Headscarves and Hymens

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Introduction

The Middle East stands at a critical juncture where ancient patriarchal structures clash with growing demands for women's liberation. Through a feminist lens, we witness how systematic oppression manifests across multiple dimensions of women's lives in the region - from legal discrimination to cultural practices that control female sexuality. This comprehensive examination moves beyond simplistic narratives to reveal how misogyny operates through an intricate alliance between religious institutions, state authorities, and social norms. What makes this perspective particularly compelling is its insistence on connecting political liberation with sexual revolution. The struggle for women's rights in the Middle East cannot be postponed until after political stability is achieved; rather, it forms the necessary foundation for any meaningful democratic transformation. By exposing the mechanisms that enforce female subordination - from virginity obsession to street harassment to restricted mobility - we gain crucial insights into how patriarchal control perpetuates authoritarian governance across the region, and why challenging these structures represents not just a women's issue but the heart of revolutionary change itself.

Chapter 1: The Systematic Oppression of Women in the Middle East

Across the Middle East and North Africa, a comprehensive system of laws, customs, and practices works together to suppress women's autonomy. Not a single Arab country ranks in the top hundred positions on the World Economic Forum's Global Gender Gap Report, placing the region consistently at the bottom globally. This dismal standing reflects deep-rooted discrimination that crosses national boundaries and transcends specific political systems, suggesting a regional pattern rather than isolated problems. The marginalization of women manifests differently across countries but follows recognizable patterns. In Saudi Arabia, the male guardianship system effectively renders adult women legal minors throughout their lives. They cannot travel, obtain education, work, or access healthcare without permission from male relatives. In Egypt, the personal status laws heavily favor men in marriage, divorce, and child custody matters. Morocco, despite its reputation for progressive family law reform, continues to struggle with child marriage and restrictions on women's inheritance rights. This systematic oppression is maintained through a powerful combination of religious interpretations, cultural practices, and state policies. Religious authorities often provide divine justification for restrictions on women's freedom, while cultural notions of family honor place the burden of communal morality on female bodies. Meanwhile, state institutions either actively enforce discriminatory laws or fail to protect women from violence and harassment. This creates a multilayered system of control that is difficult to challenge through isolated reforms. The economic dimension of gender oppression cannot be overlooked. Women's labor force participation remains strikingly low across the region, with female unemployment rates often double those of men. Even educated women face significant barriers to economic independence, which further reinforces their dependence on male relatives and restricts their ability to leave abusive situations. Economic dependence serves as a powerful tool of control within the larger system of oppression. What makes this systematic oppression particularly insidious is how it is internalized and perpetuated across generations. Mothers teach daughters to accept restrictions on their freedom as protection rather than control. Women themselves often become enforcers of patriarchal norms, policing other women's behavior to maintain social acceptance. This intergenerational transmission of restrictive gender norms demonstrates how deeply embedded the system has become in society's fabric. The revolutionary movements that swept across the region demonstrated both the potential for change and the persistence of gender oppression. Women played crucial roles in the uprisings, yet their specific demands for gender equality were frequently sidelined as "divisive" or "secondary" to the main political struggle. This pattern reveals how even revolutionary movements can reproduce patriarchal hierarchies unless they explicitly confront gender inequality as central to genuine democratic transformation.

