Lead Well

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Introduction

Today's workplace is at a critical inflection point. The pandemic fundamentally altered how people view work, causing many to reassess what truly matters in their careers and lives. At the same time, technology continues to advance at breakneck speed, with generative AI reshaping job responsibilities and raising questions about the future of human work. These concurrent shifts have created unprecedented challenges for leaders who must navigate changing employee expectations while still delivering business results. The Lead Well framework addresses this complex landscape by offering a human-centered approach to leadership. Rather than treating performance and people as separate concerns, this framework integrates them, recognizing that truly effective leadership must nurture both simultaneously. At its core are five mindsets that enable leaders to create environments where teams can thrive: prioritizing sticky recognition and mattering; amplifying autonomy, belonging, and challenge needs; building workload sustainability; developing systemic stress resilience; and promoting values alignment and meaning. When leaders adopt these mindsets, they not only enhance employee well-being but also drive innovation, engagement, and ultimately better business outcomes in our uncertain, rapidly evolving world.

Chapter 1: Creating a Human-Centered Workplace Culture

Creating a human-centered workplace culture begins with understanding the fundamental shifts that have transformed our relationship with work. The pandemic served as an upheaval event that forced organizations and individuals to reevaluate priorities, while simultaneously accelerating technological change. This convergence has produced a workforce that increasingly values meaning, flexibility, connection, and well-being alongside traditional concerns like compensation and advancement. Leaders now face the challenge of adapting to these shifting expectations while navigating ongoing uncertainty. The human-centered approach recognizes that workplace culture isn't merely about perks or amenities, but about addressing deeper human needs. Research consistently shows a striking misalignment between what employees value and what leaders believe they value. While executives often assume employees are primarily motivated by compensation or career advancement, studies reveal workers place equal importance on feeling valued, experiencing autonomy, finding meaning in their work, and maintaining sustainable workloads. This perception gap helps explain why engagement levels remain concerningly low across industries. A key insight within the human-centered framework is the integration of performance and people concerns. Traditionally, these have been treated as separate domains, with performance metrics receiving priority attention while people issues were relegated to HR. However, organizations that excel in both dimensions—what might be called "People + Performance-Focused" companies—significantly outperform those that prioritize financial metrics alone. These organizations are 4.3 times more likely to maintain top-tier financial performance and grow revenues twice as fast as those with a singular focus on performance metrics. Implementing a human-centered culture requires addressing systemic workplace issues rather than focusing solely on individual resilience or wellness programs. Leaders must recognize that workplace stressors like unmanageable workloads, lack of autonomy, poor recognition practices, and values misalignment are organizational issues requiring structural solutions. This perspective shift represents a move from the traditional "me" approach (focusing on individual coping) to a balanced "me and we" approach that acknowledges organizational responsibility for creating healthier work environments. The business case for human-centered leadership is compelling. Research from organizations like PwC and Harvard University demonstrates that investments in employee experience and well-being yield significant returns, including reduced turnover, lower absenteeism, higher productivity, and better financial performance. One study found that companies investing in key drivers of positive employee experience could realize savings of up to 12.6% of total revenue. Far from being "soft" concerns, human factors directly impact the bottom line.

Chapter 2: Prioritizing Sticky Recognition and Mattering

Recognition is a fundamental human need that profoundly influences workplace engagement and retention, yet it remains one of the most overlooked aspects of leadership. Traditional approaches to recognition often focus on formalized programs like service awards or annual bonuses, which fail to create the daily sense of value and appreciation employees crave. The concept of "sticky recognition" addresses this gap by emphasizing recognition that shows individuals clear evidence of their impact and demonstrates how their contributions matter to the organization's success. Sticky recognition differs from generic praise in its specificity and connection to impact. When a leader offers a thank you "plus"—adding a couple of sentences that describe the specific strengths, behaviors, or qualities that led to a positive outcome—they create a moment of recognition that genuinely resonates and endures in an employee's memory. For example, rather than simply saying "Good job on that project," sticky recognition might sound like: "Your thorough analysis of the client data was instrumental in our successful pitch. The way you anticipated their concerns and prepared counterpoints showed exceptional foresight and attention to detail." This approach to recognition activates "mattering"—a powerful psychological state defined as one's sense of the difference they make in the world. Mattering comprises two essential components: feeling valued (through appreciation and recognition) and knowing you're adding value (through achievement). When employees experience mattering, research shows they become more satisfied with their jobs, more committed to their organizations, less likely to quit, and report lower rates of burnout, depression, and anxiety. One study found that employees who believed their organization valued their "inherent worth as a human being" rather than merely their productivity reported significantly better mental health and were less than half as likely to consider leaving due to stress or burnout. Despite its simplicity and effectiveness, many leaders struggle to implement consistent recognition practices. Common obstacles include viewing recognition as unnecessary for people "just doing their job," feeling too busy to prioritize it, focusing more on preventing mistakes than celebrating successes, or discomfort with expressing appreciation. These barriers stem from misconceptions about recognition's purpose—it's not about stroking egos but providing essential psychological nourishment that enables people to thrive and engage fully with their work. Implementing sticky recognition can begin with small, consistent practices: acknowledging others' contributions in meetings, noticing and naming specific strengths, investing time in relationships, and remembering personal details. Organizations that embed recognition into their culture, like Lifepoint Health with its "Making Moments Matter" platform, create powerful environments where employees feel seen and valued. Their approach connects recognition directly to organizational values, ensuring appreciation is both meaningful and aligned with strategic priorities. The beauty of sticky recognition is its accessibility—it requires no budget, minimal time, and can be implemented immediately. Yet its impact on employee engagement, retention, and performance is profound. When people feel their contributions matter, they bring their full capabilities to work, creating a virtuous cycle of achievement, recognition, and continued excellence that benefits both individuals and the organization.

