
Sense and Sensibility
Two Sisters, Two Paths to Love
Categories
Fiction, Classics, Audiobook, Historical Fiction, Romance, Literature, 19th Century, Historical, Novels, Classic Literature
Content Type
Book
Binding
Paperback
Year
2003
Publisher
Penguin Books
Language
English
ASIN
0141439661
ISBN
0141439661
ISBN13
9780141439662
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Sense and Sensibility Plot Summary
Introduction
"It is not what we say or think that defines us, but what we do." This sentiment, though never explicitly stated in these words, permeates the story of two sisters navigating the treacherous waters of love and society in early 19th century England. When sudden misfortune strips them of financial security and social standing, they must rely on their contrasting temperaments to weather disappointment, deception, and heartbreak. One sister faces life's challenges with rational restraint, the other with passionate expressiveness—neither approach proving entirely sufficient on its own. The narrative unfolds against the backdrop of a society obsessed with propriety and financial security, where marriage represents both emotional fulfillment and economic necessity. Through the sisters' parallel journeys, we witness the limitations of both excessive sensibility and rigid self-control, ultimately discovering that emotional intelligence requires a balance of heart and head. This exploration of human psychology transcends its historical setting, offering timeless insights into how we process grief, maintain dignity amid disappointment, and find authentic connection in a world that often values appearance over substance.
Chapter 1: The Dashwood Sisters: Contrasting Temperaments
The Dashwood family's comfortable existence at Norland Park shatters with the death of Henry Dashwood, whose estate passes to his son from a previous marriage. Despite the dying man's plea that his son provide for his stepmother and half-sisters, the son's greedy wife Fanny ensures that Mrs. Dashwood and her three daughters—Elinor, Marianne, and Margaret—are left with barely enough to survive. Forced to accept the charity of a distant relative, they relocate to a small cottage in Devonshire, their reduced circumstances setting the stage for the sisters' contrasting approaches to adversity. Elinor, at nineteen, embodies sense—rational, reserved, and mindful of social propriety. As the family's primary emotional support, she conceals her own feelings to spare others additional distress. Her careful consideration before speaking or acting represents not emotional coldness but a deep sense of responsibility toward those around her. When faced with disappointment or grief, Elinor maintains her composure, finding strength in self-discipline and moral principle. Her practical nature allows her to manage the family's limited finances and navigate complex social situations with grace. Marianne, at seventeen, personifies sensibility—passionate, impulsive, and guided by emotional authenticity rather than social convention. Gifted in music and literature, she approaches life with romantic intensity, believing that true feeling must be expressed without restraint. She scorns moderation as dishonesty, declaring that "to wish was to hope, and to hope was to expect." When Marianne loves, she loves completely; when she grieves, she does so without concern for who might witness her tears. Her emotional transparency makes her both deeply appealing and dangerously vulnerable. Their younger sister Margaret, only thirteen, observes and sometimes imitates her older sisters but has not yet developed a fixed temperament. Their mother, Mrs. Dashwood, tends toward Marianne's sensibility, encouraging emotional expression and romantic notions, sometimes at the expense of practical considerations. This family dynamic means Elinor often stands alone in her cautious approach to life, bearing responsibility beyond her years while receiving little recognition for her emotional labor. The sisters' contrasting natures immediately influence their romantic prospects. Before leaving Norland, Elinor forms an attachment to Edward Ferrars, Fanny's brother, whose quiet intelligence and moral integrity appeal to her discerning nature. Though she believes her feelings reciprocated, Elinor maintains a careful reserve, unwilling to presume too much without explicit declarations. Marianne criticizes this restraint, insisting that true love must be passionate and demonstrative. This fundamental difference in their understanding of love and emotional expression will shape their individual journeys through heartbreak toward happiness.
