Good Vibes, Good Life

Good Vibes, Good Life Plot Summary

Introduction

When I was at my lowest point, everything felt impossible. My career was stagnant, my relationships were toxic, and I couldn't remember the last time I truly felt joy. Each morning, I would wake up with a heaviness in my chest that wouldn't subside. I believed this was simply my lot in life - to exist rather than to live. Then one day, while waiting for my coffee in a small café, I overheard a conversation that would change everything. A woman was telling her friend how she had transformed her life not by changing her circumstances, but by changing her vibration - her energy, her mindset, and ultimately, her reality. This concept of vibration - that our energy and thoughts create our experiences - isn't just spiritual talk. It's a fundamental way of understanding how we interact with the world around us. When we learn to raise our vibration through self-love, positive habits, and mindful action, we begin to manifest a life of purpose and joy. The journey isn't about ignoring life's challenges but about approaching them from a higher perspective. This journey of transformation is available to everyone, regardless of current circumstances. Through stories of real transformation and practical guidance, we'll explore how shifting your energy can create profound changes in every aspect of your life, from relationships to career to personal fulfillment.

Chapter 1: Finding Your Vibration: The Foundation of Change

For three years of my childhood, I lived without a fixed home. My family and I stayed with relatives and occasionally in housing shelters. I remember one particularly frightening night in a shelter when we returned to find blood splattered across the staircase and walls. Glass fragments covered the floor. As a four-year-old child, I was terrified, but my mother pulled us close and told us not to worry - though I could hear her heart pounding. We heard screams and chaos throughout the night, with no police intervention. It felt like no one cared about our safety or existence. In that moment, all we had was each other in what seemed like a cold, corrupt world. When I share such childhood memories with friends, they're often surprised by how much I recall from such a young age. While the details may not be crystal clear, the emotions attached to these experiences remain vivid. These memories haunted me for many years. In my late teens, I wished these memories would disappear. I felt uncomfortable with who I was and often behaved in ways that didn't reflect my true self. Hurt by the world, I sometimes wanted to hurt it back. Today, I view these memories differently. I embrace everything that happened, recognizing that every event - good, bad, and ugly - shaped who I've become. Though painful, these experiences were blessings that taught me valuable lessons. They instilled in me a drive to escape misery and find a path toward a better life. This transformation began when I discovered the Law of Attraction through a book called The Secret, which promised that what we think about, we bring about. My first test of this principle came when I desperately needed money to join friends on a holiday. After focusing positively on this goal, I unexpectedly received a tax rebate of £800 - more than enough for the trip. This experience made me a believer in the power of attraction. However, I soon realized that maintaining positive thoughts during difficult times wasn't easy. My vibration would fluctuate from highs to extreme lows, and my life reflected these inconsistencies. What I discovered was that beyond the Law of Attraction lies the more fundamental Law of Vibration - the understanding that everything in the universe, including our thoughts, emotions, words, and actions, vibrates at certain frequencies. By changing how we think, feel, speak, and act, we begin to change our world. To receive or perceive the reality we desire, we must be in energetic harmony with it. Like tuning forks calibrated to the same frequency, we must align with what we want to attract it into our lives. The journey to transformation isn't just about positive thinking; it's about elevating your entire vibrational state to create the life you deserve. When you raise your vibration, you not only feel better but also become a magnet for experiences that match your higher frequency.

Chapter 2: Building Positive Habits That Transform Reality

I noticed that after committing to positive thinking, some days were easier than others. During a particularly stressful period at university, I faced a major setback in a group project that counted significantly toward my final grade. Our group became divided over each member's contributions, resulting in heated arguments and bitter exchanges. My friend Darryl and I felt unfairly treated and suddenly faced impossible deadlines with our graduation at stake. I felt like everything was falling apart. I had gone to university primarily to make my mother proud, who had struggled her whole life. Now, I was about to fail and let her down. I told her I wanted to quit, blaming her for my predicament. Despite her loving attempts to encourage me, I remained angry and hopeless. I even began applying for jobs I wasn't qualified for, thinking it was better than facing my academic challenges. However, an unexpected shift occurred when I attended my sister's wedding in Goa, India. Despite my reluctance to go, the beautiful environment and the happiness surrounding my sister and her new husband created a welcome change in me. For the first time in ages, I felt grateful. This renewed steadiness motivated me to finish what needed to be done. I created a vision board with my desired grades, spent hours daily in the library completing assignments, and made time to connect with positive people during breaks. When results came, I passed comfortably and even aced one of the hardest exams. This experience taught me that our emotional state - our vibration - significantly influences our reality. When feeling good, we naturally think good thoughts and take positive actions. Building positive lifestyle habits helps maintain this higher vibration. Surrounding yourself with positive people, practicing gratitude, changing your body language, taking time for yourself in nature, finding inspiration, avoiding gossip and drama, eating nutritious foods, and meditating are all powerful ways to raise your vibration. Meditation particularly transformed my life. After committing to 30 consecutive days of focused meditation, I noticed profound changes. My anger, which had troubled me for years, diminished significantly. I gained the ability to remain calm amidst chaos and had more conscious control over my thoughts. Through regular practice, meditation helps break down the walls of our conditioned mind, giving us an opportunity to become more authentic and gain perspective on restricting thoughts. The journey to transformation requires developing habits that consistently raise your vibration. While some activities provide temporary relief, developing sustainable practices creates lasting change. By cultivating these positive habits, you create a foundation for attracting more of what you desire into your life.