Chapter 3: Amplifying Autonomy, Belonging, and Challenge Needs

The ABC needs—autonomy, belonging, and challenge—form the psychological foundation for human motivation and engagement at work. Research consistently identifies these three elements as essential for cultivating intrinsic motivation, promoting high performance, and enabling workplace thriving. When leaders effectively address these needs, they create environments where employees naturally want to contribute their best work rather than merely complying with external demands. Autonomy represents the fundamental need to have some control and choice in how work gets done. This extends beyond simply deciding where or when to work (though flexibility is important) to include several distinct types of autonomy: schedule autonomy (when and where work happens), task autonomy (how to perform job tasks), decision-making autonomy (authority to make work-related decisions), creative autonomy (freedom to explore new ideas), career autonomy (control over professional development), and social autonomy (choice in communication and collaboration styles). Leaders can enhance autonomy by providing context for rules and goals, empowering appropriate decision-making, and ensuring teams are consistently aligned on priorities. Importantly, autonomy doesn't mean isolation or independence—it means providing appropriate freedom within clear frameworks. Belonging addresses our innate need for connection and community. Humans are fundamentally social creatures who thrive when they feel part of something larger than themselves. In workplace settings, belonging manifests as feeling connected to colleagues, sensing that leaders have your back, and experiencing trustworthy relationships. Research demonstrates that friendship groups consistently outperform acquaintance groups on various tasks, and employees with a "best friend" at work are seven times more likely to be engaged. Leaders can foster belonging by scheduling unstructured time for team members to connect, offering opportunities to include employees' friends and family in appropriate contexts, and encouraging the sharing of positive workplace events with loved ones through "active constructive responding"—a communication technique that builds relationships by enthusiastically engaging with others' good news. Challenge encompasses our desire for growth, mastery, and achievement. People inherently want to develop their skills and capabilities, yet studies show that 56% of employees believe their organizations lack sufficient growth opportunities to retain them long-term. Effective challenge requires creating cultures of learning and development, implementing frameworks for reskilling and upskilling, and providing pathways for mastery experiences. Leaders can leverage game design principles to enhance motivation by setting clear goals, creating opportunities for "leveling up," gradually increasing difficulty with some variety, and providing abundant feedback. The gaming mindset taps into our intrinsic desire for achievement and progress, creating naturally engaging work experiences. The ABC needs are particularly crucial in today's distributed workplace environment. Remote and hybrid work arrangements have disrupted traditional mechanisms for creating community and belonging, requiring leaders to be more intentional about fostering connection. Similarly, autonomy needs have evolved as employees expect greater flexibility in how and where they work. Progressive organizations like Sidley Austin have recognized these shifts, creating comprehensive development programs like "Built to Lead" that systematically address autonomy, belonging, and challenge needs throughout employees' careers. When properly integrated, the ABC needs create a virtuous cycle: autonomy enables people to pursue challenges aligned with their interests, challenges provide opportunities for growth and mastery, and belonging creates the psychological safety necessary for risk-taking and innovation. Together, they form the foundation for intrinsically motivated, engaged, and high-performing teams capable of thriving in uncertain environments.

