
Who Better Than You?
The Art of Healthy Arrogance & Dreaming Big
Categories
Business, Nonfiction, Self Help
Content Type
Book
Binding
Hardcover
Year
2025
Publisher
Harmony
Language
English
ASIN
0593582160
ISBN
0593582160
ISBN13
9780593582169
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Who Better Than You? Plot Summary
Introduction
Will Packer represents the quintessential modern American dream - a visionary filmmaker who built a cinematic empire from virtually nothing. From humble beginnings in Florida to becoming one of Hollywood's most influential producers, Packer's journey embodies relentless perseverance and bold ambition. With multiple films opening at number one at the box office and over $1 billion in worldwide revenue, he has disrupted the status quo of an industry notorious for its resistance to change, particularly for African Americans seeking to tell authentic stories. What makes Packer's story especially compelling is not just his professional achievements, but how he navigated the complex terrain of Hollywood with strategic intelligence and unwavering confidence. Throughout his journey, he demonstrates three fundamental principles that define his success: the courage to take calculated risks when others wouldn't, the ability to build meaningful relationships across different spheres of influence, and an authentic approach to storytelling that resonates with underserved audiences. His methods for overcoming rejection, managing crises, and creating opportunities where none existed offer invaluable insights for anyone looking to make their mark in any competitive field, not just entertainment.
Chapter 1: From Dreams to Reality: The Beginning of a Visionary
Will Packer's journey begins far from the glittering lights of Hollywood, in St. Petersburg, Florida, where he was raised in a middle-class household that emphasized education and excellence. His parents, especially his mother, instilled in him a fundamental belief that would shape his entire career: he could achieve greatness, but it would require extraordinary effort. When young Will brought home a report card with A's and B's, proudly making the honor roll, his mother's response was pivotal: "Looking at your grades, if you tried a little harder, you probably could have made all A's." Rather than simply celebrating his achievement, she planted the seed that good wasn't enough when greatness was possible. This early lesson in pushing beyond good to great became a defining characteristic in Packer's approach to life. After earning an engineering degree from Florida A&M University (FAMU), Packer found himself drawn to filmmaking. While still in college, he and his friend Rob Hardy made their first film, "Chocolate City," an incredibly modest production with a tiny budget. What distinguished this early effort wasn't the quality of the filmmaking but Packer's audacious approach to its premiere. Despite being merely a student film, Packer organized a formal black-tie affair in the university auditorium, complete with strict plus-one invitations, and even reserved front-row seats for major Hollywood executives who, predictably, never showed up. The experience taught Packer a crucial lesson that would serve him throughout his career: the importance of betting on himself when no one else would. After graduation, while many of his peers followed traditional career paths, Packer took the risky decision to pursue filmmaking full-time. He faced numerous rejections, working odd jobs to support himself while trying to break into an industry that showed little interest in his vision. One particularly telling moment came when he attempted to raise $5 million for a film called "The Bottom," a project that industry insiders unanimously rejected. Rather than giving up, Packer pivoted. He and Hardy produced "Trois," a psychological thriller made for just $75,000. Through sheer determination and grassroots marketing efforts, they drove to multiple cities across the Southeast, promoting the film themselves at radio stations, churches, and nightclubs. Their efforts paid off when "Trois" earned over $1 million at the box office with no major distribution - an almost unheard-of feat for an independent Black film at that time. This success caught the attention of Sony Pictures, which ultimately distributed the film on home video. What separates Packer's early story from countless other dreamers is his pragmatic approach to ambition. He recognized that success in Hollywood wouldn't come through traditional channels, so he created his own path. His willingness to start small, adapt to rejection, and personally handle every aspect of production and promotion demonstrated a work ethic that would become his trademark. He wasn't waiting for permission or validation from Hollywood; he was creating proof of concept that couldn't be ignored. This foundation-building period established Packer's core philosophy: "Always be a doer, not a talker." While others in the industry talked about projects they hoped to make someday, Packer was actually making them happen, regardless of resources. This principle of action over talk would eventually make him one of the most prolific and successful producers in the industry, turning what many considered limitations into his greatest strengths.
