Picture Your Prosperity

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Introduction

Have you ever felt like life is happening to you rather than for you? Many of us move through our days reacting to circumstances, putting out fires, and responding to others' needs while our own dreams gather dust. This reactive approach often leaves us wondering where our time went and why we feel unfulfilled despite being constantly busy. The truth is that a purposeful, prosperous life rarely happens by accident—it's deliberately created through conscious choices aligned with our deepest values. Living with intention means taking control of your destiny rather than surrendering it to chance or outside forces. It means cultivating optimism not as blind positivity but as a strategic mindset that opens doors to possibility. Throughout these pages, you'll discover how combining purposeful vision with practical action creates a powerful framework for building the life you truly desire. Whether you're seeking financial security, meaningful relationships, professional fulfillment, or personal growth, the principles shared here will help you craft a path forward with clarity and confidence.

Chapter 1: Visualize Your Future with Purpose

Visualization is far more than just positive thinking or daydreaming—it's a powerful cognitive tool that literally rewires your brain for success. When you create vivid mental images of your desired future, your reticular activating system (RAS)—the filtering mechanism in your brain that decides what information deserves your conscious attention—begins scanning your environment for opportunities aligned with those images. Essentially, your brain starts working for you even when you're not consciously focused on your goals. Take the remarkable story of Tamara, a fashion retailer who overcame significant physical challenges in her childhood. Born with a serious birth defect affecting her leg, she endured thirteen surgeries between ages two and eighteen, spending over three years total in hospitals. During these difficult stays, young Tamara began using visualization not just as escapism but as a purposeful practice. She would picture herself wearing stylish clothing instead of hospital gowns, looking "cool" despite her circumstances. Her doctor at Shriners Hospital even encouraged her to visualize healthy cells destroying diseased ones in her leg, comparing it to the game Pac-Man. Whether through medical intervention, visualization, or both, Tamara made a full recovery and carried her visualization practice into adulthood. As a young adult, Tamara's visualization evolved from healing to career aspirations. She began picturing herself owning a fashion boutique filled with the clothing styles she loved. She didn't just dream—she prepared by working in Chicago boutiques she admired, researching the industry, and developing a detailed business plan. By age twenty-five, she opened Clever Alice, her own successful boutique that eventually attracted celebrity clients and media attention. Later, visualization continued shaping her life when she found herself feeling something was missing despite her business success. When she asked herself "What does happiness look like?" and began picturing it, the image that came was surprising—a tall man and two children, something she hadn't consciously desired before. Shortly after, she met her future husband on a flight from Paris, married him, and eventually had two children. The beauty of purposeful visualization lies in its accessibility. You don't need special training or equipment—just your imagination and a few minutes of focused attention daily. Begin by finding a quiet space where you won't be disturbed. Close your eyes and breathe deeply to center yourself. Then create detailed mental images of what you want to achieve or experience. Engage all your senses—what would you see, hear, smell, taste, and feel in this desired reality? Most importantly, connect with the emotions of already having achieved your goal. How would accomplishment feel in your body? Where would you feel that sensation? Research suggests your subconscious mind struggles to distinguish between vividly imagined experiences and actual ones, making this emotional component particularly powerful. For maximum impact, create a physical representation of your vision. This could be a vision board with images that represent your goals, a written description of your ideal future, or even objects that symbolize what you're working toward. Place this representation somewhere you'll see it daily to reinforce the neural pathways you're developing through visualization. Remember to review and refine your vision regularly as your goals and circumstances evolve. Ultimately, visualization works best when combined with action. As Tamara's story demonstrates, purposeful visualization doesn't replace practical steps—it illuminates the path and motivates you to keep moving forward even when challenges arise. By consistently aligning your thoughts, emotions, and actions with your desired future, you create a powerful momentum toward making that vision reality.

