The Millionaire Next Door

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Introduction

Most people have it all wrong about wealth in America. They believe wealth comes from inheritance, advanced degrees, or even intelligence. But the truth is far more surprising. Wealth is rarely the result of luck or privilege. Instead, it's typically built through a lifestyle of hard work, perseverance, planning, and most importantly, self-discipline. This book reveals the hidden realities of America's wealthy population. Through extensive research spanning over 20 years and surveys of thousands of millionaires, we discovered that most millionaires don't live in upscale neighborhoods, don't drive luxury cars, and don't wear expensive clothes. In fact, they're probably living right next door to you, unrecognized and unassuming. We'll explore the seven common traits shared by these self-made millionaires, examine how they allocate their time and money, and learn why financial independence matters more to them than displaying high social status. By understanding these principles, you too can develop the mindset and habits that lead to financial independence.

Chapter 1: The Path to Wealth: Who Becomes Millionaires in America

Who are America's millionaires? Contrary to popular belief, the typical American millionaire is not who you might expect. The average millionaire is a 57-year-old male, married with three children. About two-thirds of millionaires who work are self-employed, though self-employed people make up less than 20 percent of the American workforce. Most run ordinary businesses that might seem "dull-normal" - they are welding contractors, auctioneers, rice farmers, owners of mobile-home parks, pest controllers, and paving contractors. Most millionaires didn't inherit their wealth. In fact, 80 percent are first-generation affluent, meaning they built their wealth themselves rather than receiving it from parents or relatives. Fewer than 20 percent inherited 10 percent or more of their wealth, and more than half never received any inheritance at all. This contradicts the common perception that wealth is primarily passed down through generations. The lifestyle of the typical millionaire is surprisingly frugal. They live well below their means, often in middle-class neighborhoods. They drive American-made cars, rarely the current year's model, and most have never spent more than $400 for a suit. Their average household realized income is about $131,000, while their average net worth is $3.7 million. However, they spend only about 7 percent of their wealth each year, allowing them to maintain and grow their financial independence. Education plays an important role in wealth building, but not in the way many assume. While millionaires value education highly, there's actually a negative correlation between advanced degrees and wealth accumulation among high-income earners. Business owners with "some college" or a "four-year degree" often accumulate more wealth than doctors or lawyers who spent many more years in school. This is partly because professionals with advanced degrees start earning later in life and often face higher lifestyle expectations. The path to becoming a millionaire isn't about looking rich - it's about becoming financially independent. Millionaires focus on building wealth rather than displaying status. They operate on budgets, know exactly how much they spend on food, clothing, and shelter, and have clear financial goals. Most importantly, they have what millionaires call a "go-to-hell fund" - enough wealth to live without working for ten or more years, giving them true financial independence.

Chapter 2: Frugality: The Cornerstone of Wealth Building

Frugality is the foundation upon which most millionaires build their wealth. Webster's defines frugal as "behavior characterized by or reflecting economy in the use of resources." The opposite is wasteful - a lifestyle marked by lavish spending and hyperconsumption. This principle explains why so many high-income professionals never accumulate significant wealth despite their impressive salaries. The typical American millionaire practices frugality in ways that might surprise you. In our surveys, most millionaires reported never spending more than $399 for a suit, more than $140 for a pair of shoes, or more than $235 for a wristwatch. They're more likely to shop at JCPenney or Sears than at high-end retailers. In fact, millionaires are four times more likely to hold a Sears credit card (43 percent) than a Brooks Brothers card (10 percent). These spending habits directly contribute to their ability to accumulate wealth. Budgeting and planning are essential components of the frugal millionaire lifestyle. Most millionaires operate on an annual budget and know exactly how much their family spends each year for food, clothing, and shelter. They have clearly defined daily, weekly, monthly, annual, and lifetime goals. For every 100 millionaires who don't budget, there are 120 who do. Even those who don't formally budget create an artificial environment of scarcity for themselves by investing first and spending what remains - the "pay yourself first" strategy. The spouse's orientation toward frugality is equally important in wealth accumulation. In 95 percent of millionaire households, the couples are married, and in 70 percent of these marriages, the husband generates at least 80 percent of the income. However, both spouses typically share a frugal mindset. As one self-made millionaire stated, "I can't get my wife to spend any money!" This partnership in frugality is crucial - a couple cannot accumulate wealth if one member is a hyperconsumer. Income tax is the single largest annual expenditure for most households, and millionaires understand this well. They minimize their realized (taxable) income while maximizing their unrealized income (wealth/capital appreciation without cash flow). The typical American millionaire has a total annual realized income of less than 7 percent of their wealth, meaning less than 7 percent is subject to income tax. This strategy allows them to build wealth more efficiently than those who maximize their realized income to support high-consumption lifestyles. The frugal mindset of millionaires isn't about deprivation - it's about prioritizing financial independence over status symbols. They understand that small expenses become big expenses over time, and small investments can become large investments. By controlling spending and making conscious choices about where their money goes, they create the foundation for lasting wealth.

