
You Deserve Each Other
Categories
Fiction, Audiobook, Romance, Adult, Contemporary, Contemporary Romance, Chick Lit, Enemies To Lovers, Second Chance, Second Chance Romance
Content Type
Book
Binding
Kindle Edition
Year
2020
Publisher
G.P. Putnam's Sons
Language
English
ASIN
B07V791JBB
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You Deserve Each Other Plot Summary
Introduction
# Silent Surrender: When Love Survives the War We Wage Against It The scissors hover above Naomi's bangs like a blade poised to strike. In the bathroom mirror, her engagement ring catches the light—a diamond that once promised forever but now feels like evidence of a crime she can't remember committing. Nicholas doesn't like bangs. He's made that clear with his passive-aggressive comments about other women's hair. So naturally, she hacks hers off in jagged, uneven layers that make her look like she's been attacked by a paper shredder. Three years ago, Nicholas Rose kissed her at a drive-in theater while mint wrappers gleamed in the cup holder, and the world ignited like a shooting star. Now they're engaged and living in a crooked house in the woods, where every conversation becomes a battle and every silence cuts deeper than words. What started as love has devolved into psychological warfare, two people who once promised each other everything now plotting elaborate ways to drive each other insane. The woman in the mirror smiles back with wild eyes and blood-red lipstick. If Nicholas wants a war, she'll give him one.
Chapter 1: The Cold War Begins: Two Hearts Choosing Battle Over Vulnerability
The flowers arrive at Naomi's workplace like a funeral arrangement—ten bouquets of white blooms that her coworkers immediately identify as potentially deadly oleander. Panic sweeps through the small gift shop as they suit up in plastic bags and burn the suspected poison in the parking lot, convinced that Dr. Nicholas Rose has finally snapped. But when the smoke clears and Nicholas texts asking if she received the jasmine, Naomi realizes the truth is far more sinister than attempted murder. He's trying to be thoughtful. Trying to fix what's broken between them with forty dollars' worth of flowers she had to beg for. The gesture stings worse than actual poison would have. At least poison would mean he cared enough to want her gone. Instead, she gets obligation flowers, the same empty tokens he showers on his suffocating mother, Deborah Rose. Their house in the woods becomes a battlefield of escalating sabotage. Naomi hides one of Deborah's hideous salt and pepper shakers under Nicholas's mattress, creating just enough of a lump to make his back ache. He retaliates by stapling all her underwear to the bedroom ceiling with industrial precision. She replaces their dentist-recommended toothpaste with charcoal paste, sending Nicholas into a ten-minute rant about dental hygiene that makes her laugh until her sides hurt. The morning everything changes starts with Naomi's cruelest trick yet. She places Nicholas's sleeping hand in a bowl of warm water, hoping to make him wet the bed like a child. Instead, he knocks the bowl over in his sleep, shattering his phone screen and destroying months of photos and contacts. His fury is volcanic, but what cuts deeper is his accusation that she's bitter about his success while she remains unemployed. Standing in their kitchen surrounded by spilled cereal, they face each other like gladiators. When he storms out, running over the pathetic Charlie Brown tree she'd grown fond of, something inside her breaks. The tree lies crushed in the driveway, its weak branches scattered like bones.
Chapter 2: Sabotage and Sanctuary: Finding Connection Through Mutual Destruction
Nicholas returns from work to find Naomi has abandoned his car in the middle of a busy intersection, fleeing on foot in a panic attack that landed her behind an abandoned Kmart. She'd tried to drive to dinner with his parents in Leon's decrepit stick-shift car, a gesture meant to shock them, but the manual transmission defeated her completely. Now she's stranded and humiliated, hiding in a retail graveyard while police lights flash around her abandoned vehicle. When Nicholas finds her crouched by the roadside, something shifts between them. Instead of lecturing her about responsibility, he wraps his expensive coat around her shoulders and handles the police with quiet competence. His fingers almost fasten the top button of the coat before he catches himself, the gesture too intimate for whatever they've become. Back at the house, they attempt to cook dinner together and create an abomination they christen "farfaccine"—a mixture of overcooked pasta, marinara sauce, ketchup, cinnamon, and coffee creamer that tastes like sewage but somehow brings them together in shared disgust. They eat it anyway, laughing at their culinary disaster while November wind howls through the trees outside. For the first time in months, they're on the same side of something. The next morning, Naomi discovers a straw wrapper bracelet she'd made Nicholas months ago, preserved in his nightstand drawer like a sacred relic. The sight of it stops her cold. This man she's been torturing has been keeping tokens of their better days, pressing flowers between book pages and saving her careless gifts as if they were treasures. The revelation cracks something open inside her chest, a fissure in the armor she's built around her heart.