Chapter 3: Prioritizing Yourself Without Guilt

It's not selfish to put yourself first. You have abundant energy to give, but you must save some for yourself. Your longest relationship in life is with yourself, and only by managing this relationship well can you manage your relationships with others. Unfortunately, even well-meaning people can repeatedly inflict pain on our souls without considering how their actions affect us. While ideally we'd maintain our mood regardless of others' behavior, most of us aren't there yet spiritually. I experienced this firsthand when trying to support a flatmate who was suicidal after a breakup. I spent my evenings with him, offering support and advice. But after a while, I noticed I wasn't feeling like myself anymore; I was starting to feel really down. I realized that as much as I wanted to be there for him, I had to think about myself too. I felt empty, and couldn't pour from an empty cup. I created some distance between us temporarily, keeping our interactions minimal. Inside, I punished myself for not being there more, feeling I needed to be God-like and simply accept the situation. However, I recognized that unless I felt good myself, I couldn't offer proper support. Eventually, I raised my vibration and became more effective in helping him. Now, years later, with greater awareness and understanding, I can keep my vibration steady even when someone else's is low, though I'm still careful to protect my energy from those who might drain it. Sometimes, cutting out toxic people becomes necessary for your well-being. Like a plant kept under toxic conditions, you can't grow and will eventually wither. But under the right conditions, you'll thrive and grow into something beautiful. When strong enough, you become harder to destroy. Though ending toxic relationships can be incredibly difficult, removing negative influences makes space for positivity to flow. You gain time for introspection, healing, and growth. It's equally important to review your own behavior. We often want others to stop being toxic without examining our own actions. The most important relationship is with yourself, so there's no excuse not to break free from your own toxic tendencies. Always check whether you're projecting negativity, shifting blame, or failing to take responsibility for your actions. In relationships, work, and social connections, prioritizing yourself means recognizing when something isn't serving you and having the courage to walk away. Whether it's leaving a toxic job despite financial uncertainty or ending a relationship that diminishes your self-worth, these difficult decisions ultimately create space for growth and authentic happiness. Remember that making yourself a priority isn't selfish - it's necessary for your well-being and for your ability to be truly present for others. By protecting your energy and choosing environments that support your growth, you create the foundation for a more purposeful and joyful life.

Chapter 4: Embracing Self-Acceptance and Inner Worth

Someone once posed the question: "If I asked you to name all the things you love, how long would it take for you to name yourself?" This question highlights how many of us neglect self-love. We're conditioned to care more about others' opinions than our own, trying desperately to impress people while remaining unsatisfied because we don't truly like ourselves. I experienced this growing up in a neighborhood where I was subjected to racism. If I wanted to play outside, I'd spend the first half-hour fighting at least two or three kids. When they told me to go back to my own country, I was deeply offended. This was my country, and I believed I had the right to play outside. This thought built such rage in me that I resorted to violence as a defense, though I wasn't naturally violent - I'd often hurt kids and then immediately feel guilty, asking if they were okay. Our physical appearance can become another battleground for self-acceptance. We're bombarded with images showing conventionally attractive bodies, which magnify our insecurities. Through my work, I've encountered many young people struggling with this issue. One well-known figure I got to know had acquired significant online hate because of her appearance. The pressure led her to undergo cosmetic surgery, but the criticism continued - first for not meeting society's standards, then for trying to "fix" it. The truth became clear: you simply cannot satisfy everyone. I also spoke with a young woman who admired this public figure and admitted feeling insecure when comparing herself. She even left negative comments about other public figures' appearances because they weren't as beautiful as her idol. I pointed out that similar comments were why her idol had resorted to surgery. This cycle of negativity spreads online and rebounds even on those we claim to admire. Constant comparison drives us into negative, loveless thoughts. Beyond physical appearance, comparison in general steals our joy. During school, I rarely invited friends to my house because I felt embarrassed by its size and condition. At social events, I feared being mocked for not wearing expensive clothes. If we strive to accept ourselves as we are, we place emphasis on our own wellbeing and contentment, regardless of others' acceptance. We recognize our worth independently of others' recognition. Self-acceptance means understanding that your individuality is a blessing, not a burden. Society often makes us feel wrong for being ourselves, calling us quiet, weak, obsessed, rude, arrogant, boring, weird, or fake for simply expressing our authentic nature. But you don't have to play the part others want you to play. Create your own role in the world and embrace your uniqueness without apology. True self-love involves forgiving yourself for past mistakes and being kind to your inner voice. Most of us wouldn't punish a child for errors made while learning, yet we're often harsh with ourselves. Your words carry creative energy that can either support or limit your experience. By transforming negative self-talk into compassionate understanding, you create space for genuine growth and acceptance.