Chapter 2: Assess Your Current Financial Reality

Before you can effectively move toward your financial goals, you must gain complete clarity about where you stand right now. This assessment phase might feel uncomfortable—many people avoid looking closely at their financial situation out of fear or shame—but this honest evaluation is essential for meaningful progress. Think of it as taking inventory before a journey: you need to know exactly what resources you have and what challenges you face before charting your course forward. Jim's parents offer a cautionary tale about what happens when people skip this crucial step. They had dreamed of retirement for years, picturing themselves buying an RV and traveling across the country. When retirement finally arrived, they enthusiastically purchased their RV and hit the road, assuming their Social Security benefits would cover their basic expenses. They hadn't accounted for unexpected costs like the dramatic increase in gas prices that occurred shortly after they began traveling. Their financial reality soon became painfully clear when they received a call from their oldest son, who was going through a divorce and needed to move in with them—an impossible accommodation in their small RV. Unable to sustain their dream lifestyle, they were forced to sell their RV at a loss and return to their former living situation, disappointed and financially worse off than before. Creating a comprehensive financial inventory is your first practical step toward avoiding similar outcomes. This inventory should include everything you own (assets) and everything you owe (liabilities). Assets include checking and savings accounts, investment accounts, retirement funds, real estate, vehicles, and valuable personal property. Liabilities encompass mortgages, car loans, student loans, credit card debt, and any other outstanding obligations. Subtracting your liabilities from your assets gives you your net worth—a snapshot of your current financial position. This calculation might yield a lower number than you'd hoped for or even a negative number, but having this information empowers you to make informed decisions moving forward. Consider the experience of Kathleen, a 42-year-old cardiologist who had moved between several medical practices. When she finally decided to organize her finances with a financial advisor, they discovered she had retirement accounts from three previous employers, bank accounts in three different cities, and childhood mutual funds with her mother still listed as custodian. Most surprisingly, while reviewing these scattered assets, Kathleen remembered stock certificates in her safe-deposit box that she had completely forgotten about—IBM shares worth over $500,000! This dramatic example illustrates how a thorough financial inventory can reveal not just challenges but also overlooked resources. Next, evaluate your cash flow by creating a spending plan (a more empowering term than "budget"). Track your income and expenses for at least a month to understand where your money is actually going. As you categorize expenses, assign each a priority level based on how much you truly value what that money provides. This value-based approach is more meaningful than simply labeling expenses as "fixed" or "discretionary." For instance, if your child's education is critically important to you, college savings would be a top priority. If cable TV with hundreds of channels isn't particularly valuable to your quality of life, that expense would receive a lower priority ranking. This prioritization process often reveals powerful insights, as it did for Jessie. She discovered that housing costs for a home that no longer suited her empty-nest lifestyle were consuming most of her income, forcing her to work at a family business she disliked. To cope with job stress, she was taking expensive vacations and accumulating credit card debt. Once she clearly saw this pattern, Jessie made the strategic decision to sell her house and purchase a smaller condo, dramatically reducing her monthly expenses. This allowed her to pay off her credit card debt and eventually leave the family business to start her own consulting firm, creating a life that better aligned with her true priorities and values.