Chapter 3: Cracks in the Armor: When Warfare Becomes Foreplay
Nicholas decides to become a wilderness man, buying a canoe and attempting to fish in their frozen pond. Naomi watches from a lawn chair as he struggles with his fishing line, his expensive outdoor gear making him look like a catalog model playing dress-up. When he drops his only oar and dives into the freezing water to retrieve it, she laughs so hard she can barely breathe. His retaliation is swift and merciless. He emerges from the pond like a lake monster and threatens to dunk her head-first into the icy water. The physical struggle that follows feels more like foreplay than combat. Nicholas pins her to the ground, his body hard against hers, and for a moment the air crackles with electricity they've been suppressing. But instead of kissing her, he dips her backwards until her hair touches the water, a punishment that leaves her shrieking with outrage and something dangerously close to delight. Their shower encounter that evening strips away more than just clothes. Standing naked under the hot spray, they're hyperaware of each other's bodies after months of careful distance. Nicholas stares openly while Naomi tries to cover herself, the steamy glass reflecting their desire back at them in fractured images. The tension is unbearable, but neither makes the first move. They're still too wounded, too afraid of being rejected or used. When Deborah Rose arrives unannounced that night, Nicholas and Naomi become partners in crime for the first time. They refuse to answer the door, instead appearing at an upstairs window to torment his mother with increasingly ridiculous explanations for his absence. Nicholas claims he's been raptured, eaten by dinosaurs, and finally reveals himself to be Shia LaBeouf method acting. His mother's fury only makes them laugh harder, and when she finally drives away in defeat, they collapse against each other in giddy triumph.
Chapter 4: United Front: Discovering Partnership Against the Outside World
The first crack in their armor comes when Naomi finally shows Nicholas her phone, revealing the devastating list of job rejections she's been hiding. Every application, every hope, every crushing disappointment is documented in painful detail. The craft store job she'd wanted desperately went to Melissa, her former coworker who now smugly dispenses pity from behind the register. Nicholas's response surprises her—instead of judgment, he offers comfort, holding her while she cries and promising to support whatever she wants to do. Nicholas reciprocates by revealing his own secret world. The computer game that's consumed his evenings isn't just escapism—it's a complex universe where he's built an entire identity as Grayson, a hooded warrior on an endless quest for ancient prophecies. His embarrassment at sharing this vulnerable part of himself is endearing, and when Naomi immediately finds rare treasures through sheer luck, his competitive anguish makes her fall a little in love with him again. Their emotional intimacy deepens through small gestures. Nicholas leaves a half-dead wildflower in her favorite drinking glass, picked from the dangerous barn loft despite his fear of heights. Naomi responds by shoveling his parents' driveway in secret, wearing his coveralls and earflap hat while Deborah watches in horror from the window. These acts of service feel more romantic than any grand gesture they've exchanged. The Thanksgiving dinner at his parents' house becomes their final battlefield with the outside world. When Deborah tries to prevent Naomi from eating cake, claiming she needs to lose weight for the wedding dress, Nicholas explodes with protective fury. He threatens to uninvite his own mother from their wedding, defending Naomi with a ferocity that shocks everyone at the table. They flee into the night, and Nicholas kisses her against his car while his mother watches from the doorway, their passion finally breaking free from months of suppression.
Chapter 5: Breaking Point: The Courage to Reject Everyone Else's Expectations
Their first real conversation about the future happens over Chinese takeout and Christmas tree decorating. Nicholas admits he's been going to Jackie's diner alone when he can't face going home, sitting in his car eating fast food rather than confronting whatever fresh hell awaits him. Naomi realizes she's been just as much of an escape route as his mother—another person making demands he feels obligated to meet. They're both running from intimacy, using anger as a shield against the vulnerability that real love requires. When Nicholas has to leave for a business trip to Minnesota, Naomi discovers she's lovesick in the most literal sense. Her stomach churns, her hands shake, and she can barely function without him. His early return in the middle of the night feels like a miracle, and when he finds her sleeping in their old bed, the reunion is inevitable. Their lovemaking is desperate and tender, months of suppressed longing finally finding release in whispered confessions and trembling hands. The morning after brings a job offer that changes everything. Leon has bought the old junk shop and is turning it into a restaurant called Backwoods Buffet. He wants Naomi to help design the atmosphere, to make it the kind of place that feels like family. The irony isn't lost on her—she's found her calling in the ruins of her old life, and Nicholas's faith in her abilities finally makes sense. Their relationship transforms as they learn to be teammates instead of opponents. Nicholas starts defending himself against toxic friends, finally recognizing behavior he'd tolerated for years. Naomi stops hiding her failures and starts sharing her hopes, letting Nicholas see her vulnerability without armor. They play games with Leon and Brandy, double-date at wine and paint nights, and slowly build the partnership they'd promised each other but never actually created.