Chapter 5: Manifesting Goals Through Mindful Action

Our beliefs fundamentally shape our reality. If you don't believe in something, you'll rarely see it in your life. When trying to manifest goals, it's crucial to maintain a high vibration and examine your core beliefs. Positive thinking isn't just optimism; it's choosing thoughts that empower rather than limit you. I had a core belief that "I can't change my future, so I'll never achieve big things." This belief didn't make me feel good, but changing it seemed like lying to myself because it felt true. When I confronted this limiting belief, I discovered it came from someone I respected who had told me everyone is given a specific life with no control over it. Some people were just born lucky, while others weren't, and we should accept our fate rather than trying to create something different. To challenge this belief, I studied successful people, particularly those born into circumstances like mine who achieved greatness. I found countless examples, many from worse situations than mine. Their stories disproved everything I'd been conditioned to believe. With this evidence, I could accept a new belief: "I can change my future and achieve great things." Changing beliefs requires finding sufficient evidence to support the belief you want. Once these new beliefs take root, the next step is setting clear intentions. If you're unsure about what you want, you'll end up with results that reflect that uncertainty. Your goals should deeply reflect what you desire, not what you think you should want or what would impress others. Writing down your goals transforms intentions into something tangible. Colin Kaepernick, the professional American football quarterback, wrote himself a letter in fourth grade accurately predicting his future career, team, weight, and height. He wasn't psychic; he simply knew what he wanted and was specific about his vision. When writing goals, use pen and paper, be honest, write in present tense, make them positive, use your own voice, and be specific. Visualization is equally powerful - creating an experience in your mind before having it in life. Athletes like Arnold Schwarzenegger, Michael Jordan, and Roger Federer use visualization in their training. The brain patterns activated when imagining an action closely resemble those activated during physical performance. When visualizing, engage all your senses to create detailed scenes that make you feel good. However, intention without action remains just a wish. Many people know what to do but don't do it. They rely on justification or seek easier solutions because the real solution seems too demanding. For example, people wanting to lose weight often look for miracle cures rather than committing to improved diet and exercise. Others do nothing at all, defeated by the idea before trying. Consistency is key to results. Like building muscle through regular workouts, manifesting goals requires persistent effort. Breaking large goals into smaller, manageable steps makes progress less overwhelming and provides dopamine-releasing accomplishments along the way. Even when motivation wanes, proceeding anyway - with grit and commitment - distinguishes ordinary from extraordinary achievement. The journey to manifesting your dreams combines mindful intention with dedicated action. By aligning your beliefs, thoughts, and behaviors with your desires, you create powerful momentum toward your goals.

Chapter 6: Transforming Pain into Purpose

Life doesn't battle you because you're weak; it battles you because you're strong. It knows that if it gives you pain, you'll realize your power. Every experience is designed to shape you and help you grow into the highest version of yourself. This means even negative experiences can be opportunities for growth rather than just suffering. Sometimes we just have to believe there's a good reason behind our pain that will reveal itself when we're ready to acknowledge it. A schoolteacher once told me about his brother who missed the last train home for holiday break. Initially devastated, the brother later learned that the train had crashed, killing nearly all passengers. From his perspective, "Everything happens for a reason" made perfect sense, though the families of those who died might disagree. Our beliefs are like lenses through which we view life; we see what we convince ourselves is true. When we go through low points, life can feel confusing and challenging. It's difficult to trust the process and have faith that good things will follow. But the lessons we learn along the way help us make better choices going forward. If you've had your heart broken, you might pay more attention when choosing your next partner, potentially finding someone who treats you better than anyone before. Every choice leads to more choices, creating a chain of events that shapes our lives. Sometimes we must look back and connect the dots to see how seemingly negative events led to positive outcomes. This perspective helps us trust that future events, whether painful or pleasant, have purpose. I believe everyone has a higher purpose: to be of service to the world. This purpose, along with experiencing unconditional love and joy, gives meaning to our existence. Many struggle to identify their true purpose or reject it for practicality. Like a soccer ball that feels fulfilled only when kicked (its designed purpose), humans experience ultimate fulfillment when living their intended purpose. Following your excitement is the shortest path to realizing what you want. Take action on whatever truly excites you, without justification. The things you're naturally drawn to aren't random; they're picking you just as you're pursuing them. Don't worry about figuring everything out immediately or how your path will unfold. Show your excitement to the Universe, and it will provide more things to be excited about. You were created with intention - to help, love, assist, save, entertain, inspire, and make a difference. You wouldn't be on this planet if you didn't have something unique to offer. There is purpose behind your existence, and discovering it will not only change the world but also bring abundance to your life.