Chapter 3: Design a Strategic Financial Plan

A strategic financial plan serves as the bridge between your current reality and your desired future. It transforms abstract hopes into concrete, achievable milestones. Without this roadmap, even the most inspired vision can remain frustratingly out of reach. The good news is that creating an effective financial plan doesn't require complex spreadsheets or advanced economic knowledge—it simply demands clarity, consistency, and the courage to make choices aligned with your true priorities. Mary, a 35-year-old social worker and college instructor in Chicago, exemplifies how an intentional approach to planning can yield remarkable results. Years earlier, she had created a list of lifetime goals that included buying a downtown Chicago condo, adopting a dog, and helping her nephew pay for college. She committed to accomplishing one significant goal each year. For her condo goal, Mary determined she needed a two-bedroom place in her desired neighborhood, which would cost between $250,000 and $300,000. With $20,000 already saved, she calculated she needed an additional $40,000 for a 20% down payment and set a three-year timeframe for this goal. Mary realized that saving an extra $1,100 monthly toward her down payment exceeded what her social work salary could support. Rather than abandoning her goal, she leveraged her advanced degree to secure part-time teaching work at a local college. Though this significantly increased her workload and reduced her free time, Mary kept her focus on the long-term vision. Her determination paid off—while she didn't quite reach her original three-year timeline, within four years she moved into her beautiful new condo in a vibrant Chicago neighborhood. Similarly, she achieved her dog adoption goal by clearly understanding both the upfront costs and the ongoing monthly expenses for pet care, which she incorporated into her spending plan. Understanding compound interest is fundamental to effective financial planning. When you invest money regularly and leave it to grow over time, even modest returns can generate impressive results through the power of compounding. For example, investing just $200 monthly for 25 years with no growth would accumulate $60,000. However, that same $200 monthly with a 6% average annual return could potentially grow to almost $136,000. The key is consistency—continuing to make regular contributions and allowing earnings to remain in the account, working for you. When designing your plan, match your investment approach to each goal's timeframe. For short-term goals (less than five years away), focus on stability rather than growth potential. Options like savings accounts, certificates of deposit, or short-term bond funds provide appropriate vehicles for these near-term objectives. For longer-term goals, consider diversified investments in the stock market, which historically has delivered stronger returns over extended periods despite short-term volatility. The S&P 500 Index, which tracks the performance of 500 large U.S. companies, has averaged annual returns exceeding 11% since its establishment in 1957—including periods of recession, war, and other significant challenges. Risk tolerance—your emotional capacity to withstand investment fluctuations—should also shape your plan. Studies show that for most people, the pain of losing money feels much more intense than the pleasure of gaining it. This explains why many investors panic and sell during market downturns, often to their detriment. Be honest with yourself about how you might react if your investments dropped significantly in value. Would you stay the course or sell in fear? Aligning your investment strategy with your emotional comfort level increases the likelihood you'll stick with your plan through inevitable market cycles.

Chapter 4: Take Consistent Action Toward Goals

Even the most brilliantly designed financial plan means nothing without consistent implementation. Like a masterpiece that remains only in the artist's mind, unrealized intentions create no value in the real world. Taking action—often small, unglamorous steps repeated day after day—is what ultimately transforms your vision into tangible results. This transition from planning to doing represents the pivotal moment where many people falter, not because of inadequate knowledge or resources, but because of what's happening inside their "bird suit." This metaphor of the "bird suit" helps us understand the crucial role of our internal thought patterns. Imagine yourself as the person inside a Big Bird costume—your inner thoughts and beliefs are the actual driver, while your external actions are what others observe. If your internal monologue consistently undermines your efforts with thoughts like "I'm terrible with money" or "I'll never be able to retire," these limiting beliefs will sabotage even the most technically sound financial plan. Consider Joan, a highly successful corporate executive who accumulated nearly $9.5 million through disciplined saving and smart career moves. Despite this objective wealth, Joan felt poor and believed she couldn't retire for years. Her childhood in a large family with limited resources had embedded a scarcity mindset that persisted despite her financial success. Our financial beliefs often form during early childhood, long before we develop critical thinking skills. According to Dr. Bruce Lipton, most of our subconscious beliefs are established between conception and age six, and these early impressions guide our behavior 95% of the time. Ellen discovered this when she realized she had unconsciously absorbed the belief that "it's the man's job to earn money" from observing her parents' dynamic, despite her own career as a CPA and Certified Financial Planner. Once she recognized this limiting belief, she could consciously replace it with empowering alternatives that better served her goals. To shift unhelpful financial beliefs, first develop awareness of your thought patterns. When you catch yourself thinking "I'll never be able to retire" or "I'm hopeless with investments," simply notice the thought without judgment. Next, decide whether this belief serves your goals or hinders them. Finally, deliberately replace negative thoughts with more supportive alternatives using a simple "cancel/clear" technique. Just as you might delete unwanted messages from your voicemail, train yourself to mentally "delete" unhelpful financial thoughts when they arise. With practice, this technique can significantly reduce the mental interference that blocks progress toward your goals. Taking effective action also requires practical support systems. The "financial flowerpot" approach provides a simple framework for organizing your savings. Imagine a row of flowerpots on your windowsill, each representing a specific financial goal. When you direct money into these separate accounts—whether for emergencies, retirement, education, or other objectives—you're "watering" these goals so they can grow. Setting up automatic transfers from your checking account to each flowerpot makes this process nearly effortless, like an automatic watering system for your financial garden. This systematic approach leverages behavioral economics research showing that most people naturally think of their money in separate mental categories. Building a strong personal support team further increases your chances of success. While many people maintain strict privacy around money matters, trying to accomplish financial goals without encouragement and accountability can make the journey unnecessarily difficult. This team might include knowledgeable friends, family members who share your values, and professional advisors when appropriate. Choose team members carefully—people who will genuinely support your vision rather than projecting their own fears or limitations onto your plans. If you're in a relationship, working openly with your partner to create shared financial understanding is particularly important, even if one person handles most day-to-day money management.