Chapter 2: Taking the Risk: When 'No' Becomes Opportunity
Throughout his career, Will Packer has developed what he calls an appreciation for the "Fortuitous No" - the understanding that rejection often leads to unexpected opportunities. After his modest success with "Trois," Packer aimed higher with "Stomp the Yard," a film about fraternity culture and step competitions at historically Black colleges. When pitching the concept to Hollywood studios, he encountered a wall of rejection. Every major studio passed, but Packer refused to abandon his vision. On a return trip to Los Angeles, using money earned from delivering newspapers in Atlanta, Packer employed a clever tactical pivot. Rather than continuing to pitch "Stomp the Yard" as a Black college movie, he reframed it as a sequel to the successful dance film "You Got Served." This strategic repositioning worked. The studio that had produced "You Got Served" gave him the green light, and Packer was able to incorporate all his original elements - stepping, fraternities, and the HBCU environment - while technically delivering on the studio's expectations. The film went on to dominate the box office for two consecutive weeks. This ability to transform rejection into redirection became a hallmark of Packer's approach. When working on the film "Obsessed," he faced another significant challenge. After approaching Beyoncé for the leading role, she initially declined. Most producers would have moved on, but Packer recognized the potential impact her star power could bring. When the studio suddenly made her participation a requirement for the project's approval, Packer persisted through five rejections from Beyoncé, each time addressing her concerns about the script, schedule conflicts, and creative direction. His determination eventually paid off when she agreed to star in what became another box office hit. Packer approaches risk differently than most. Where others see potential failure, he focuses on potential success. "Is the absolute most awful thing in the world that could happen if I fail possible? Yes. Will that worst-case scenario happen? Probably not. Is the upside of success totally worth it? Absolutely," he reasons. This calculated risk-taking extends beyond his professional choices to his personal life as well. On one memorable occasion, he attempted to travel to Jamaica with an expired passport, navigating through security and customs with sheer confidence and quick thinking. Though reckless by conventional standards, this episode illustrates his fundamental belief that opportunities sometimes require breaking traditional rules. What makes Packer's approach to risk distinctive is his emphasis on strategic pivoting rather than blind persistence. When his initial $5 million film project was rejected, he didn't simply try harder with the same pitch; he reconceived his approach entirely, making "Trois" for a fraction of the budget. This pattern of adaptation in the face of obstacles demonstrates Packer's pragmatic creativity - using the limitations imposed by rejection to force innovation rather than defeat. Perhaps most importantly, Packer believes that "regret is worse than failure." Throughout his career, he has been more afraid of not trying than of trying and falling short. This perspective liberates him from the paralysis that affects many creative professionals who fear failure more than they desire success. By embracing rejection as redirection and viewing risk as necessary for growth, Packer has transformed numerous "no's" into some of his greatest successes.