Chapter 2: Edward Ferrars and the Secret Engagement
Edward Ferrars presents a stark contrast to the typical ambitious young men of his social standing. Despite his family's expectations that he pursue a prestigious career in politics or law, Edward harbors simpler desires for a quiet life as a country clergyman. His modest ambitions and unassuming manner endear him to Elinor, who values his gentle temperament and moral integrity over the superficial accomplishments that society typically admires. Their connection at Norland develops through thoughtful conversations rather than dramatic declarations, establishing a foundation of mutual respect and understanding. When Edward visits the Dashwoods at Barton Cottage, his behavior seems oddly constrained. Though clearly fond of Elinor, he appears melancholy and distracted. During this visit, Marianne notices a ring containing a lock of hair on Edward's finger. When questioned, he becomes flustered and claims it belongs to his sister, though Elinor suspects otherwise. This small incident plants the first seed of doubt in Elinor's mind about Edward's freedom to form an attachment with her, though her sense of propriety prevents her from pressing him for explanations. The mystery deepens when Lucy Steele, a young woman visiting the Middletons, deliberately seeks Elinor's confidence. With calculated precision, Lucy reveals that she and Edward have been secretly engaged for four years, having formed an attachment while he was studying with her uncle, Mr. Pratt. According to Lucy, they have kept their engagement secret due to his mother's likely disapproval of Lucy's lack of fortune and connections. To prove her claim, Lucy shows Elinor a miniature portrait of Edward and mentions the ring containing her hair that he always wears. This revelation is devastating to Elinor, who must now conceal both her own heartbreak and Lucy's confidence. With remarkable self-control, she maintains her composure during this conversation, neither revealing her own feelings for Edward nor expressing doubt about Lucy's claims. Though she has reason to question Lucy's character and sincerity, the details of her story seem to confirm its truth. Edward's unexplained absences, his melancholy, and the mysterious ring suddenly make painful sense. In subsequent interactions, Lucy seems determined to torment Elinor by constantly bringing up Edward and seeking her advice about their situation. She cleverly uses Elinor's sense of honor against her, knowing that once entrusted with the secret, Elinor will feel obligated to keep it. This forces Elinor to endure not only her private heartbreak but also the painful role of confidante to her rival, demonstrating her extraordinary capacity for self-command and her commitment to propriety even at great personal cost.
Chapter 3: Willoughby's Courtship and Mysterious Departure
Marianne's romantic sensibilities find their perfect match when she literally falls into the arms of the dashing John Willoughby. After twisting her ankle during a rainstorm, Marianne is rescued by Willoughby, who carries her home in a scene straight from a romantic novel. Handsome, charming, and sharing Marianne's passionate appreciation for poetry and music, Willoughby quickly becomes the center of her world. Unlike Edward's reserved manner with Elinor, Willoughby's attentions to Marianne are unmistakable and public, perfectly aligning with her belief that true feelings should be openly expressed. Their relationship progresses with an intensity and openness that scandalizes even the liberal Sir John Middleton. Willoughby visits the cottage daily, spending hours alone with Marianne as they read poetry, play music, and share their mutual admiration for romantic literature. They exchange locks of hair, a significant token of affection, and Willoughby even takes Marianne to visit Allenham, his future property, without a proper chaperone—an action that Elinor considers highly improper. Marianne defends their behavior, insisting that nothing matters but the authenticity of their feelings. The depth of their connection seems undeniable, and though no formal engagement is announced, everyone in their circle assumes it is merely a matter of time. Marianne herself appears certain of Willoughby's devotion, and her happiness is complete. Even Elinor, despite her concerns about the propriety of their behavior, cannot doubt the sincerity of their mutual attachment, though she notices Colonel Brandon's evident discomfort whenever Willoughby is mentioned. This idyllic period comes to an abrupt end when Willoughby suddenly announces his immediate departure for London on business. His manner during this farewell is markedly different—constrained, formal, and lacking the warmth that had characterized all their previous interactions. When Mrs. Dashwood invites him to return soon, he responds vaguely, suggesting that his return is uncertain and possibly distant. This dramatic shift in behavior leaves everyone confused, particularly Marianne, who had expected an engagement announcement rather than a departure. Marianne is devastated by this unexpected separation and makes no attempt to hide her grief. She spends days weeping, unable to eat or engage with her family. Unlike Elinor, who would conceal such suffering, Marianne gives full expression to her anguish, spending hours playing the music she had enjoyed with Willoughby and reading the books they had shared. Her family watches helplessly as she refuses comfort, clinging to the belief that Willoughby will return or write to explain his absence. The mystery of his sudden departure and changed demeanor becomes the central question as the sisters prepare to visit London, where Marianne hopes to reunite with her beloved.