Chapter 2: Religious and Cultural Justifications for Misogyny

The subjugation of women in the Middle East derives significant power from religious interpretations that elevate male authority to divine mandate. Conservative religious scholars across the region selectively emphasize scriptural passages that appear to establish male guardianship while downplaying or reinterpreting texts that affirm women's dignity and autonomy. This selective reading transforms contingent historical practices into eternal divine commands, making challenges to gender inequality appear as challenges to faith itself. Cultural traditions intertwine with religious justifications to create powerful narratives about women's proper roles and behaviors. Concepts like family honor, which places responsibility for communal reputation primarily on female sexual conduct, function as mechanisms of control that transcend specific religious boundaries. Christian and Muslim communities often share similar restrictions on women's mobility and sexuality despite theological differences, revealing how cultural patterns can operate independently of particular religious doctrines while still claiming religious legitimacy. The concept of modesty serves as a particularly effective tool for controlling women's bodies and behavior. Modest dress, segregation from unrelated men, and restrictions on public participation are framed not as limitations but as protections of women's inherent value. This framing obscures the underlying assumption that women's bodies are dangerous sources of temptation that must be controlled. The burden of preventing sexual impropriety falls entirely on women, while men are portrayed as unable to control their impulses when confronted with female visibility. Religious authorities have maintained near-monopoly control over the interpretation of sacred texts, excluding women's perspectives and experiences. Male scholars have traditionally determined how religious principles apply to women's lives without women's input. When women scholars attempt to offer alternative interpretations that emphasize justice and equality within religious frameworks, they face accusations of corrupting tradition or importing foreign values. This gatekeeping severely limits the development of feminist religious thought that might challenge patriarchal interpretations. The fusion of religious and cultural justifications creates a powerful mechanism for maintaining gender inequality because it positions women's liberation as a threat to cultural authenticity and religious identity. Resistance to women's rights is frequently framed as resistance to Western cultural imperialism rather than as the protection of male privilege. This framing creates a false dichotomy between religious/cultural integrity and women's equality, forcing women to choose between their identities and their rights. Despite these powerful justifications for gender inequality, progressive religious scholars and activists across the region have developed compelling counter-narratives that challenge patriarchal interpretations without rejecting religious faith. They distinguish between eternal religious principles of justice and dignity and historically contingent practices that reflected patriarchal societies. By returning to foundational religious values rather than specific historical applications, they create space for religious expressions that affirm women's full humanity and equal rights.

Chapter 3: State Violence and Sexual Control of Women's Bodies

State violence against women in the Middle East manifests most visibly through legal systems that codify gender discrimination. Personal status laws governing marriage, divorce, child custody, and inheritance consistently privilege male authority across the region. In many countries, women face legal barriers to passing citizenship to their children, receive lesser inheritance shares, and encounter significant obstacles to obtaining divorce. These discriminatory legal frameworks transform private patriarchal control into public policy, giving state sanction to gender inequality. Sexual violence serves as a deliberate tool of political repression throughout the region. Security forces in countries like Egypt, Syria, and Bahrain have systematically used sexual assault, rape, and humiliating body searches against female political activists and protesters. The notorious "virginity tests" conducted on female protesters in Egypt exemplify how state authorities deliberately violate women's bodies to punish political dissent and discourage female participation in public protests. This strategic deployment of sexual violence aims to force women back into private spaces and out of political contestation. The complicity between state authorities and street-level sexual harassment creates a continuum of violence that restricts women's access to public space. Police forces routinely dismiss reports of sexual harassment, blame victims for "inappropriate" dress or behavior, and fail to investigate sexual assaults. In Egypt, where studies indicate nearly all women experience street harassment, police inaction effectively grants social permission for this widespread abuse. State neglect of gender-based violence in public spaces reinforces the message that women enter these spaces at their own risk. State policies regarding women's mobility and autonomy reflect broader political objectives of social control. In Saudi Arabia, restrictions on women's driving functioned as a mechanism for limiting independent movement and reinforcing dependence on male guardians. In Iran, morality police enforce dress codes and behavioral restrictions as part of a broader agenda of social conformity. By controlling women's bodies and movements, authoritarian regimes establish their authority to regulate all aspects of citizens' lives under the guise of protecting public morality. The sexual control of women's bodies extends to reproductive rights, with state policies frequently limiting women's autonomy over their fertility and reproductive health. Abortion remains heavily restricted across most of the region, contraception access is often limited, and comprehensive sexual education is largely absent from school curricula. These restrictions reflect state interests in controlling population growth and maintaining conservative social norms rather than respecting women's bodily autonomy and health needs. Even ostensibly progressive state reforms often maintain underlying structures of control while changing their external manifestations. When states implement limited women's rights reforms in response to international pressure, they frequently do so in ways that preserve male authority within families while creating the appearance of modernization. For example, amendments to domestic violence laws may criminalize physical abuse while maintaining husband's authority in other aspects of marriage, or educational opportunities may expand while social pressures to prioritize marriage and motherhood remain intense.