Chapter 3: The Power of Relationships: Building Your Circle
Will Packer's success stems not just from his individual talents but from his extraordinary ability to build and leverage relationships. He understands that no one achieves significant success alone - you need people who believe in you and your vision. Packer's approach to relationship building is both strategic and authentic, focusing on identifying the motivations and needs of others while remaining true to his own goals. One of Packer's most important professional relationships was with Clint Culpepper, an executive at Screen Gems, Sony's genre division. Culpepper, whom Packer describes as "loud, gay, brash, and just loves him some Black folks and Black culture," became his champion within the studio system. After seeing Packer's work on "The Gospel," Culpepper took risks on behalf of the emerging filmmaker, even authorizing unorthodox marketing budgets that upset others at Sony. This relationship flourished because Packer consistently delivered results, making Culpepper look smart for taking chances on him. Together, they produced a string of box office hits including "Obsessed," "Takers," "No Good Deed," "Stomp the Yard," and the "Think Like a Man" films. Packer emphasizes that finding the right advocate - what he calls "all you need is one (white) guy" - is essential in any industry with power imbalances. However, he stresses that advocacy is a two-way street. You need someone to champion you, but you also need to make them feel that backing you was the right decision. This requires understanding what they value and delivering on those expectations. For Packer, this meant learning what was important to each executive he worked with - whether it was box office numbers, awards, or specific messaging - and aligning his projects accordingly. Equally important to Packer's success is his relationship with his chief of staff, Shayla Cowan. Starting as his executive assistant, Cowan rose to become what Packer calls his "secret weapon." In an industry obsessed with titles and positions, many people overlooked Cowan's influence, not realizing she was Packer's most trusted adviser. Packer explains that people who want to succeed must be savvy enough to identify the "Shayla" in every powerful person's life - the individual who may not have the highest title but has enormous influence with decision-makers. Packer's most valued professional quality in relationships is loyalty. He tells a revealing story about asking his executives what they would do if his company failed and he was reduced to "selling oranges on the side of the road under a freeway overpass." While most said they would try to help him find employment elsewhere, Cowan immediately asked, "Which underpass would we be working under?" This unwavering loyalty forms the bedrock of Packer's most productive relationships. He advises that while you need to surround yourself with capable people, you must prioritize those whose motivations and intentions you never have to question. However, Packer cautions against confusing loyalty with obligation. He warns against maintaining relationships that hold you back simply because they've existed for a long time. "If you're the best, most successful, hardest-working person in your circle, you need a new circle," he advises. People should be unapologetic about moving on from relationships that no longer fit their current phase of life, even if those relationships have deep roots in their past. Packer's balanced approach to relationships - combining strategic networking with authentic connection - demonstrates that successful relationship building isn't about manipulating others but about creating genuine win-win situations. By understanding others' motivations while staying true to his own vision, he has built a network that has enabled him to achieve what would have been impossible alone.
Chapter 4: Authentic Storytelling: Finding Your Lane
Will Packer has built his remarkable career on a foundation of authentic storytelling that resonates with underserved audiences. In an industry often criticized for its lack of diversity, Packer recognized early on that there was an untapped market hungry for genuine representation in mainstream entertainment. Rather than trying to create films that appealed to everyone, he focused on telling specific stories that would deeply connect with particular audiences, believing that authenticity would ultimately have broader appeal. When developing projects, Packer employs a unique approach - he creates detailed fictional personas representing his target audience. For "Girls Trip," he envisioned "Sharonda from Detroit," a working mother of two running a side business while dealing with relationship challenges. He imagined her wanting entertainment that showed imperfect characters in relatable situations, providing both escape and recognition. Similarly, for "Ride Along," his target was "Cody," a teenage boy who loved hip-hop and comedy. By focusing on these specific personas rather than abstract demographics, Packer creates stories that feel personally crafted for real viewers. This specificity extends to his casting choices as well. When casting the character of Dina in "Girls Trip," Packer chose Tiffany Haddish over more established actresses because she brought authentic energy to the role. "She didn't portray that character; she disappeared into the role," he explains. "It didn't feel like she was acting." This commitment to authenticity over celebrity contributed to Haddish's breakout performance and the film's massive success. Packer understands that his greatest strength is his connection to audiences often overlooked by mainstream Hollywood. "Black women have the keys to the kingdom," he asserts. "They always have, but nobody ever paid enough attention. I've always paid attention to them." This attention has proven financially lucrative - his films consistently open at number one at the box office despite competing against projects with bigger stars and larger budgets. He credits this success to his "consistent, dedicated, persuasive audience who felt ownership of a project that felt authentic to them." While Packer has established himself firmly in a particular lane of filmmaking, he advises that staying in your lane doesn't mean limiting yourself. "Your lane can be as wide as you define it to be," he explains. Over time, he has expanded beyond his early successes with comedies and romantic films to produce diverse projects including the historical miniseries "Roots," documentaries like "The Atlanta Child Murders," and even the Academy Awards telecast. This controlled expansion has allowed him to grow without abandoning the authentic core that defines his work. Packer's approach to finding and owning his lane offers valuable insights for anyone seeking to make their mark in a competitive field. Rather than trying to be all things to all people, he recommends leaning into your unique strengths and perspectives, building a dedicated audience who feels genuinely seen by your work, and then expanding thoughtfully without compromising your authenticity. In an industry full of imitators, Packer's commitment to genuine representation has made him not just successful but influential in changing Hollywood's understanding of what audiences truly want.