Chapter 7: Creating Lasting Happiness from Within

Happiness doesn't come from external sources - people, places, or things. It comes from within. We're conditioned to believe happiness depends on external influences: when we find someone to love, when we get our own house, when we lose weight. These may provide temporary happiness, but it quickly fades, leading us to pursue lasting happiness from other external things. Money is frequently linked to happiness and success. But even the wealthiest people experience sadness. If money measured happiness, at what point would the scale begin and end? Numbers are infinite, making it impossible to use as a measurement tool. We don't want money itself but the security and freedom it provides, which we believe will make us happy. Consider this: If you were the only person on earth with unlimited money, how useful would it be? What about affording any adventure while having poor health? Or buying anything you want while being completely alone? Even your ideal partner can't control your lasting happiness - they affect only your relative happiness, which vanishes if external conditions change. The advertising industry expertly manipulates our desire for happiness with the message "Buy this and you'll be happy." We purchase items hoping for fulfillment, only to find temporary satisfaction before the cycle repeats with newer versions. What if instead you could feel happy all the time? This would mean being content with what you have at any moment - for the rest of your life. This is true happiness: remaining at the highest frequency despite surface-level challenges. To sustain happiness, work toward self-mastery through spiritual growth. Make choosing empowering thoughts your natural thinking pattern. Look for the bright side, let go of the past, appreciate the present, withdraw from comparisons, and love unconditionally. Embrace what is. Be happy. Going after a greater life isn't easy, which is why most people settle for less. But by absorbing these principles and acting with determination, positivity, and tenacity, you can build unstoppable momentum toward your dreams. Remember that every challenge contains a lesson, and apparent failures are simply redirections to better paths. Trust your instincts, respect your boundaries, and follow what feels deeply right. Have faith and let go of fear to shift from ordinary to extraordinary. Connect with your higher purpose by committing to personal growth. You have everything needed to create a beautiful life, beginning with self-love. Through dedication to maintaining a high vibration, you'll achieve the incredible - and feel good along the way.

Summary

The journey to a fulfilling life begins with understanding that our vibration - our energy, thoughts, and emotions - creates our reality. When we raise our vibration through self-love and positive habits, we naturally attract experiences that match this higher frequency. The fundamental truth is that we cannot control every external circumstance, but we have complete authority over our internal state. By choosing empowering thoughts over limiting ones, cultivating self-acceptance, and taking consistent action toward our goals, we create a life that feels as good as it looks. The stories shared throughout these pages reveal a powerful pattern: transformation begins not when circumstances change, but when we change how we perceive and respond to them. Whether facing childhood trauma, academic setbacks, toxic relationships, or identity struggles, the path forward always involves raising our vibration through mindful practices and courageous actions. Remember that pain often serves as a catalyst for discovering your higher purpose. By embracing your unique gifts and following what genuinely excites you, you align with the Universe's support. True happiness isn't found in external achievements or possessions but in maintaining your highest vibrational state regardless of circumstances. This is the ultimate manifestation - creating a life that feels good from the inside out.

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Vex King

Vex King is the Number 1 Sunday Times Bestselling author of Good Vibes, Good Life, and Healing is the New High. He is also a social media content creator and mind coach. He experienced many challenges when he was growing up: his father died when Vex was just a baby, his family were often homeless and he grew up in troubled neighbourhoods where he regularly experienced violence and racism. Despite this, Vex successfully turned his whole life around and is now leading a revolution for the next generation of spiritual seekers.As a major voice in the world of personal development, Vex shares deep spiritual knowledge in a way that's easy to understand, with stories from his own life, great inspirational quotes and practical solutions.For more inspiration from Vex, follow his popular social media platforms (all @vexking) and sign up to his mailing list at: www.vexking.com

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