Chapter 3: Time Management: How Millionaires Allocate Their Resources

Millionaires distinguish themselves not just by how they spend their money, but by how they allocate their time. Prodigious Accumulators of Wealth (PAWs) spend nearly twice as much time planning their investments as Under Accumulators of Wealth (UAWs). This planning creates a strong positive correlation between investment planning and wealth accumulation, regardless of income level. The average middle-income PAW spends about 8.4 hours per month (or about 100 hours per year) planning investments. This represents just 1.2 percent of their total available time, yet it makes a tremendous difference in their financial outcomes. UAWs, by contrast, spend only about 4.6 hours monthly on investment planning. PAWs also start planning at a much earlier age and maintain a regimented planning schedule - weekly, monthly, and yearly. Self-employment offers significant advantages for time management and wealth building. Self-employed individuals typically integrate investment planning into their work lives, while employees often have job-related tasks that are independent of planning their investment strategies. The self-employed must build and manage their own pension plans and take responsibility for their current and future financial situations. This necessity creates discipline that translates into wealth accumulation. Millionaires are not active traders in the stock market, despite owning substantial stock portfolios. Only about 9 percent of millionaires hold investments for less than one year. Most hold their investments for much longer periods: 20 percent hold for one to two years, 25 percent for two to four years, and 32 percent for more than six years. In fact, 42 percent made no trades whatsoever in their stock portfolios in the year prior to being interviewed. This patience allows their investments to grow substantially over time. The contrast between PAWs and UAWs extends to their fears and worries. UAWs spend more time worrying about their economic well-being than taking proactive steps to change their tendencies to overconsume and underinvest. They worry about not being wealthy enough to retire in comfort or never accumulating significant wealth. PAWs, with their disciplined approach to planning and investing, have fewer financial concerns despite often having similar incomes to UAWs. Time allocation also reveals itself in consumption habits. UAWs often spend considerable time shopping for status items like luxury cars, while PAWs dedicate that time to studying investment opportunities. This difference in priorities creates a compounding effect - PAWs not only save more money by avoiding luxury purchases, but they also invest that money more wisely because they've spent time learning how to do so effectively.

Chapter 4: Consumption Habits: Why You Aren't What You Drive

The consumption habits of millionaires reveal surprising insights about wealth accumulation. Contrary to popular belief, most millionaires drive ordinary cars rather than luxury vehicles. In our surveys, only 23.5 percent of millionaires own current-year models, and most haven't purchased a car in the last two years. The typical millionaire paid just $24,800 for their most recent vehicle - not much more than the $21,000 paid by the average American car buyer. American car manufacturers dominate the millionaire market. Ford, Cadillac, and Lincoln are the top three makes driven by millionaires, with the Ford F-150 pickup and Explorer SUV being particularly popular. Only 18.8 percent drive European cars. Many millionaires prefer "Detroit metal" because they buy automobiles "by the pound" - seeking value rather than status. Full-sized American cars typically cost less per pound than luxury imports, making them attractive to value-conscious millionaires. We identified four distinct types of millionaire car buyers. New Vehicle-Prone Dealer Loyalists (28.6 percent) buy new vehicles from the same dealer repeatedly, valuing their time over potential savings from extensive shopping. New Vehicle-Prone Dealer Shoppers (34.8 percent) buy new but aggressively shop for the best deal. Used Vehicle-Prone Dealer Loyalists (17.1 percent) prefer quality used vehicles from trusted dealers. Used Vehicle-Prone Shoppers (19.5 percent) are the most price-sensitive, often buying from private parties after extensive research. The Used Vehicle-Prone Shoppers are particularly interesting from a wealth-building perspective. Despite having the lowest average income among millionaire groups, they have accumulated an average net worth of over $3 million. For every dollar they earn in income, they have $17.2 in net worth - the highest ratio of any group. Their frugality extends beyond cars to all aspects of life - they budget carefully, know exactly what they spend, and invest a significantly larger portion of their income than other millionaire types. Your choice of vehicle reveals much about your approach to wealth. Most millionaires are "shoppers" rather than "loyalists" when it comes to vehicles, meaning they're willing to invest time to find the best value. This shopping behavior extends to other purchases as well. Those who aggressively seek value in major purchases like cars tend to accumulate more wealth over time, even with modest incomes. The relationship between cars and wealth highlights a fundamental truth: you aren't what you drive. Many high-income professionals drive expensive luxury cars but have little wealth, while many millionaires drive ordinary vehicles but have substantial investment portfolios. This disconnect between appearance and reality is at the heart of why so many Americans fail to build wealth - they focus on looking rich rather than becoming financially independent.

