
Manifest
7 Steps to Living Your Best Life
Categories
Business, Nonfiction, Self Help, Psychology, Philosophy, Spirituality, Productivity, Mental Health, Audiobook, Personal Development
Content Type
Book
Binding
Hardcover
Year
2021
Publisher
Michael Joseph
Language
English
ASIN
0241539595
ISBN
0241539595
ISBN13
9780241539590
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Manifest Plot Summary
Introduction
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to effortlessly create the life they desire while others struggle despite their best efforts? The difference often lies not in luck or circumstance, but in understanding the powerful principles of manifestation. When you learn to harness the energy of your thoughts, beliefs, and actions in alignment with universal laws, you unlock a transformative ability to shape your reality. The journey to manifesting your best life isn't about magical thinking—it's about cultivating awareness of your inner power. Many of us walk through life unaware of how our subconscious beliefs limit what we perceive as possible. This hidden programming silently directs our choices, behaviors, and ultimately, our outcomes. The good news is that once you understand these principles, you can begin consciously creating the life you truly desire, stepping into your authentic power and manifesting experiences aligned with your highest vision.
Chapter 1: Clarify Your Vision and Embrace Possibilities
Manifestation begins with clarity of vision. You simply cannot reach a destination without knowing where you're heading. The first vital step in creating the life you desire is gaining absolute clarity on what you want the universe to provide. When we visualize something we desire, our brain responds as if it's already happening. Neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart explains in her research that "visualization works because there is surprisingly little difference to the brain between experiencing an event directly in the outside world and a strongly imagined vision of the same event." This explains why Olympic gold medalist Michael Phelps attributed much of his success to visualization techniques. Before races, he would mentally rehearse not only winning but also overcoming potential problems, preparing his brain and body for optimal performance regardless of circumstances. The key to effective visualization lies not just in seeing what you want, but in creating the emotional experience of already having it. When Roxie Nafousi, after discovering manifestation principles, wanted to manifest unconditional love in her life, she didn't just picture an ideal partner. She focused intensely on how it would feel to experience that love. Within weeks, she connected with Wade Briggs, who would become her partner and father to her child—manifesting the unconditional love she had envisioned. To implement this in your own life, start by creating a personal vision board. Set aside time in a calm environment, perhaps with candles and relaxing music. Choose your medium—paper with colored pens or images cut from magazines. Separate your vision into six categories: personal development, love and romance, career, friends and family, home, and hobbies. For each category, write or paste images representing what you want to manifest. This visual representation helps solidify your desires in your subconscious mind. Remember that authentic desires are crucial for successful manifestation. Ensure you're visualizing what you truly want, not what you believe you should want based on others' expectations. The most fulfilling manifestations come from desires aligned with your authentic self, not from comparison with others' dreams or societal pressures. The power of this first step comes from training your brain to recognize opportunities aligned with your vision while filtering out distractions. By regularly immersing yourself in detailed visualizations of your desired future, you prime your subconscious to drive you toward making those visions reality, opening pathways previously invisible to you.
Chapter 2: Remove Self-Doubt Through Compassion
The most transformative insight about manifestation is this: you don't manifest from your conscious thoughts alone, but from your subconscious beliefs about what you deserve. This means you can only attract what you truly believe you're worthy of receiving into your life. Research shows that approximately 95% of our cognitive activity happens subconsciously, while only 5% is conscious. These subconscious patterns, formed through years of experiences, drive our decisions, perceptions, and reactions without our awareness. When Roxie was trying to manifest career success, she encountered this barrier firsthand. Despite her desires for financial independence, she carried a deeply embedded belief that she wasn't capable of supporting herself. This limiting belief kept her financially dependent on relationships and blocked her from attracting professional opportunities, regardless of how much she consciously wanted them. The transformation began when Roxie recognized this pattern and committed to healing it. She identified her fear-based thought patterns and began actively replacing negative self-talk with affirming language. Instead of "You're hideous, you're a loser" when looking in the mirror—phrases she had repeated for two decades—she deliberately chose empowering thoughts: "You are doing a great job. You can achieve anything you put your mind to." This practice wasn't comfortable at first, but within months, the supportive inner voice became dominant, radically shifting her self-perception and manifesting capabilities. To implement this healing process in your own life, start by identifying your limiting beliefs around what you want to manifest. Ask yourself: "Do I really believe I'm worthy of this? What insecurities am I carrying? What limiting beliefs might be holding me back?" Write these down honestly, even if they seem irrational. Simple awareness begins to diminish their power. Next, actively work to transform these beliefs through four powerful practices: mastering your thoughts by catching and replacing negative self-talk; watching your language by removing phrases like "I can't" and replacing them with "I will find a way"; using daily mantras such as "I am worthy" or "I have limitless potential"; and practicing visualizations that help you release fear and doubt. Remember that forgiveness and non-judgment are essential components of this process. One of Roxie's clients who wanted to manifest a fulfilling relationship discovered that shame and self-blame from past experiences were blocking her path. Only when she processed these emotions with compassion, removing judgment and choosing a new narrative, did she create space for her soulmate to enter her life.