Chapter 4: Lucy Steele's Revelation and Elinor's Silent Suffering
Lucy Steele's disclosure of her secret engagement to Edward Ferrars represents a turning point in the narrative, testing Elinor's capacity for self-control to its limits. Lucy, described as possessing "natural cleverness" but lacking education and refinement, deliberately seeks Elinor's confidence, ostensibly to explain her curious interest in the Ferrars family but actually to establish her prior claim to Edward's affections. With "her little sharp eyes full of meaning," Lucy reveals the engagement with an air of triumph barely disguised as a need for advice. The conversation between the two women is a masterpiece of psychological tension. Lucy produces tangible evidence: a miniature portrait of Edward, correspondence between them, and mentions the ring containing her hair that Edward always wears. Each detail strikes Elinor like a physical blow, yet she maintains her composure throughout, responding with appropriate civility while concealing her devastation. Her internal struggle is profound. She must reconcile her belief in Edward's integrity with his apparent deception, while also evaluating Lucy's character and motivations. Though initially shocked and disbelieving, Elinor cannot deny the evidence before her. She concludes that Edward must have formed this attachment in his youth and now finds himself bound by honor to a commitment his heart no longer supports—a situation that, while not exonerating him, at least explains his conflicted behavior. What elevates this section beyond mere romantic intrigue is Elinor's extraordinary self-discipline. Despite her shattered hopes, she continues to function normally, concealing her suffering even from her mother and sister. Lucy, meanwhile, continues to seek Elinor's company, seemingly taking pleasure in discussing her engagement and soliciting advice about Edward. These conversations become a form of psychological torture for Elinor, who must repeatedly hear about the happiness Lucy expects with the man Elinor herself loves. Yet she endures these discussions with remarkable fortitude, never betraying her own feelings or treating Lucy with anything less than civility. Her restraint stems not from emotional coldness but from consideration for others—she wishes to spare her family additional distress and recognizes that revealing Lucy's confidence would be dishonorable. The contrast between Elinor's silent suffering and Marianne's open expression of grief over Willoughby highlights the central theme of sense versus sensibility. While Marianne's emotional transparency garners sympathy and attention from those around her, Elinor's private endurance goes unrecognized and unappreciated. Marianne, absorbed in her own disappointment, fails to notice her sister's pain, even criticizing Elinor's apparent calm as evidence of emotional deficiency rather than extraordinary strength. This disparity raises questions about the relative value of emotional honesty versus self-restraint, and whether suffering expressed is somehow more valid than suffering concealed.
Chapter 5: Colonel Brandon's Quiet Constancy
Colonel Brandon, at thirty-five, initially appears as a peripheral figure in the narrative, dismissed by Marianne as too old and too serious to merit romantic consideration. His quiet demeanor and reserved manner stand in stark contrast to Willoughby's animated charm, causing him to fade into the background of the social gatherings at Barton Park. Yet as the story progresses, Brandon emerges as a character of remarkable depth and integrity, whose steadfast devotion provides a counterpoint to Willoughby's fleeting passion. From the beginning, Brandon shows a particular interest in Marianne, though his attention is more contemplative than demonstrative. While others might be put off by Marianne's dismissive attitude, Brandon's admiration never wavers. His appreciation extends beyond her beauty to encompass her musical talent and passionate nature. During her performances at the piano, he alone listens with genuine attention rather than using the music as background for conversation. Sir John Middleton and Mrs. Jennings tease him about his interest in Marianne, but Brandon bears their good-natured ribbing with dignified patience. The full extent of Brandon's character is revealed when he confides in Elinor about his past. He tells her of his youthful love for his cousin Eliza, their thwarted romance, her disastrous marriage to his brother, and her subsequent decline and death. More significantly, he reveals that Willoughby had seduced and abandoned Eliza's daughter (his ward), leaving her pregnant and destitute. This disclosure not only explains Brandon's antipathy toward Willoughby but also demonstrates his capacity for lasting devotion and responsibility. Unlike Willoughby, who abandons those who depend on him, Brandon has spent years caring for Eliza's daughter, honoring his promise to her mother. Brandon's actions throughout the narrative consistently demonstrate his reliability and generosity. When Edward Ferrars is disinherited for honoring his engagement to Lucy, Brandon offers him the living at Delaford parsonage, providing the means for Edward to pursue his chosen vocation and eventually support a wife. This act of kindness is particularly significant as it benefits the man engaged to the cousin of the woman Brandon himself loves, showing remarkable freedom from jealousy or resentment. When Marianne falls seriously ill after her heartbreak over Willoughby, Brandon rides through the night to bring Mrs. Dashwood to her daughter's side. His anxiety during Marianne's illness reveals the depth of his feelings, which have remained constant despite her previous indifference to him. As she recovers, Marianne begins to recognize and appreciate Brandon's quiet strength and consistent kindness, qualities she had previously overlooked in her preference for Willoughby's more dramatic expressions of sentiment. By the novel's conclusion, Brandon's patience and constancy are rewarded. Marianne, matured by her experiences, comes to value the very qualities in him that she had once dismissed. Their eventual marriage represents not a compromise but a more profound understanding of love—one based on mutual respect, shared values, and genuine care rather than merely passionate declarations. Brandon's generosity of spirit, which extends to forgiveness and understanding even toward those who have wronged him, ultimately creates the foundation for a relationship far more substantial than Marianne's infatuation with Willoughby could ever have been.