Chapter 5: Economic Outpatient Care: The Impact of Financial Gifts

Economic outpatient care (EOC) refers to the substantial economic gifts and "acts of kindness" that affluent parents give to their adult children and grandchildren. These gifts can take many forms - cash, down payments on homes, tuition payments, vehicles, and more. While parents often believe these gifts will help their children get ahead financially, our research reveals a surprising truth: the more dollars adult children receive, the fewer they accumulate, while those who are given fewer dollars accumulate more. This inverse relationship between gifts and wealth accumulation appears across most occupational categories. When comparing gift receivers to non-receivers of similar age and occupation, we found that in eight of ten occupational categories, gift receivers had smaller levels of net worth. For example, accountants who receive cash gifts have only 57 percent of the net worth of accountants who don't receive gifts, despite earning 78 percent of the income. Similar patterns exist for attorneys (62 percent), entrepreneurs (64 percent), and senior executives (65 percent). Why do gift receivers accumulate less wealth? First, gifts often precipitate more consumption than saving and investing. Parents who subsidize their children's home purchases, for instance, often place them in high-consumption neighborhoods that require expensive lifestyles to "fit in." Second, gift receivers never fully distinguish between their wealth and their parents' wealth, viewing their parents' capital as their income to spend. Third, gift receivers are significantly more dependent on credit than non-receivers, often living in anticipation of future gifts or inheritance. Finally, gift receivers invest much less money than non-receivers - less than 65 percent of what non-receivers invest annually. There are exceptions to this pattern. Teachers and professors who receive gifts tend to remain frugal or become even more frugal than those who receive no gifts. They are much more likely to save and invest the money they receive as gifts than gift receivers in other occupational categories. This suggests that the underlying values and financial discipline of the recipient matter more than the gift itself. The impact of EOC extends beyond the recipients to their children. Adult children who grow up in subsidized households often develop consumption habits that they cannot sustain on their own. They become dependent on continued economic support, creating a cycle that can span generations. This dependency often leads to increased fears and worries about money, despite the financial support they receive. Parents who wish to help their children financially should consider alternatives to cash gifts that promote consumption. Paying for education, helping children start businesses, or establishing trusts with specific conditions can be more beneficial than unconditional cash gifts. The most valuable gift parents can give their children is teaching them discipline, frugality, and financial independence - values that will serve them better than any amount of money.