Chapter 3: Align Your Actions with Your Highest Self
Aligning your behavior means demonstrating through action what you believe you deserve. This step distinguishes manifestation from passive wishful thinking—you cannot simply visualize your desires and wait for them to appear. You must become proactive in bringing them to life. Consider Roxie's friend who dreamed of becoming a life coach for men but held back due to fears about his value and potential failure. After embracing manifestation principles, he asked himself, "If I were already a successful coach, what would I be doing?" Then he began acting as if he were already successful—creating content, connecting with industry peers, and offering sessions. By behaving as his future self would, he gradually built a thriving coaching practice with loyal clients and even hosted webinars featuring influential mental health experts. The universe responded to his aligned actions with matching opportunities. This principle works because our behavior directly reflects our self-worth. When Roxie was trapped in a cycle of self-doubt about her career, her fear of rejection prevented her from taking necessary risks. But when she began treating herself with the respect she deserved and taking consistent action toward her goals, her income increased tenfold within two years. Her external reality shifted to match her internal transformation and aligned behaviors. To apply this in your life, first identify your "why"—the deeper reason driving your desire. This purpose will sustain you through discomfort. Then, remove excuses that serve as self-sabotage. When you say "I'm too busy" or "I'll do it another day," question whether these statements protect you from fear of failure. Next, commit to persisting through challenges rather than abandoning your goals at the first obstacle. As Roxie discovered, every successful person shares the ability to continue despite setbacks. A particularly powerful technique for taking aligned action comes from Mel Robbins' "5-second rule." When you feel hesitation before taking action, count backward from five, then move before reaching zero. Roxie used this before hosting her first workshop when imposter syndrome threatened to paralyze her. By counting down and stepping forward anyway, she discovered she was exactly where she belonged. Remember that stepping outside your comfort zone will feel uncomfortable at first. Your subconscious finds safety in familiarity, even when it limits you. This explains why we often self-sabotage when making positive changes—our minds panic at the unfamiliar. Recognize this as part of the process and commit to sitting through the discomfort until new patterns become your normal.
Chapter 4: Transform Obstacles into Stepping Stones
On any manifestation journey, you'll encounter tests from the universe designed to challenge your self-worth and commitment. These obstacles aren't punishments but opportunities to demonstrate what you truly believe you deserve. One common test appears when manifesting relationships. Roxie explains that before meeting your soulmate, you'll often experience "the test of the ex"—a former partner suddenly reappearing when your true match is nearby. This test presents a choice: return to something familiar but wrong for you, or close that door firmly and create space for what you truly desire. Many people keep these connections open for comfort or validation, unconsciously signaling to the universe that they don't fully trust better options are coming. Another example comes from Roxie's friend, a makeup artist who wanted to be signed by a specific prestigious agency. After months of aligned action—building his portfolio and developing his authentic style—he received an offer from a different agency. Though tempted to accept out of fear no better option would come, he declined, trusting his worth and vision. Five months later, he signed with his dream agency. His ability to pass this test demonstrated unshakable belief in his value. These tests often require choosing between an abundance mindset (believing there's more than enough for everyone) and a scarcity mindset (fearing limited opportunities). When you're house hunting and find a property that's "almost right," do you settle out of fear nothing better exists, or trust that your perfect home awaits? Your choice reveals your deeper beliefs about what you deserve. Rejection also serves as a powerful test. When Roxie was launching her podcast and reached out to potential guests, the first celebrity she contacted declined. She had a choice: let embarrassment derail her project or reframe the experience as a test of her resilience. She chose the latter, immediately messaging five more people who all said yes. By the end of the year, she had recorded precisely the number of episodes she'd visualized, and her podcast was advertised on billboards throughout London. The philosopher Helena Blavatsky wrote, "Do not be afraid of your difficulties. Do not wish you could be in other circumstances than you are. For when you have made the best of adversity, it becomes the stepping stone to a splendid opportunity." This principle has proven true repeatedly in manifestation practice—when we overcome tests with unwavering self-belief, we emerge stronger and more magnetic. To apply this wisdom, recognize tests when they appear and respond from your highest self. When plans change unexpectedly or opportunities fall through, remember that sometimes things don't work out because something better awaits. Choose to trust the process rather than allowing disappointment to lower your vibration or shake your faith.