Chapter 6: Marianne's Illness and Transformation
Marianne's emotional devastation reaches its crisis point during the sisters' visit to London. After Willoughby's cruel public rejection and subsequent letter explaining his engagement to the wealthy Miss Grey, Marianne abandons all pretense of self-preservation. Her grief manifests physically—she cannot eat, barely sleeps, and loses weight visibly. When the party relocates to Cleveland on their journey home, Marianne's habit of walking in the rain and dew to indulge her melancholy results in a dangerous fever that threatens her life. The illness scene marks the narrative's dramatic climax. Marianne hovers between life and death, delirious with fever while Elinor maintains a constant vigil at her bedside. Colonel Brandon, displaying his unwavering devotion, rides through the night to bring Mrs. Dashwood to her daughter. Even Willoughby, upon hearing of Marianne's critical condition, rushes to Cleveland to explain himself to Elinor, revealing that despite his mercenary marriage, his feelings for Marianne were genuine. This moment of crisis brings all the central characters' true natures into sharp relief—Elinor's steadfast care, Brandon's selfless concern, and Willoughby's belated remorse. As Marianne slowly recovers physically, she also undergoes a profound spiritual and philosophical transformation. For the first time, she recognizes the selfishness of her unchecked emotions and the pain her behavior has caused others, particularly her mother and Elinor. In a moment of remarkable self-awareness, Marianne confesses: "My illness has made me think... I saw that my own feelings had prepared my sufferings, and that my want of fortitude under them had almost led me to the grave." This recognition marks her first step toward embracing some of the principles of sense that Elinor has embodied throughout the narrative. Marianne's new perspective extends to her romantic ideals as well. She acknowledges that Willoughby, despite his charm and shared interests, lacked the moral character necessary for lasting happiness. She begins to appreciate the quiet worth of Colonel Brandon, whose steadfast devotion contrasts sharply with Willoughby's inconstancy. Her declaration that "had I died, it would have been self-destruction" demonstrates her understanding that passionate feelings, when indulged without restraint, can become destructive rather than life-affirming. The transformation is not a complete abandonment of Marianne's essential nature—she remains capable of deep feeling and appreciation for beauty. Rather, it represents a maturation, a tempering of sensibility with sense. She learns to channel her emotional intensity into productive outlets and to consider the impact of her actions on others. This evolution suggests that the ideal lies not in either extreme but in a balance between emotional authenticity and rational self-governance. Marianne's journey from self-absorbed romanticism to thoughtful maturity complements Elinor's parallel development toward greater emotional expression, with each sister moving toward a more integrated approach to life and love.