Chapter 6: Authentic Foundation: Rebuilding Love on Their Own Terms
The wedding invitations become the symbol of everything wrong with their relationship. Designed by Deborah, printed with formal language that sounds nothing like them, addressed to people they barely know, the invitations represent a wedding that belongs to everyone except the bride and groom. When Naomi finds them in the trash, her heart breaks—not because Nicholas doesn't want to marry her, but because she thinks he's given up on them entirely. Their confrontation in the Jackie's parking lot strips away the last of their pretenses. Nicholas explains that he threw away the invitations because they represented a fake wedding, a performance for people who don't matter. He wants to marry Naomi, but he wants it to be about them—their love, their choices, their future. They spend the evening wadding up the hated invitations and throwing them at a dumpster, each toss representing another person they're uninviting from their sacred moment. The decision to elope happens spontaneously, born from their shared realization that they don't need anyone's permission or approval to love each other. They apply for a marriage license and plan a ceremony in their own backyard, with only Brandy and Leon as witnesses. Melvin Howard, Naomi's former boss at the junk shop, agrees to officiate. The guest list includes no family members, no childhood friends, no one who has ever made either of them feel small or unworthy. Their wedding planning becomes an act of rebellion against everything they're supposed to want. No expensive venue, no catered dinner, no photographer capturing fake smiles for people who don't understand their love. Instead, they choose authenticity over performance, intimacy over spectacle, truth over tradition.
Chapter 7: Silent Surrender: Choosing Each Other Despite Everything
Their wedding day arrives without fanfare or stress. Naomi wears coveralls over regular clothes, practical for the seventeen-degree weather. Nicholas makes her a bouquet of evergreen branches that smell like their forest home. They exchange vows by the frozen pond as snow falls around them, the barn and icicles creating a fairy-tale backdrop that no expensive venue could match. The ceremony is brief but profound. Melvin Howard speaks about love being a choice made daily, not just a feeling that strikes like lightning. When Nicholas and Naomi kiss as husband and wife, the diamond on her finger finally feels like it belongs there—not a symbol of possession, but of choice freely made. The small gathering cheers as they walk back to the house, married at last on their own terms. The reception is pizza and beer in their living room, with Brandy and Leon telling embarrassing stories and everyone laughing until their sides hurt. No stuffy speeches from disapproving relatives, no awkward dancing with people they barely tolerate. Just four people who genuinely care about each other, celebrating love that survived its own destruction. As night falls and their friends head home, Nicholas and Naomi stand in their kitchen as husband and wife, the house finally feeling like home instead of a battlefield. They've learned that love isn't about finding someone who never hurts you—it's about finding someone worth fighting for, even when the fight is against your own worst instincts. The war is over. They've both surrendered, and somehow, they've both won.
Summary
In the end, Naomi and Nicholas discover that sometimes the only way to save a relationship is to let it completely fall apart first. Their journey from bitter enemies back to devoted partners proves that real love requires the courage to strip away every expectation, every outside influence, every false version of themselves before they can find the truth underneath. They had to learn to choose each other over comfort, growth over stagnation, partnership over performance. Standing in their snowy backyard as newly married partners, they've created something entirely their own—a love story that belongs to no one but them, a future built on the solid foundation of having seen each other at their absolute worst and choosing to stay anyway. The house in the woods that once felt like a prison has become their sanctuary, and the ring that once felt like a shackle now represents the freedom to be completely, authentically themselves with the one person who knows all their secrets and loves them still.
Best Quote
“But you still haven't said you love me.""That's not true.""You haven't.""I say it all the time, I just say it very, very quietly. I tell you when you're in another room, or right after we hang up the phone. I tell you when you've got headphones on. I say it after you shut the door behind you. I say it in my head every time you look at me.” ― Sarah Hogle, You Deserve Each Other
Review Summary
Strengths: The reviewer appreciates the humor and creativity of the book, describing it as a "hilariously mean romantic comedy." The casting for the movie adaptation is praised, and the pranks between characters are noted as entertaining. Weaknesses: The book initially irritated the reviewer due to the characters' immature behavior and lack of communication. The promotion as similar to "The Hating Game" is considered misleading, and the characters are described as "spoiled toddlers" and "douchebags." Overall: The reviewer has mixed feelings, initially disliking the characters and their dynamics but eventually rooting for them as the story progresses. Despite early frustrations, the book's humor and eventual character development lead to a positive sentiment.
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