Chapter 4: Female Genital Mutilation and the God of Virginity

Female genital mutilation represents one of the most extreme physical manifestations of society's determination to control female sexuality. Despite not being mentioned in religious texts, this practice persists across parts of the Middle East and North Africa, with particularly high rates in Egypt where studies have found that over 90% of women have undergone some form of cutting. The procedure, which ranges from partial to complete removal of external female genitalia, aims explicitly to reduce women's sexual pleasure and ensure their "purity" before marriage. The obsession with virginity drives numerous harmful practices beyond FGM. Hymen reconstruction surgeries have become increasingly common across the region as women seek to meet the expectation of bleeding on their wedding night. Families may subject daughters to humiliating "virginity tests" upon suspicion of sexual activity, while some hospitals perform similar examinations on rape victims. This fixation transforms a minor membrane into the physical embodiment of family honor, with devastating consequences for women whose bodies do not conform to expected norms. The economic and social infrastructure surrounding virginity reveals its central importance to regional gender systems. Businesses profit from hymen reconstruction surgeries, virginity-mimicking devices, and certificates of virginity. Meanwhile, marriage markets heavily value proof of virginity, with families sometimes demanding evidence before finalizing arrangements. This commercialization of female "purity" demonstrates how deeply the control of female sexuality is embedded in both cultural practices and economic systems. The psychological impact of virginity obsession manifests in profound ways that shape women's relationship to their own bodies. Many women develop a sense of alienation from their sexual selves, viewing their bodies primarily as vessels of family honor rather than sources of personal pleasure. Sexual education focuses overwhelmingly on abstinence rather than understanding, creating generations of women with minimal knowledge about their own anatomy and sexual response. This deliberate ignorance serves to maintain male control over female sexuality. What makes the virginity cult particularly pernicious is how it transforms women from subjects into objects. A woman's value becomes determined not by her character, intelligence, or accomplishments but by the perceived intact state of her hymen. This reduction of women to their virginity status represents a fundamental denial of their full humanity and agency. The intact hymen becomes more valuable than the woman herself, as evidenced by families who would rather see their daughters dead than "dishonored." Religious authorities have largely failed to challenge these harmful practices, with many actively reinforcing them through their teachings. While neither FGM nor virginity testing has explicit religious sanction in Islamic or Christian texts, religious leaders often remain silent on these abuses or actively promote them as means of ensuring female moral virtue. Their complicity reveals how cultural practices become sacralized over time, with religious authority providing powerful justification for continued control of female bodies and sexuality.

Chapter 5: Challenges to Female Autonomy in Public and Private Spaces

Women's autonomy in the Middle East faces distinct challenges in both public and private domains, with restrictive systems operating in complementary ways. In public spaces, women encounter pervasive sexual harassment that functions as a form of social control. Studies across the region report staggeringly high rates of harassment, with one UN survey finding that 99.3% of Egyptian women have experienced street harassment. This omnipresent threat of violation serves as a powerful deterrent to women's free movement, effectively restricting their access to education, employment, and political participation. The legal and judicial systems frequently compound rather than alleviate these challenges to women's autonomy. Police often refuse to intervene in "family matters" even in cases of severe domestic violence. Courts may reduce sentences for "honor crimes" or even exonerate perpetrators entirely. In several countries, laws allow rapists to escape punishment by marrying their victims, prioritizing family reputation over women's bodily integrity. These systematic failures of justice reinforce the message that women cannot expect state protection from violence. Employment discrimination creates significant economic barriers to female independence. Despite increasing levels of education, women across the region face disproportionately high unemployment rates and significant wage gaps. Workplace harassment, lack of childcare, and social stigma against certain occupations further limit women's economic options. This economic vulnerability reinforces women's dependence on male relatives and marriages for financial security, directly undermining their ability to make autonomous life choices. The home often becomes a site of intensified control rather than sanctuary. Domestic violence remains widespread and legally sanctioned in many countries. Marriage laws grant husbands authority over wives' movements, employment, and sexual access. Child marriage persists despite documented harms to girls' physical and psychological development. These private restrictions mirror and reinforce public limitations on women's autonomy, creating a comprehensive system of control that leaves few spaces for independent decision-making. Digital spaces, while offering new possibilities for connection and expression, have become additional sites of surveillance and harassment. Family members monitor women's social media accounts, while online harassment targets outspoken women with sexual threats and character assassination. The phenomenon of "digital honor crimes" has emerged, where private information or images are shared online to damage women's reputations. These evolving forms of control demonstrate how patriarchal systems adapt to new technologies while maintaining their fundamental aim of restricting female autonomy. Religious institutions often legitimate these restrictions on women's autonomy by framing them as divinely ordained protections rather than limitations. Concepts like qiwamah (male guardianship) and ta'a (wifely obedience) are presented as religious obligations rather than cultural constructs. This religious framing makes challenging these restrictions particularly difficult, as doing so can be portrayed as challenging divine authority rather than human interpretation. Nevertheless, women across the region have developed feminist religious interpretations that challenge these patriarchal readings of sacred texts.