Chapter 5: Develop Gratitude as a Financial Practice

Financial happiness doesn't automatically increase with your account balance. We all know wealthy people who remain anxious about money and those with modest means who feel genuinely prosperous. The difference often lies not in how much they have but in how they relate to what they have. Gratitude—the practice of noticing and appreciating what's already present in your life—serves as a powerful catalyst for both financial wellbeing and overall life satisfaction. Sharon, an actor turned attorney, learned this lesson after accumulating substantial student loans and credit card debt following law school. She made minimum payments without much thought until a friend's financial crisis served as a wake-up call. Sharon realized that purchases she had justified as "buying on sale" were actually costing her years of payments at high interest rates. This awareness sparked a sense of financial responsibility that motivated her to eliminate her $6,000 credit card debt within one year despite her limited income. Though she ate more than her share of ramen noodles during this period, Sharon describes the accomplishment as transformative. By clearing this financial burden, she created space for genuine gratitude about her improving situation rather than persistent anxiety about mounting debt. Numerous studies confirm that gratitude practices yield remarkable benefits across multiple life dimensions. Research shows that focusing on what you're thankful for even just five minutes daily can reduce stress, improve sleep quality, strengthen immune function, and potentially extend longevity. Perhaps most surprisingly, regularly practicing gratitude can boost happiness levels more significantly than doubling your income. When we direct our attention toward appreciation rather than lack, we naturally shift from scarcity thinking to an abundance mindset that supports better financial decisions. Ellen witnessed this pattern while raising her children. She instituted a bedtime ritual where each child shared five things they were grateful for that day. Rather than focusing on material possessions as she had initially expected, her children often expressed gratitude for relationships, experiences, and feelings of security. This simple practice helped cultivate a positive relationship with abundance that continued as they grew. Ellen had observed that chronic overspenders typically focused on what they lacked, while good savers more frequently expressed thankfulness for what they had. Though this correlation doesn't guarantee financial success, developing gratitude offers significant benefits with essentially no downside. Implementing gratitude as a financial practice can take many forms. You might spend five minutes daily writing about what you're thankful for in a dedicated journal, pausing during meditation to review your blessings, or using red lights during your commute as reminders to think of something you appreciate. Some people express gratitude when paying bills, either by writing "Thank you" under their signature on checks or mentally acknowledging their ability to cover these expenses when making electronic payments. These small shifts in perspective transform what many experience as financial drudgery into opportunities for appreciating life's abundance. Giving to others represents another powerful dimension of financial gratitude. Research across diverse cultures consistently shows that spending money on others creates greater happiness than spending the same amount on ourselves. This "helper's high" isn't just psychological—it triggers measurable neurological responses similar to those produced by certain drugs or pleasurable experiences. When we give from a place of genuine gratitude rather than obligation, we create a positive feedback loop that enhances our own sense of abundance while benefiting others. This can be as simple as supporting a friend's fundraiser, donating to causes aligned with your values, or establishing a dedicated "giving account" that receives a percentage of your income specifically for charitable purposes. Perhaps most profoundly, gratitude practices help shift our focus from constantly wanting more to appreciating what we already have. This doesn't mean abandoning ambition or growth—rather, it means pursuing those goals from a foundation of sufficiency rather than deficiency. The resulting sense of "enough-ness" naturally reduces impulse spending, status-driven purchases, and the comparison mindset that fuels financial discontent. By developing gratitude as a financial practice, you create space for true prosperity that transcends numbers on a balance sheet.