Chapter 5: Practice Gratitude as a Magnetic Force
Gratitude is perhaps the most powerful emotional tool for manifestation, capable of instantly shifting your vibrational frequency and unlocking abundance. Understanding this requires recognizing that different emotions carry different energetic frequencies—shame, anger, and jealousy vibrate at low frequencies, while joy, contentment, and gratitude vibrate at high frequencies. Since we attract what matches our energy, gratitude becomes a magnetic force for positive manifestation. Dr. Joe Dispenza's research reveals the remarkable physical impact of gratitude: studies found that replacing fear with "gratitude, appreciation and kindness for just ten minutes a day, three times a day" strengthened the immune system by 50% in just four days. This scientific evidence demonstrates how our emotional state literally changes our physical reality, validating the core principle of manifestation. Roxie experienced this transformation firsthand when manifesting her dream home. While living in a run-down apartment during her pregnancy, she initially resented her circumstances. Her breakthrough came during the pandemic lockdown when she finally embraced genuine gratitude for having shelter, for the home she'd created for her family, and for her father's generosity in providing the space. Within days of this energetic shift, a serendipitous opportunity appeared—a friend's perfect apartment became available at an unexpectedly affordable price. Her sincere gratitude had cleared the path for this manifestation. The key distinction Roxie emphasizes is practicing "gratitude without caveats"—the tendency to say "I love my job, but..." or "I'm grateful for my home, except..." These qualifiers undermine true gratitude. Many fear that complete contentment with current circumstances will remove motivation for growth, but the opposite is true. The manifestation "sweet spot" combines clear vision for your future with complete gratitude for your present. To incorporate this practice, try gratitude journaling using one of two effective techniques. First, write fifteen things you're grateful for daily, including five about yourself, five about your day, and five about the world. Alternatively, create a "positivity journal" where you record every good thing that happened during your day, from sunshine to a stranger's smile. After two weeks of this practice, Roxie manifested her opportunity to write for British Vogue—a long-held dream that materialized when her elevated vibration inspired aligned action. Another simple practice involves switching "I have to" language to "I get to" in daily conversation. When Roxie attended a challenging spin class and found herself wishing it would end, the instructor called out, "Remember: you don't have to be here, you get to be here!" This perspective shift instantly transformed her experience by highlighting the privilege of having a healthy body capable of exercise. This subtle language change creates immediate gratitude. Finally, practice mindfulness to fully appreciate the present moment rather than constantly anticipating the future. Notice life's small pleasures—fresh coffee aroma, morning sunlight, a warm bath—and allow yourself to fully experience them. These moments of presence and appreciation keep your vibration consistently high, making you magnetic to abundance.