Chapter 6: Women's Resistance and the Path to Liberation

Women across the Middle East have consistently resisted oppression through both organized movements and everyday acts of defiance. Feminist organizations have campaigned for legal reforms, documented human rights abuses, and created support networks for women facing violence. These formal movements have achieved significant legislative victories, such as Morocco's reform of family law, Tunisia's criminalization of domestic violence, and Egypt's laws against sexual harassment. Their persistent advocacy demonstrates that women refuse to accept subjugation as inevitable or divinely ordained. Individual acts of resistance reveal the creativity and courage of women challenging patriarchal restrictions. Saudi women who drive despite legal prohibitions, Egyptian women who document street harassment online, Lebanese women who refuse arranged marriages - these seemingly small acts of defiance collectively undermine systems of control. By transgressing boundaries set around their bodies and behaviors, women create spaces of possibility that inspire others to question and resist. Digital platforms have created new avenues for resistance that bypass traditional gatekeepers. Women use social media to document abuses, share experiences, and build solidarity across geographic and class divides. Hashtag campaigns like #MeToo have been adapted to local contexts, allowing women to break silence around sexual violence. Online forums provide spaces where women can discuss previously taboo topics like sexuality, reproductive health, and religious interpretation, developing collective knowledge that challenges patriarchal narratives. Revolutionary movements throughout the region have provided critical opportunities for advancing women's liberation, even as they have sometimes reproduced gender hierarchies. Women participated prominently in protests from Tunisia to Yemen, often finding temporary freedom from gender restrictions amid revolutionary upheaval. These experiences of political participation and public visibility have transformed women's consciousness and created new possibilities for challenging gender norms, regardless of the revolutions' immediate political outcomes. The most promising path to liberation lies in connecting the personal and political dimensions of resistance. Women increasingly recognize that political revolution without social transformation will simply replace one form of patriarchal authority with another. This insight has led to growing emphasis on challenging gender norms within families and communities alongside demanding legal and political reforms. By addressing how power operates in intimate relationships as well as state institutions, women are developing more comprehensive strategies for lasting change. Women's liberation movements across the region increasingly recognize the need for intersectional approaches that address multiple forms of oppression simultaneously. Class privilege, sectarian identity, and urban-rural divides create different experiences of gender oppression. Effective resistance requires addressing how these factors interact rather than pursuing a one-size-fits-all approach to women's liberation. By building coalitions across these differences while acknowledging their significance, women are creating more inclusive and effective movements for change.

Summary

The feminist perspective on gender oppression in the Middle East reveals an interlocking system where religious interpretation, cultural practice, state policy, and economic structures mutually reinforce female subordination. By examining how control over women's bodies and sexuality operates across public and private domains, we gain crucial insight into why superficial political reforms consistently fail to deliver meaningful change. The patriarchal structures that dominate homes, religious institutions, and public spaces ultimately serve the same function as authoritarian political systems - maintaining hierarchies of power through restriction of freedom and suppression of dissent. What emerges most powerfully from this analysis is the recognition that genuine democratic transformation requires a parallel sexual revolution that challenges the fundamental premises of female subjugation. Women's resistance movements throughout the region demonstrate that liberation cannot be postponed until after political stability is achieved, nor can it be dismissed as a cultural luxury inappropriate for societies facing economic challenges or political turmoil. Rather, women's full participation and bodily autonomy represent essential foundations for any society seeking to overcome authoritarian control. The path forward lies not in choosing between cultural authenticity and women's rights, but in recognizing that true social justice requires confronting all systems of domination, whether they operate in presidential palaces or family homes.

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Mona Eltahawy

Mona Eltahawy is an award-winning writer on Arab and Muslim issues and global feminism. She is the author of Headscarves and Hymens: Why the Middle East Needs a Sexual Revolution (2015) and The Seven Necessary Sins for Women and Girls (2019), founder of the newsletter Feminist Giant, and a regular contributor to The Guardian.

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