Chapter 4: Building Workload Sustainability

Workload sustainability has emerged as perhaps the most pressing well-being challenge in today's workplace. Across industries, employees report feeling overwhelmed by the volume and pace of work, with studies showing that 44-63% of workers identify workload as a key contributor to stress and burnout. This challenge has intensified in recent years due to staffing reductions, increased work complexity, and blurred boundaries between work and personal life. Creating sustainable workload practices is therefore essential for both individual well-being and organizational performance. The roots of unsustainable workload often lie in systemic organizational issues rather than individual time management failures. Research identifies several common drivers: "impact blindness," where leadership loses track of the cumulative effect of multiple initiatives; "limited line of sight," where leaders can't see competing priorities across departments; under-resourced initiatives; "band-aid" solutions that fail to address root causes; and failure to rebalance work when people leave. Additionally, many organizational cultures implicitly reward overwork and celebrate an "always on" mentality, creating environments where setting boundaries feels risky or career-limiting. Addressing workload sustainability requires a multifaceted approach that goes beyond simply hiring more people. Effective communication practices form a critical foundation. Frameworks like the Mindful Business Charter and U.S. Bank Guidelines provide structured approaches for establishing clearer expectations between teams and their clients. These frameworks address four key pillars: mindful communication (respecting off-hours and choosing appropriate communication methods); work-life balance (managing workloads appropriately based on urgency); intentional project management (collaborative problem-solving); and joint programming opportunities (leveraging shared well-being initiatives). By explicitly discussing expectations around urgency, deadlines, and availability, teams can create more predictable and manageable workflows. Good teaming practices also play an essential role in workload sustainability. Teams that establish clear charters, cross-train members, and conduct regular debriefs can work more efficiently and distribute work more equitably. These practices create shared understanding of roles, responsibilities, and processes, reducing coordination costs and enabling faster adjustments when priorities shift. Similarly, implementing strategies like meetings audits (to eliminate unnecessary gatherings), timeboxing priorities (allocating appropriate time for different work categories), and assessing open projects can help teams focus on what truly matters rather than spreading themselves too thin across too many initiatives. The relationship between long work hours and well-being is more nuanced than commonly assumed. Research suggests that factors like autonomy, meaning, and choice significantly influence how work hours affect well-being. Having control over when and how you work appears more important than the absolute number of hours worked. This insight helps explain why flexible work arrangements can improve well-being even when total work hours remain unchanged. Similarly, connecting to the deeper purpose of work—understanding why the task matters—can make extended hours feel less burdensome and more meaningful. As generative AI and other technologies continue to develop, they offer potential pathways to reduce workload through automation of routine tasks. However, early evidence suggests a more complex picture, with 77% of employees reporting that AI has actually increased their workload as they learn new tools and adapt processes. Organizations must therefore approach technological solutions thoughtfully, providing adequate training and experimentation time rather than viewing them as quick fixes to workload challenges.

Chapter 5: Developing Systemic Stress Resilience

Resilience in today's workplace extends far beyond individual coping mechanisms—it represents a systemic capacity for growth amid uncertainty and change. While traditional approaches have often framed resilience as a personal trait or skill, contemporary understanding recognizes that resilience emerges from the interaction between individuals, teams, and organizational systems. This broader perspective defines resilience as the capacity for stress-related growth at all these levels, emphasizing that true resilience involves not just bouncing back but bouncing forward through learning and adaptation. At the team level, resilience manifests through several key resources and practices. Research identifies four critical elements that enable teams to thrive amid disruption: team efficacy (collective confidence in the team's capabilities), clear roles and responsibilities, improvisation skills, and psychological safety. These elements create a foundation for teams to navigate challenges effectively, whether working in-person or virtually. Psychological safety—the shared belief that team members can take interpersonal risks without fear of negative consequences—proves particularly crucial, as it enables the candid communication and vulnerability needed to address difficult situations. The case of American Express illustrates how intentional team development can build resilience. When Sarah Dodds-Brown, Executive Vice President & Deputy General Counsel, took over leadership of a team that had experienced significant disruption and turnover, she implemented a structured approach to building team cohesion around five key differentiators: trust, purpose, accountability, adaptability, and cohesion. By establishing clear team norms, creating opportunities for vulnerability (starting with her own), and consistently reinforcing these principles, she transformed the team's ability to navigate challenges together. Her approach recognized that psychological safety within the team created the foundation for what she called "psychological courage"—the ability to have difficult conversations and deliver challenging messages to stakeholders when necessary. Organizational resilience represents yet another level of this systemic approach. Organizations that cultivate resilience demonstrate specific capabilities: strong leadership practices, motivated workers, situational awareness (monitoring for emerging issues), innovation, and effective partnerships. Research shows that resilient organizations achieve significantly better financial outcomes, generating total shareholder returns 50% higher than less resilient peers during economic recovery periods. This performance advantage stems from their ability to both absorb shocks and transform challenges into opportunities for growth and innovation. Practical strategies for building systemic resilience include creating roadmaps for action before, during, and after challenges; debriefing after "micro-challenges" to build resilience muscles; implementing good teaming practices; creating productive disruptions to prevent dysfunctional momentum; repurposing existing routines and resources during crises; and taking "relational pauses" to address the emotional aspects of challenging situations. These approaches recognize that resilience isn't about rigid persistence but rather about thoughtful adaptation in response to changing circumstances. Importantly, resilience and employee engagement form a mutually reinforcing cycle. Resilience serves as an important job resource that contributes to higher work engagement, while engaged employees demonstrate greater resilience when facing workplace challenges. This relationship helps explain why organizations that invest in both dimensions simultaneously see greater benefits than those focusing on either aspect alone. By developing resilience at individual, team, and organizational levels, leaders create environments where people can thrive amid uncertainty rather than merely survive it.

