist change to protect their position or reputation. Others are motivated by purpose, transformation, risk aversion, inclusion needs, novelty seeking, or basic survival. By recognizing these hidden forces, you can tailor your approach to address the specific concerns most relevant to your client. The key to compelling change is creating enough certainty about negative consequences that maintaining the status quo becomes more frightening than changing. You might ask questions like: "How much does this problem cost you in lost revenue, profit, time, clients, and rework?" or "What impact is this having on your team?" By quantifying the cost of inaction—showing how a $7,000 weekly loss becomes $140,000 over five months—you make the consequences tangible. Equally important is creating certainty about positive outcomes by bringing the future forward: "What would it mean to you and your team to reclaim the revenue being lost now?" or "Would it be worth two hard weeks to get through the learning curve, if at the end of those weeks, you would have eliminated your problem?" This combination of addressing both negative consequences and positive potential creates the certainty necessary for action. Remember that your ethical obligation as a one-up professional is to help clients change proactively, before they're forced to do so. As John Kotter notes in "The Heart of Change," successful change begins by creating "a sense of urgency among relevant people." Without this urgency, the most compelling solution will fall on deaf ears.
Becoming truly one-up requires deliberately building and organizing your insights into a perspective that helps clients change their beliefs and achieve better results. This is not something that happens accidentally—it demands intentional effort to process experiences, acquire knowledge, and develop a unique point of view. Gary Klein, in his book "Seeing What Others Don't," describes how insights "shift us toward a new story, a new set of beliefs that are more accurate, more comprehensive, and more useful." These insights follow three paths: contradictions that force rebuilding a story, corrections that add new core beliefs, or creative desperation that helps escape an impasse. All three paths can help you develop powerful expertise. For those presently one-down, the journey to one-up begins with the right mindset. First, take full responsibility for your own development—don't wait for your company or manager to invest in you. Second, adopt the belief that "everything is my fault," which empowers you to learn from every experience rather than making excuses. Third, cultivate curiosity about your world and your clients' challenges. Fourth, seek mastery of your craft through consistent practice and learning. Finally, be impatient to act but patient about results, recognizing that improvement comes through small, incremental gains. With this foundation, you can begin building your arsenal through several practical disciplines. Start by reading widely and consistently, spending the last hour of each day with a book and pencil, marking passages that capture your attention and rewriting them in your own words the next day. Act like an apprentice by working alongside one-up colleagues, taking notes during their sales calls and asking why they chose certain approaches. Consider enrolling in a martial art to develop discipline and comfort with conflict. Journal your experiences to extract deeper lessons, and maintain both a decision journal and prediction journal to improve your judgment over time. To accelerate your expertise, ask clients to teach you about their business and industry. One example shows how this approach can yield immediate results: During a negotiation with a client, Iannarino encountered a contractual issue that threatened the deal. When he explained his position, the client's counsel offered, "We have language that we use in situations like this. I'll send it to you." This previously unknown contract language has since helped Iannarino negotiate eight other contracts. The most powerful way to solidify your expertise is to teach others what you're learning. This requires understanding your subject deeply enough to transfer knowledge, and the practice of articulating your insights strengthens your own command of them. As you develop in these areas, focus first on mastering the sales conversation, then your vantage point, then building and organizing insights, and finally deploying triangulation strategies. Remember that one-upness is not about making others feel one-down. The central idea remains: "I know something you don't know. May I share it with you?" Your goal is to help clients see their problems with new eyes, recognize paths to better results, and make decisions with greater confidence. In doing so, you become not just a vendor but a trusted guide whose expertise is irreplaceable.
Throughout this journey into the one-up approach, we've explored a fundamental truth about modern professional selling: the most valuable person in any sales conversation is the one who possesses knowledge and experience that can guide better decisions. As clients face increasingly complex business environments, they need more than products or services—they need trusted advisors who can help them navigate uncertainty with confidence and clarity. The essence of being one-up is captured perfectly in this simple statement: "People buy from people they trust to make a decision they don't trust themselves to make." By mastering the strategies outlined here—creating value through insights, commanding sales conversations, triangulating competition, compelling change with certainty, and building your arsenal of expertise—you position yourself as that trusted guide. You become someone who doesn't just sell, but who serves by sharing wisdom that transforms results. Today, take one deliberate step toward one-upness: Identify the three most important challenges your clients face, gather meaningful insights about them, and craft a perspective that helps clients see these challenges more clearly. Then, in your very next client interaction, lead with these insights rather than information about your company or solution. This small shift will begin transforming not just your results, but the very nature of your client relationships, placing you firmly on the path to thriving in the digital frontier.
Strengths: The review highlights the practical value of Anthony Iannarino's book "Elite Sales Strategies" in equipping sales professionals with consultative skills to differentiate themselves in a competitive market. It emphasizes the concept of moving from "One Down" to "One Up," providing insights to help customers effectively navigate their buying journey. The book is also praised for aligning with Gartner's concept of "Wayfinding," aiding sales professionals in guiding clients through their purchasing decisions.\nOverall Sentiment: Enthusiastic\nKey Takeaway: "Elite Sales Strategies" by Anthony Iannarino is recommended for sales professionals seeking to differentiate themselves by adopting a consultative approach, leveraging insights to assist customers in their buying journey, and aligning with the concept of "Wayfinding" to effectively guide clients.
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By Anthony Iannarino