Chapter 5: The Production Method: Finishing What You Start
Will Packer's approach to production extends far beyond simply making movies; it encompasses a comprehensive philosophy about how to bring projects to successful completion. At the heart of this methodology is his unwavering commitment to finishing strong, regardless of obstacles encountered along the way. "To do extraordinary things," he explains, "you have to have an extraordinary process. Not an extraordinary start, not an extraordinary middle, but extraordinary from beginning to end." Packer learned this lesson early in his career and references the cautionary tale of football player Leon Lett, who famously recovered a fumble in Super Bowl XXVII and ran toward the end zone, only to slow down and showboat before crossing the goal line. This premature celebration allowed an opposing player to strip the ball, turning what should have been a triumphant moment into an embarrassing failure. Packer sees this as a perfect metaphor for the danger of not seeing things through to completion with the same intensity that you started them. This principle of finishing strong was evident during the production of "Think Like a Man." When the film was tracking to open at $20 million - already a substantial success - Packer refused to be satisfied. He called the cast at midnight on opening Friday and organized additional theater appearances for Saturday, helping push the weekend total to $33 million. "The additional energy spent that takes something from being good to being great is transformative," he insists. "It's all that really matters." Packer's production method emphasizes problem-solving as essential to finishing what you start. During the filming of "Ride Along" starring Kevin Hart and Ice Cube, Packer faced a potential disaster when Hart scheduled his comedy special at Madison Square Garden the night before a crucial filming day. Rather than giving up or rescheduling the shoot at enormous expense, Packer worked tirelessly to create a solution that allowed Hart to perform in New York and return to Atlanta in time for filming. Even when complications arose - including a nightclub encounter with basketball star Carmelo Anthony that threatened to derail their tight schedule - Packer refused to accept defeat, finding a way to make it work. This ability to adapt and overcome unexpected challenges is central to Packer's success. He encourages preparing for things to go wrong rather than hoping everything will go smoothly. "Operating at the highest levels means while others are marveling at the thought of what could go right, you're allotting a portion of your mental capacity to staying homed in on the worst-case scenario," he advises. This anticipatory mindset allows him to respond quickly when inevitable problems arise. Perhaps most importantly, Packer recognizes that finishing strong often requires pushing past mental fatigue and maintaining focus until the very end. He rejects the "good enough" mentality that leads many to coast when they're near completion. Whether it's continuing to promote a film aggressively after a strong opening day or reworking a scene until it's perfect rather than acceptable, Packer insists on excellence throughout the entire process. This commitment to seeing things through to their full potential, rather than settling for partial success, has been instrumental in his consistent delivery of box office hits when others might have settled for respectable results.