Chapter 6: Promoting Values Alignment and Meaning

Values alignment and meaningful work represent powerful forces that fuel engagement, commitment, and overall well-being. Values—defined as ways of being or believing that individuals hold most important—serve as internal compasses that guide decision-making and behavior. When personal values align with organizational values, employees experience greater connection to their work and organization. Conversely, values misalignment creates cognitive dissonance and emotional strain, contributing to burnout and disengagement over time. Meaningful work provides a complementary dimension to values alignment. Meaning is defined as the subjective experience that one's work matters, facilitates personal growth, and is significant and worthwhile. Research consistently links meaningful work to increased dedication, organizational commitment, intrinsic motivation, higher performance, and lower absenteeism. The search for meaning has intensified in recent years, particularly following the pandemic, which prompted many to reevaluate what truly matters in their lives and careers. New research identifies six specific leadership practices that foster meaningful work, creating a practical framework for leaders to enhance meaning within their teams. The first practice—communicating the work's bigger impact—shows the strongest correlation with meaningful work. When leaders explicitly connect individual contributions to larger outcomes, they help employees see how their efforts matter within the broader context. For example, a military leader might show maintenance crew members video footage of successful missions their aircraft supported, creating a tangible link between their work and its ultimate impact. The second practice involves recognizing and nurturing potential, which addresses the challenge need within the ABC framework. Leaders can implement this practice through "sticky goals"—objectives that incorporate mental contrasting (identifying both pathways to success and potential obstacles) and implementation intentions (specific if-then plans for overcoming obstacles). This structured approach to goal-setting helps employees develop in areas that matter to them while building confidence in their ability to overcome challenges. Fostering personal connections represents the third practice, emphasizing the importance of workplace relationships and "battle buddies"—trusted colleagues who provide support, accountability, and motivation. Research shows that professionals with strong peer interactions demonstrate better performance and continued development compared to those working in isolation. Leaders can facilitate connections by creating opportunities for meaningful interaction and encouraging the revival of "dormant ties"—previously strong relationships that have gone quiet over time. The fourth practice focuses on discussing values and purpose during hiring and onboarding. Organizations often miss this critical opportunity to align new employees with the company's mission and values from the start. Effective onboarding should emphasize three key factors: clarity about role responsibilities, feedback on performance, and resources to help answer questions. Assigning an onboarding partner can further enhance this process by helping new hires develop networks and understand cultural norms. Modeling values-based behavior constitutes the fifth practice—and the one most strongly correlated with employee retention. When leaders demonstrate authentic commitment to organizational values through their actions and decisions, employees develop greater trust and alignment. Conversely, when leaders act contrary to stated values, employees become more likely to disengage or leave. Leaders can strengthen values alignment by creating "bigger-than-team goals" that connect daily work to broader organizational impact and purpose. The final practice involves giving employees autonomy, which enables individuals to "micro-craft" aspects of their jobs to better align with their values, strengths, and interests. Techniques like the "4/4/4 way to end your week" (spending four minutes each on reflecting on positive experiences, planning for the coming week, and expressing appreciation to others) and the "20% rule" (ensuring at least 20% of time is spent on meaningful aspects of work) help employees exercise autonomy in ways that enhance meaning and engagement. Together, these six practices create a comprehensive approach to fostering values alignment and meaningful work. When implemented consistently, they help employees connect their daily efforts to deeper purpose, resulting in greater commitment, engagement, and fulfillment.

Summary

The Lead Well framework represents a paradigm shift in how we understand effective leadership in today's complex, rapidly changing workplace. By integrating the five mindsets—prioritizing sticky recognition and mattering, amplifying ABC needs, creating workload sustainability, building systemic stress resilience, and promoting values alignment and meaning—leaders can create environments where teams naturally thrive rather than merely survive. This approach recognizes that human factors and performance outcomes are inextricably linked, forming a virtuous cycle where attention to people's fundamental needs drives better business results. The transformative power of this framework lies in its practical application across diverse organizational contexts. Rather than offering superficial quick fixes, the Lead Well mindsets address root causes of workplace stress and disengagement while simultaneously building the conditions for motivation, innovation, and high performance. As uncertainty continues to define our working world, organizations that implement these mindsets position themselves for sustained success by developing cultures that attract top talent, inspire discretionary effort, and adapt effectively to change. The future belongs to leaders who recognize that creating truly human-centered workplaces isn't just the right thing to do—it's the smart thing to do.

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Paula Davis

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