Chapter 6: Self-Employment: The Common Denominator Among Millionaires

Self-employment is perhaps the single strongest common denominator among America's millionaires. While only about 18 percent of American households are headed by self-employed business owners or professionals, more than two-thirds of millionaires fall into this category. Put simply, self-employed people are four times more likely to be millionaires than those who work for others. What types of businesses do these millionaire entrepreneurs own? Surprisingly, most own what might be considered "dull-normal" businesses - welding contractors, auctioneers, rice farmers, mobile-home park owners, pest controllers, coin and stamp dealers, and paving contractors. These unglamorous businesses often face less competition and have more stable demand than trendy or high-profile industries. As Forbes magazine noted, "Dull companies with steady earnings growth may not make for stimulating cocktail party chatter, but over the long term they make the best investments." The path to wealth through self-employment isn't easy. The average net income for the more than fifteen million sole proprietorships in America is only $6,200, and about 25 percent don't make any profit during a typical year. Partnerships fare even worse, with 42 percent making no profits in a year. Only 55 percent of corporations have any taxable income during a typical twelve-month period. Success requires courage, discipline, and perseverance. Why do successful entrepreneurs choose self-employment despite these risks? Many cite freedom as their primary motivation. Contrary to popular belief, they view self-employment as less risky than working for others. As one entrepreneur explained, "What is risk? Having one source of income. Employees are at risk... They have a single source of income. What about the entrepreneur who sells janitorial services to your employers? He has hundreds and hundreds of customers... hundreds and hundreds of sources of income." Successful business owners share certain psychological traits. They believe they control their own destiny. They see risk as working for a ruthless employer rather than being self-employed. They believe they can solve any problem and that there are no limits on their income potential. Most importantly, they enjoy what they do - they take pride in "going it alone" and can't wait to get to work each morning. Interestingly, fewer than one in five millionaire business owners turns their business over to their children. Most wealthy parents understand the risks of entrepreneurship and instead encourage their children to become self-employed professionals like physicians, attorneys, or accountants. These professions offer more stable income, portable skills, and less vulnerability to external factors like competition or economic downturns. This explains why millionaire couples are five times more likely to send their children to medical school and four times more likely to send them to law school than other American parents.

Chapter 7: Market Opportunities: Finding Your Profitable Niche

The next decade will see unprecedented wealth in America, creating significant opportunities for those who target the affluent market. By 2005, millionaire households are expected to reach approximately 5.6 million, controlling 59 percent of all personal wealth in America. During the period from 1996 through 2005, nearly $2.1 trillion will be distributed through estates worth $1 million or more, while living parents and grandparents will give their offspring more than $1 trillion to minimize estate taxes. Several professions are particularly well-positioned to benefit from this wealth transfer. Estate attorneys will generate more than $25 billion in revenue from servicing estates in the $1 million or more range during the 1996-2005 period. Tax attorneys will be in high demand as the affluent seek to minimize their tax burden, especially if the government creates new ways to tax wealth. Immigration attorneys will benefit as affluent foreigners increasingly seek American citizenship as a safe haven for their wealth. Medical and dental specialists who focus on services not covered by insurance will thrive by targeting the affluent self-payer market. These include cosmetic dentists, plastic surgeons, dermatologists, allergists, psychologists, psychiatrists, and chiropractors. The affluent will spend in excess of $52 billion for the medical and dental care of their adult children and grandchildren in the next ten years, creating substantial opportunities for health care professionals who can market directly to this population. Educational institutions and professionals will benefit from the more than 40 percent of America's affluent who pay for their grandchildren's private school tuition. This translates into several million students whose education will be subsidized, creating demand for private schools, teachers, counselors, and tutors. Since many parents don't have to pay for these services themselves, they're relatively insensitive to escalating costs, allowing schools to charge premium rates. Other specialists who will benefit include asset liquidators and appraisers (as heirs seek to convert inherited assets to cash), accountants (as trusted advisors on tax planning and wealth transfer), housing specialists (as more than half the affluent provide financial assistance for home purchases), and travel agents (as affluent families spend considerable amounts on vacations with children and grandchildren). Geographic targeting is essential for those seeking to serve the affluent market. California, Florida, New York, Illinois, Texas, and Pennsylvania will have the highest concentrations of millionaire estates during the next decade. Connecticut has the highest concentration of millionaire households per 100,000 population. Understanding these demographic patterns can help professionals position themselves in markets with the greatest opportunity.

Summary

The true path to wealth in America is remarkably different from what most people imagine. The millionaires among us aren't the flashy celebrities or status-conscious professionals living in mansions and driving luxury cars. They're ordinary-looking people living in middle-class neighborhoods, practicing disciplined financial habits that allow them to build extraordinary wealth over time. The seven common characteristics they share - living below their means, allocating time efficiently, valuing financial independence over status, avoiding economic outpatient care, raising self-sufficient children, targeting market opportunities, and choosing the right occupation - form a blueprint anyone can follow. What makes this insight so powerful is how it challenges our consumption-oriented culture. While most Americans focus on looking wealthy through visible status symbols, actual millionaires focus on becoming wealthy through invisible habits of discipline and frugality. This distinction explains why so many high-income professionals never accumulate significant wealth despite their impressive salaries. For those seeking financial independence, the lesson is clear: wealth isn't about what you spend, it's about what you keep. By adopting the mindset and habits of the millionaire next door, you too can build lasting wealth regardless of your income level or background.

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Thomas J. Stanley

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