Chapter 7: The Resolution of Romantic Entanglements
The final portion of the narrative brings resolution to the romantic complications that have driven the plot, with each character receiving an outcome befitting their moral choices and character development. These resolutions unfold with a blend of surprise, irony, and poetic justice that satisfies the reader's sense of moral order while avoiding simplistic judgments. Edward's situation reaches its crisis point when his engagement to Lucy becomes known to his mother. True to her imperious nature, Mrs. Ferrars immediately disinherits him, transferring his inheritance to his younger brother Robert. Rather than abandoning his commitment to Lucy in the face of this financial catastrophe, Edward prepares to take orders as a clergyman—a profession he had always preferred but his mother had considered beneath their family's dignity. This honorable decision, though it seems to destroy any possibility of happiness with Elinor, demonstrates Edward's fundamental integrity. The narrative's most surprising twist comes with the news that Lucy Steele has jilted Edward in favor of his now-wealthy brother Robert. This development simultaneously releases Edward from his unwanted engagement and reveals Lucy's mercenary character. Free at last to follow his heart, Edward immediately travels to Barton to propose to Elinor. Their reunion scene, in which Elinor moves from composure to uncontrollable tears of joy, represents a rare moment when her carefully maintained self-control finally gives way to open emotion. Edward explains that his engagement to Lucy had been a youthful mistake, formed when he was too young to know his own mind and maintained out of honor rather than love. Marianne's story concludes with her marriage to Colonel Brandon, a union that initially seems to contradict her earlier romantic declarations. Having once vowed never to accept "second attachments" and to love only a man of passionate sensibility, she now finds contentment with a man she had dismissed as too old and too sedate. Yet this resolution is not presented as a compromise but as genuine happiness. Through her illness and recovery, Marianne has come to value Brandon's steadfast character and to recognize that true love manifests in constancy and kindness rather than merely shared enthusiasms. Willoughby's fate serves as a counterpoint to these happy resolutions. Though materially comfortable in his wealthy marriage, he is described as fundamentally dissatisfied, still harboring regret for losing Marianne. His punishment is not external but internal—the knowledge that he sacrificed true happiness for financial security and social position. This outcome reinforces the novel's moral framework, suggesting that choices based solely on self-interest ultimately lead to discontent. The sisters' double wedding brings symmetry to the narrative. Elinor and Edward establish themselves at the parsonage at Delaford, while Marianne becomes mistress of the manor house. Their physical proximity ensures the continuation of their close relationship, now enriched by their respective marriages. Mrs. Dashwood, settled nearby at Barton Cottage, rejoices in her daughters' good fortune. The final image of the two couples living in harmony suggests that both sense and sensibility have found their proper expression and balance, with each sister having grown through adversity to achieve a more integrated approach to life and love.
Summary
The journey of the Dashwood sisters reveals profound truths about emotional intelligence and resilience in the face of life's disappointments. Through Elinor's steadfast composure and Marianne's passionate nature, we witness the strengths and limitations of different approaches to love and loss. Elinor's sense initially appears as emotional repression, but ultimately proves to be a form of courage—the ability to bear suffering without inflicting it on others. Marianne's sensibility, while authentic and admirable in its appreciation of beauty and feeling, nearly destroys her when unchecked by judgment or consideration for others. The true wisdom of this tale lies in its rejection of false dichotomies. Neither sister is entirely right or wrong in her approach to life, and each grows by incorporating elements of the other's perspective. Elinor learns to acknowledge her own needs and express her feelings more openly, while Marianne develops the self-discipline and moral awareness that transform her from a self-absorbed girl into a thoughtful woman. Their complementary journeys suggest that emotional fulfillment comes not from rigidly adhering to one principle, but from achieving balance—allowing feeling to be guided by reason, and reason to be enlivened by feeling. This nuanced understanding of human psychology transcends its historical context, offering insights that remain relevant to modern readers navigating their own emotional landscapes.
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“The more I know of the world, the more I am convinced that I shall never see a man whom I can really love. I require so much!” ― Jane Austen, Sense and Sensibility
Review Summary
Strengths: The review highlights Jane Austen's sharp wit and her ability to critique societal norms, particularly the obsession with money and its impact on marriage and personal worth. It appreciates the depth of character in the Dashwood sisters, especially Elinor, who values literature and natural beauty over wealth.\nOverall Sentiment: Enthusiastic\nKey Takeaway: The review underscores Austen's critique of 19th-century English society's fixation on wealth as a measure of worth, contrasting it with the more discerning values of the Dashwood sisters, who seek deeper connections beyond financial considerations.
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Sense and Sensibility
By Jane Austen











