
The Call of the Wild and Free
Reclaiming Wonder in Your Child's Education
Categories
Nonfiction, Self Help, Psychology, Parenting, Education, Nature, Audiobook, Family, Childrens, Teaching
Content Type
Book
Binding
ebook
Year
2019
Publisher
HarperOne
Language
English
ASIN
006291653X
ISBN
006291653X
ISBN13
9780062916532
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The Call of the Wild and Free Plot Summary
Introduction
The morning sun filters through the curtains as six-year-old Emma sits at the kitchen table, her eyes wide with wonder. She's not solving math problems or reciting spelling words—she's watching a caterpillar inch its way across a leaf she collected yesterday. "Mom, look!" she exclaims, "It's making a little home!" Her mother pauses from preparing breakfast to marvel alongside her daughter at this everyday miracle. This moment of shared discovery isn't part of any curriculum, yet it may be the most important learning experience of Emma's day. Somewhere along the way, we've forgotten that education isn't confined to classroom walls or structured lesson plans. The most profound learning often happens in moments of wonder, curiosity, and exploration. In our rush to prepare children for standardized tests and future careers, we've stripped away the very elements that make learning joyful and meaningful. This exploration invites us to reimagine education—not as a series of requirements to check off, but as a journey of discovery led by the natural curiosity of children. By reclaiming the wonder in learning, we can nurture not just academically successful students, but creative thinkers, compassionate humans, and lifelong learners who approach the world with awe and appreciation.
Chapter 1: The Light That Faded: Why Traditional Schools Fall Short
Marcus still remembers the exact moment when school began feeling like a burden rather than an adventure. He was in third grade, sitting at his desk surrounded by twenty-four other students. The teacher had just passed back their science tests, and Marcus stared at his paper marked with a large red C-. Next to him, his friend held up an A+ with pride. The teacher's words echoed in the classroom: "Some of you clearly have what it takes to succeed in science. Others might want to focus on subjects better suited to your abilities." Before that day, Marcus had loved collecting rocks and insects, spending hours examining their details and researching them in library books. He'd been so excited when their class started the earth science unit. But something shifted after that test. His collection gathered dust on his shelf, and when asked about his interests, he no longer mentioned geology or entomology. The joy of discovery had been replaced by the fear of failure. This story repeats itself in classrooms around the world. Children enter school bubbling with questions and enthusiasm, only to have that natural curiosity gradually extinguished by rigid schedules, standardized assessments, and limited opportunities for self-directed exploration. A system designed for efficiency—teaching large groups of same-aged children with standardized content—inevitably sacrifices the individual journey of discovery that true learning requires. Traditional schools often operate on an outdated industrial model, treating children as empty vessels to be filled with information rather than curious beings eager to make sense of their world. When education becomes primarily about meeting external standards, children learn to value grades over understanding, compliance over creativity, and right answers over good questions. The metrics we use to measure educational success—test scores, college admissions, future earnings—fail to capture the most important aspects of learning: the development of curiosity, compassion, critical thinking, and a love of knowledge for its own sake. When we reduce education to quantifiable outcomes, we diminish its true purpose: to nurture whole human beings who can think deeply, care deeply, and engage meaningfully with the world around them. As parents and educators, we have the opportunity to reimagine education in ways that honor children's natural wonder and respect their individual journeys. This doesn't necessarily mean abandoning all structure or traditional subjects, but rather approaching them through the lens of curiosity and connection, allowing space for discovery, exploration, and the joy that comes from learning something new.
Chapter 2: Nature as Teacher: Learning Through Exploration
Sarah watched nervously as her seven-year-old son climbed higher in the maple tree behind their house. "Be careful, Jamie!" she called. Rather than climbing back down, he settled onto a branch and waved, pointing excitedly. "Mom! I can see inside a bird's nest from here! There are four tiny blue eggs!" Instead of insisting he come down immediately, Sarah took a deep breath and asked questions about what he observed. For the next hour, Jamie remained in his perch, watching the mother robin return to her nest, noting her behaviors, and later recording his observations in a nature journal. This impromptu science lesson wasn't planned, but it taught Jamie more about ornithology than any textbook could. He experienced firsthand concepts like habitat, parental care, and life cycles. More importantly, he developed patience, observational skills, and a genuine connection to the natural world around him. When he later encountered information about birds in books, he had a rich context of personal experience to connect it to, making the knowledge meaningful and memorable. Nature provides an ideal learning environment where children can engage all their senses, follow their curiosity, and learn at their own pace. A walk in the woods becomes a multi-disciplinary experience: botany as children identify plants, physics as they skip stones across a stream, engineering as they build dams with sticks and rocks, and poetry as they try to describe the dappled sunlight filtering through leaves. The complexity of natural systems challenges children's minds in ways that simplified classroom lessons cannot. Research consistently shows the benefits of nature-based learning. Children who spend regular time outdoors demonstrate improved concentration, reduced stress, enhanced creativity, and better physical health. Even academic performance improves when learning is connected to natural environments. One study found that students who participated in outdoor education programs scored higher on standardized tests despite spending less time in traditional classroom instruction. Beyond academic benefits, nature teaches lessons that can't be measured by tests. Children learn resilience when hiking through challenging terrain, wonder when witnessing a butterfly emerge from its chrysalis, and respect when understanding how their actions affect fragile ecosystems. They develop an emotional connection to the natural world that fosters environmental stewardship—something our planet desperately needs from future generations. Incorporating nature as teacher doesn't require living in a rural setting or making dramatic lifestyle changes. Even urban environments offer opportunities for natural learning through city parks, community gardens, and even sidewalk cracks where persistent plants demonstrate adaptation and survival. The key is cultivating an attitude of curiosity and taking time to observe, question, and connect with the natural elements that exist all around us. When we allow nature to be our teacher, we invite wonder back into education. We acknowledge that learning doesn't always happen according to plan—sometimes the most profound lessons come from unexpected discoveries and moments of awe that can't be scheduled or standardized. These experiences form the foundation for lifelong learning driven by genuine curiosity rather than external rewards.