Chapter 6: Beyond Hollywood: Creating a Lasting Legacy
Will Packer's vision extends far beyond the confines of Hollywood's studio system. In 2024, he achieved what he describes as "one of his biggest dreams" when he was unanimously approved as a limited partner in the NFL's Atlanta Falcons ownership group. This milestone, which coincided with his fiftieth birthday, represented more than just a personal achievement. Alongside Rosalind Brewer, Dominique Dawes, and Rashaun Williams - all successful African Americans - Packer's inclusion marked a significant step toward diversity in the overwhelmingly white world of NFL ownership. For Packer, this accomplishment was about representation and legacy. "The power of representation and equity should never be underestimated," he stated in the press release announcing his approval. "This investment represents not only the personal opportunity of a lifetime, but also the chance to demonstrate for generations to come that someone who looks like me can excel not only on the field, but at the highest level of the exclusive ranks of NFL ownership." This perspective exemplifies how Packer views success not merely as personal accomplishment but as creating pathways for others. Throughout his career, Packer has maintained a dual focus on achieving individual success while creating opportunities for broader community advancement. In 2021, Florida A&M University unveiled the Will Packer Performing Arts Amphitheater, honoring his contributions to the university and the entertainment industry. The ceremony was characteristically grand, featuring celebrities and broadcasters, showcasing Packer's talent for making moments memorable. Yet beyond the celebration, the amphitheater represents Packer's commitment to education and his belief in giving back to institutions that shaped him. What truly distinguishes Packer's approach to legacy building is his focus on mentoring and supporting others in the industry. He takes particular pride in the accomplishments of former interns who have gone on to direct their own films, run their own shows, and even win Academy Awards. "If I win, that's one win," he explains. "But if I help you win and I leave you with a mentality of how to help others win, well, that might be ten wins, a hundred wins." This multiplier effect represents Packer's understanding that true legacy comes not from individual achievements but from creating systems that enable others to succeed. Packer's definition of success has evolved throughout his career. While maintaining his drive for achievement, he has become increasingly focused on protecting his joy and maintaining balance. "I've got ten number-one movies so far," he notes. "If I could have twenty but not be as happy, I don't want them. If I could only have five and be happier, gimme the five." This mature perspective recognizes that lasting fulfillment comes not from accolades alone but from creating a life with meaning beyond professional accomplishments. As he continues to expand his influence beyond filmmaking, Packer remains committed to what he calls "perpetual progression" - always moving forward, even when faced with obstacles. He constantly redefines success as the world changes, embracing new challenges rather than resting on past achievements. Whether producing groundbreaking films, investing in professional sports, or mentoring the next generation of creators, Packer's approach to legacy is characterized by both ambition and responsibility - building success not just for himself but for communities that have historically been excluded from ownership and power.
Summary
Will Packer's journey from making a shoestring-budget student film to becoming a Hollywood powerhouse and NFL team owner reveals a profound truth: extraordinary success comes not from singular talent but from unwavering persistence, strategic relationship building, and authentic self-belief. His ability to transform rejection into opportunity, to finish strong when others would be satisfied with "good enough," and to create genuine representation for underserved audiences offers a masterclass in purpose-driven achievement. The core of Packer's philosophy can be distilled to his conviction that "who better than you?" - the idea that you are the key to your own success and shouldn't wait for external validation. From Packer's story, we can extract actionable wisdom applicable to any field: view "no" as a redirection rather than rejection; surround yourself with loyal supporters who elevate your vision; focus on authentic work that connects deeply with specific audiences rather than trying to please everyone; and always complete what you start with the same intensity you began with. His career demonstrates that true legacy isn't measured by individual achievements but by creating opportunities for others to succeed. For anyone seeking to break barriers in competitive industries or carve their own unique path, Packer's journey illuminates how combining bold ambition with strategic execution can transform seemingly impossible dreams into reality.
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Strengths: The book is described as an "entertaining listen" and is recommended as an audiobook over a physical read. It provides engaging and insightful content, combining anecdotes from Will Packer's career with practical advice for achieving success.\nWeaknesses: The review notes that the book does not offer anything groundbreaking.\nOverall Sentiment: Mixed. The reviewer found the audiobook entertaining and insightful but did not find the content groundbreaking.\nKey Takeaway: The audiobook "Who Better Than You?: The Art of Healthy Arrogance & Dreaming Big" by Will Packer is recommended for its engaging storytelling and practical advice, particularly for Black men who may find the self-help genre challenging to engage with. It emphasizes the concept of "healthy arrogance" as a means to unlock potential and achieve success.
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Who Better Than You?
By Will Packer