Chapter 6: Turn Comparison into Inspiration
Envy is a low-vibrational emotion rooted in scarcity thinking, telling the universe, "When I see someone else with something I want, I feel resentful because I don't believe I can have it for myself." Inspiration, conversely, comes from abundance, saying, "I believe there's enough for everyone, and I can have this too." Social media particularly triggers this comparison trap. Roxie shares how she once used Instagram as a tool for self-sabotage, scrolling through fashionable London parties she wasn't invited to, feeding her belief that she wasn't enough. This pattern kept her vibration consistently low, blocking positive manifestations. Another client found herself dreading weekends because seeing others' social activities made her feel inadequate—until she realized she actually preferred quiet evenings at home and early Sunday runs. Social media had made her envious of a lifestyle she didn't even want. We often judge envy harshly because childhood stories portrayed jealousy as evil—think of Snow White's wicked queen or Cinderella's stepsisters. This association creates shame when we experience natural feelings of comparison. However, envy isn't inherently bad; it's simply an emotional signal highlighting areas where we question our self-worth or fear scarcity. When Roxie's friend became a personal trainer and suddenly felt threatened by other trainers, her envy revealed underlying fears about client acquisition rather than true ill-will toward colleagues. The transformative practice is turning envy into inspiration by shifting from "This is something they have, and I can't have" to "This is something they have that I would like for myself too." When manifesting relationships, instead of resenting friends' partnerships, try thinking, "I love seeing two people so happy together. It's beautiful to watch, and I'm excited to experience that for myself when the time is right." This simple reframe changes your energy from low-vibration jealousy to high-vibration inspiration. Roxie applies this principle in her career, where she could easily compare herself to countless other coaches, mentors, and authors. Instead of viewing others' success as threatening her opportunities, she celebrates their achievements and finds inspiration in their work. This abundance mindset affirms her belief that "for the thousands of brilliant people coaching, teaching and writing, there are a million more people wanting to learn." This perspective attracts more abundance rather than limiting it. To practice this transformation, start by becoming aware of envy when it arises. Remove shame and judgment, offering yourself compassion instead. Learn from the feeling by asking what it reveals about your desires. Then consciously reframe your perspective to find inspiration in what triggered your comparison. For example, when seeing a successful entrepreneur's story, shift from "I'll never achieve that level of success" to "Their journey shows what's possible when you follow your passion consistently." Additionally, actively seek out inspiration from those who have manifested what you desire. Their success provides evidence for your subconscious that your dreams are achievable, helping to dissolve limiting beliefs. When combined with gratitude practices, this approach creates an unshakable foundation for manifestation—you cannot simultaneously feel genuine gratitude for your life and envy for another's.
Summary
The journey of manifestation is not simply about attracting material possessions or achievements—it's about awakening to your true power as the architect of your reality. Through clarifying your vision, removing self-doubt, aligning your actions, transforming obstacles, practicing gratitude, and turning comparison into inspiration, you activate your inherent ability to create the life you desire. As Roxie Nafousi powerfully states, "Someone once told you that you couldn't have it all. I am here to tell you that you can." Your next step is surprisingly simple yet profound: choose one area of your life where you desire change, and begin implementing these principles today. Start with a clear visualization of what you want, identify any limiting beliefs blocking your path, take one aligned action toward your goal, practice genuine gratitude for what you already have, and find inspiration rather than comparison in others' success. Remember that the universe responds not to what you occasionally think about, but to the consistent energy you embody through your beliefs, emotions, and actions. Your magnificent future is waiting for you to claim it.
Best Quote
“Our thoughts, emotions, and feelings are all made up of energy, too, and different emotions have different frequencies. When we change our thoughts, we change how we feel and what emotions we experience, which in turn shifts our entire vibrational frequency. We then attract back to us the frequency that we put out. So, if we alter our thoughts, and therefore our emotions, we can alter our vibration and, ultimately, our reality.” ― Roxie Nafousi, Manifest: 7 Steps to Living Your Best Life
Review Summary
Strengths: The book is praised for explaining concepts clearly and making them easy to understand, without being overly fanciful. It is noted for having a logical and reasonable approach to the idea of manifesting. Weaknesses: The review criticizes the book's final chapter, which suggests that if manifesting does not work, it is due to a lack of faith in the process. This is seen as a disclaimer that places responsibility on the reader rather than the method itself. Overall Sentiment: Mixed. While the reviewer appreciates the clarity and logical presentation of the book, they are critical of the implication that failure in manifesting is due to the reader's lack of faith. Key Takeaway: The book provides a clear and logical explanation of manifesting, but its reliance on faith as a necessary component is seen as a potential drawback, as it shifts responsibility for success onto the reader.
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Manifest
By Roxie Nafousi