Chapter 3: Stories and Wonder: The Power of Literature
The living room grew quiet as twelve-year-old Mia closed the final pages of "Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry." Her mother noticed tears glistening in her daughter's eyes. "That was so unfair," Mia whispered. "Cassie and her family did nothing wrong." What followed wasn't a comprehension quiz or character analysis worksheet, but a deep conversation about racial injustice, courage, and standing up for what's right. The story had transported Mia to Mississippi during the Great Depression, allowing her to experience history through the heart and mind of a character she had grown to care about deeply. Months later, when news headlines featured stories about racial tensions in their own community, Mia referenced Cassie's experiences. "It's like what happened in the book," she said thoughtfully. "People being treated badly just because of who they are." The story had given her both emotional context and moral vocabulary to process complex real-world issues. Literature had accomplished what no textbook explanation could—it had helped her understand injustice not just as an abstract concept, but as a lived experience that affects real people. Stories have been humanity's most powerful teaching tool since our ancestors gathered around fires to share tales that transmitted cultural wisdom, moral lessons, and practical knowledge. Through stories, abstract concepts become tangible, emotional connections are formed, and complex ideas can be explored safely through the experiences of characters we come to care about. When education is anchored in literature, children don't just learn facts—they develop empathy, critical thinking, and a deeper understanding of the human condition. Unlike textbooks that present information in isolated fragments, literature weaves knowledge into meaningful narratives that mirror how our brains naturally learn—through connections, contexts, and emotional engagement. A historical novel brings a time period alive in ways that dates and names alone cannot. A well-crafted science fiction story can spark curiosity about physics concepts that might otherwise seem dry and irrelevant. Poetry teaches language not as a set of rules to memorize, but as a powerful tool for expressing thoughts and feelings. Beyond academic content, stories provide children with emotional tools and moral frameworks. Through characters facing difficult choices, children can explore ethical dilemmas and their consequences from a safe distance. They develop what philosopher Martha Nussbaum calls "narrative imagination"—the ability to understand what it might be like to be in someone else's position, which is essential for both empathy and ethical reasoning. In a world increasingly fragmented by technology and polarized perspectives, stories remain one of our most powerful tools for fostering connection and understanding. When we center education around literature, we're not just teaching reading skills or subject matter—we're inviting children into a grand conversation about what it means to be human, helping them find their own voice and place in the ongoing story of humanity.