Chapter 6: Create Resilience for Financial Challenges

Financial resilience—the ability to withstand and recover from economic setbacks—functions much like the foundation of a house. Without this solid base, even the most beautiful structure remains vulnerable to collapse during inevitable storms. In the classic tale of the three little pigs, only the pig who built with bricks created a home that could withstand the wolf's attacks. Similarly, developing financial resilience requires thoughtful preparation rather than hasty construction with whatever materials happen to be at hand. Living in what we might call the "Prosperity Zone" rather than "Scare-City" forms the cornerstone of this foundation. Most people have experienced occasional financial anxiety—that's normal. The problem arises when we spend most of our mental energy focused on financial difficulties, economic problems, and scarcity thinking. This negative orientation creates a perceptual filter that highlights limitations rather than possibilities, potentially keeping us stuck in patterns that undermine our financial wellbeing. Leslie's story illustrates this dynamic. After her husband's death, she discovered he had depleted her inheritance and accumulated substantial credit card debt without her knowledge. While her husband's actions were certainly irresponsible, Leslie's continued focus on blaming him years later kept her trapped in victim mentality, unable to take productive steps toward improving her situation. Shifting perspective represents the first step toward building resilience. Byron Katie's insight that "Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you" offers a powerful reframing tool. When faced with financial challenges, ask yourself: "If there were a valuable lesson or opportunity in this situation, what might it be?" Consider Tara and Andy, who built two successful restaurants only to lose everything when their bank unexpectedly called back their loan during an economic downturn and construction disruption. Rather than remaining mired in resentment, they used this painful situation to reassess their true priorities. They realized they had never genuinely enjoyed the restaurant business despite their success in it. Andy rediscovered his passion for painting and began selling his artwork, while Tara developed a thriving graphic design business serving women entrepreneurs. They also relocated to Colorado, a move they had long desired but never pursued while anchored to their restaurants. Though they would have preferred making these changes proactively, they ultimately recognized their financial setback as a catalyst for creating a more fulfilling life. Developing self-calming skills further strengthens financial resilience. When facing money worries, our nervous system often triggers the same fight-or-flight response designed to help our ancestors escape predators. This biological reaction diverts blood from our brain's prefrontal cortex—the region responsible for rational decision-making—to our limbs, preparing us for physical escape rather than thoughtful problem-solving. Consciously practicing deep breathing can counteract this stress response. Try breathing in through your nose for a count of four, then exhaling through your mouth for a count of six. Repeat this pattern several times whenever financial anxiety arises. This simple technique sends signals to your brain that reduce stress hormones and restore access to your rational thinking capacity. Regular meditation or yoga practice provides another powerful resilience-building tool. Research shows that meditation not only reduces stress but can actually enhance creative thinking and problem-solving abilities. These practices help quiet the constant mental chatter that often accompanies financial concerns, creating space for insight and clarity. Ellen compares this to sharpening kitchen knives—just as dull knives make cooking frustratingly difficult, a mind cluttered with worry makes financial decisions unnecessarily challenging. Even five minutes of daily meditation can begin sharpening your mental tools, making you more resilient when facing financial uncertainty. Practical preparation complements these internal resilience practices. Establishing appropriate insurance coverage—including health, auto, home, life, disability, and long-term care insurance—creates essential protection against catastrophic financial losses. Similarly, developing a clear estate plan ensures your assets will be distributed according to your wishes and provides for the care of any dependents. Though these topics may seem uncomfortable to address, they represent crucial elements of a comprehensive financial safety net that can preserve your prosperity through difficult circumstances.

Summary

Throughout these pages, we've explored how combining intentional vision with practical action creates a powerful framework for building your ideal life. From visualization techniques that activate your brain's reticular activating system to concrete financial strategies that transform aspirations into achievements, each approach serves a specific purpose in your prosperity journey. Perhaps most importantly, we've examined how internal factors—your beliefs, thought patterns, and emotional responses—profoundly influence your external financial outcomes. As you move forward, remember Eleanor Roosevelt's wise observation that "the future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams." Your capacity to create positive change extends far beyond your current circumstances. Choose one technique from this book—perhaps a daily visualization practice, a gratitude ritual, or establishing your first financial flowerpot—and implement it consistently for the next thirty days. This single step, though it may seem small, will begin generating momentum toward the prosperous future you deserve. The most important thing is not where you start but that you start today, with intention and optimism guiding your path forward.

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Ellen Rogin

ELLEN ROGIN, CPA and CFP®, has more than twenty years of experience as a financial adviser and is a nationally known expert on building wealth.

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