Chapter 4: Play as Pedagogy: Learning Through Freedom
Four-year-old Theo and his friends had transformed their backyard playhouse into an elaborate restaurant. Theo, wearing his father's old necktie, greeted imaginary customers while his friends "cooked" in the kitchen using mud, leaves, and twigs. They had created hand-drawn menus with invented spellings and prices, and used rocks and acorns as currency. When Theo's mother observed this scene, she recognized something profound happening beneath the surface of their play. Without any adult instruction, these children were developing mathematical concepts through their pricing and transactions, literacy skills through menu creation, social skills through role-playing, and executive function as they negotiated the rules and roles of their imaginary business. They were completely absorbed in their activity, working through challenges with creative problem-solving and adapting their play as new ideas emerged. Though it looked like "just playing," they were engaged in complex learning across multiple domains—all driven by their own interests and imagination. Play is the natural learning state for children, yet it's increasingly marginalized in educational settings as academic pressures push downward into early childhood. We've created a false dichotomy between play and learning, failing to recognize that for children, play is learning. When children build with blocks, they're exploring physics and spatial relationships. When they engage in dramatic play, they're developing narrative thinking and social understanding. When they create imaginary worlds, they're exercising precisely the kind of creative thinking that leads to innovation and problem-solving in later life. Neuroscience confirms what many early childhood educators have long understood: play creates optimal conditions for brain development. During play, children experience the perfect balance of novelty and challenge that keeps their brains engaged without triggering stress responses that inhibit learning. The intrinsic motivation that drives play leads to deeper, more sustained engagement than externally imposed tasks. And the joy experienced during play creates positive associations with learning that can last a lifetime. Perhaps most importantly, play allows children to develop agency—the sense that they can affect their world and solve problems independently. In play, children make decisions, experience consequences, adjust their approaches, and develop resilience through trial and error. These experiences build confidence and competence that transfer to academic learning and life challenges. As developmental psychologist Peter Gray notes, "In play, children learn to take control of their lives and to solve their own problems." This doesn't mean abandoning all structure or guidance. The most effective approach combines periods of free play with thoughtfully prepared environments that invite exploration of specific concepts or skills. A playful approach to mathematics might involve games that incorporate counting and pattern recognition; language arts might include storytelling props or dramatic play scenarios that encourage narrative development. The key is following the child's lead while gently introducing new elements that expand their thinking. When we honor play as a legitimate pedagogical approach rather than dismissing it as merely recreational, we align education with children's natural development. We create learning experiences that are not only more effective but more joyful—preserving the innate love of discovery that fuels lifelong learning.
Chapter 5: Curiosity-Led Learning: Following Children's Interests
Nine-year-old Elijah had always been fascinated by ancient Egypt. What began as a casual interest after seeing a museum exhibit blossomed into an all-consuming passion when his parents provided space for his curiosity to flourish. His bedroom became an archaeological site of sorts—bookshelves filled with library books about hieroglyphics and mummification, walls adorned with his detailed drawings of pyramids and gods, and a desk covered with his attempts to recreate artifacts using clay and papier-mâché. Rather than redirecting this "obsession" toward standard curriculum, Elijah's parents and mentor teacher recognized the extraordinary learning potential within his interest. They helped him connect his Egyptian studies to multiple subject areas: learning mathematical concepts through studying pyramid proportions, improving reading comprehension with increasingly advanced texts on Egyptian history, and developing writing skills by creating his own illustrated book about a fictional archaeologist's adventures. When Elijah eventually moved on to a new interest—the solar system—he brought with him not just facts about Egypt, but the research skills, critical thinking, and confidence he had developed during his deep dive into that subject. Curiosity-led learning acknowledges a fundamental truth about human motivation: we learn most deeply when driven by genuine interest. When children pursue topics they're passionate about, their engagement transcends compliance. They ask sophisticated questions, seek out complex information, and persist through challenges—not to earn approval or grades, but because they genuinely want to know. This intrinsic motivation creates optimal conditions for learning that transfers and endures. Traditional education often takes a breadth-over-depth approach, exposing students to many subjects superficially rather than allowing deep exploration of fewer topics. This approach assumes that children need external guidance to cover all necessary content areas. Yet research in cognitive science suggests that the skills and habits of mind developed through deep exploration of any subject—critical thinking, information literacy, communication—transfer readily to other domains. A child who learns how to learn through pursuing a passion acquires more valuable tools than one who memorizes prescribed content without genuine engagement. This doesn't mean abandoning all structure or leaving children entirely to their own devices. Effective curiosity-led learning involves what educator Lori Pickert calls "mentoring"—providing resources, asking thoughtful questions, suggesting connections, and occasionally introducing new elements that might expand the child's exploration. Adults serve as guides who help children develop the tools and perspectives to pursue their interests with increasing sophistication. Critics often worry that following children's interests will create educational gaps or fail to prepare them for future requirements. However, skillful mentors can help children connect their interests to traditional subject areas, ensuring comprehensive learning while maintaining engagement. Mathematical concepts can be explored through cooking, construction, or game design; writing skills develop naturally when children document their passions; scientific thinking emerges through investigation of real-world questions that matter to them. The true power of curiosity-led learning lies in its ability to preserve and nurture children's natural drive to understand their world. When we trust this innate motivation and provide supportive environments for exploration, we help children develop not just knowledge but a relationship with learning itself—one characterized by joy, confidence, and the understanding that they can find or create answers to their own questions.
Chapter 6: Family Culture: Creating a Learning Environment at Home
The Thompson family dinner table buzzed with conversation as everyone shared something interesting they had discovered that day. Eight-year-old Maya described the life cycle of the tadpoles she was raising in a backyard pond. Her teenage brother discussed a concept from the philosophy podcast he'd been listening to while shooting baskets. Their father shared insights from a woodworking project he was tackling in the garage, while their mother talked about a historical novel that had changed her perspective on the Civil War. No one was testing anyone else's knowledge or checking items off a curriculum list. Instead, they were modeling what it means to be lifelong learners—curious, engaged, and eager to share discoveries. The children absorbed not just information but attitudes and approaches to learning through this daily ritual. They saw that adults valued knowledge not just for practical purposes but for the joy of understanding. They experienced how questions could lead to interesting conversations rather than right-or-wrong answers. Most importantly, they felt themselves to be valued members of a learning community where their own discoveries were taken seriously. Creating a learning environment at home goes far beyond setting up a designated schoolroom or purchasing educational materials. It means cultivating a family culture where curiosity is valued, questions are welcomed, and everyone—adults included—is encouraged to pursue interests and share knowledge. The physical aspects matter less than the invisible atmosphere of respect for learning that permeates everyday interactions. This kind of environment doesn't require parents to be experts in all subjects or to structure formal lessons. Instead, it asks them to be co-learners alongside their children—demonstrating how to find information, think critically about sources, persist through challenges, and take pleasure in discovery. When children see adults genuinely engaged in learning, they internalize the message that education isn't something that ends with school but continues throughout life. The most effective learning environments balance structure and freedom. Routines provide security and help develop habits that support learning: regular reading times, family discussions, shared projects, and traditions that celebrate knowledge acquisition. Within this framework, substantial freedom allows children to pursue individual interests, make choices, and experience the natural consequences of those choices in a supportive context. Physical spaces can support this culture when they make resources accessible and invite engagement. Books displayed where they can be easily reached, art supplies stored where children can access them independently, nature items collected and displayed with care—these elements communicate that learning materials are valued and available. Technology, thoughtfully integrated, can expand learning opportunities while remaining a tool rather than the center of family life. Perhaps most importantly, a true learning environment honors the emotional aspects of education. When children feel secure, respected, and unconditionally loved, they develop the confidence to take intellectual risks, admit confusion, and persist through difficulties. Learning flourishes in an atmosphere where mistakes are viewed as opportunities rather than failures, where questions are more valued than right answers, and where each person's unique interests and abilities are recognized and celebrated. Creating such an environment isn't about achieving perfection or competing with other families. It's about intentionally nurturing a space where wonder, curiosity, and growth are central values—not just for children but for everyone in the family. When we approach education as a shared journey rather than something adults impose on children, we create not just effective learning opportunities but meaningful family connections that support lifelong intellectual flourishing.
Summary
Throughout this exploration of education beyond classroom walls, we've witnessed how learning flourishes when children are given the freedom to follow their natural curiosity. From Emma observing caterpillars at the kitchen table to Marcus rediscovering his passion for science outside the constraints of standardized testing, to Jamie learning ornithology from a maple tree perch, these stories illustrate a profound truth: education at its best isn't something done to children but something that unfolds naturally when we create the right conditions for wonder to thrive. The path to reclaiming wonder in education isn't complicated, but it does require courage—courage to trust children's innate desire to learn, courage to value play as serious work, courage to follow curiosity down unexpected paths. It invites us to reimagine success not as perfect test scores or prestigious college acceptances, but as the light in a child's eyes when they make a discovery, the confidence they develop when solving problems independently, and the joy they experience when learning connects deeply with their own interests and questions. By creating family cultures that honor wonder, embedding education in nature's classroom, centering learning around powerful stories, and respecting the pedagogical value of play, we do more than prepare children for future success—we give them the gift of a meaningful present, rich with discovery, connection, and the pure joy of understanding the world around them.
Best Quote
“A magical childhood isn’t about having the best toys, gadgets, and vacations. It’s actually the opposite. It’s about simplicity. A magical childhood is about freedom. Freedom to explore, discover, and play.” ― Ainsley Arment, The Call of the Wild and Free: Reclaiming Wonder in Your Child's Education
Review Summary
Strengths: A significant positive is its advocacy for educational freedom, inspiring readers to explore homeschooling. The book effectively reassures parents by highlighting personalized learning and nurturing children's natural interests. Personal anecdotes and practical advice vividly illustrate the rewarding nature of homeschooling. The emphasis on creativity, exploration, and parental roles as facilitators enriches its narrative. Its inspirational tone and practical tips for integrating a wild and free approach are particularly noteworthy.\nWeaknesses: Some criticisms focus on the lack of detailed curriculum guidance, which may leave readers wanting more structure. The assumption that all families have the resources or flexibility to homeschool is another point of contention. Additionally, a few readers feel it idealizes homeschooling without fully addressing potential challenges.\nOverall Sentiment: Reception is generally positive, with many finding it an uplifting and motivational resource for those interested in a holistic educational path. \nKey Takeaway: Embracing a child-centered, curiosity-driven approach to education can foster a love for learning outside traditional systems, though practical challenges should not be overlooked.
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The Call of the Wild and Free
By Ainsley Arment